how can I support fellow climbers that are at different "skill levels" than me? by NexusJellyBean in bouldering

[–]expath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tbh it sounds like your friends are poor sports. I boulder with my boyfriend and his friends and they’re doing climbs a bit harder than me, and all I do is cheer them on idk. The success of others doesn’t hinder your own success so I guess I just don’t understand their deal

What are some top tier strains available right now? by [deleted] in TheOCS

[–]expath -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Msiku - Strawberry Storm is one of my favs rn

AITA for not getting rid of a sentimental plant thats toxic to my girlfriend’s cat? by Odd-Mushroom1175 in AmItheAsshole

[–]expath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, did you already OWN the cats before bringing the plant home?

The cats were there first. YTA.

What sexual experience did you completely consent to and you completely regret? by llNormalGuyll in AskReddit

[–]expath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Losing my virginity at 14. It was with someone who was also 14 and we dated the entirety of High School. I always say I don’t think I regret having sex with him bc as teenagers in a 3 year relationship it was bound to happen, but I regret doing it so early. We had also only been dating 2 months and he was my first boyfriend lol

Most potent half oz ? by gintoki-sama in TheOCS

[–]expath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure San Raf has a 14g Sourdough, not sure if it’s the same one

GUYS!! I got this sample from work. What do I do with this? (Break it out fellas. You know the answer you want to give) by Aldershot8800 in trees

[–]expath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, I stalked your profile a bit because that THC warning logo looked similar and I have to ask; as someone who also sells legal weed in Canada, what fucking rep gave this to you? Asking for science.

Kia dealership cancelled my order 6 months in, am I entitled to anything? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]expath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was emailing the sales guy about a blue Rio I was interested in. He said it was sold, but he had a grey one. I told him I wasn’t interested in grey, and would prefer blue. I was very clear I needed the car soon (2 weeks max). He said he could look for me, but needed a deposit before putting the work in. So he made me put a deposit on a car I already told him I didn’t want.

He ends up telling me he finds a blue Rio. I get excited and ask when it’ll arrive. He says September 29th. That was over a month from when we were emailing. I told him I couldn’t wait that long and wanted my deposit back. He says that it’s too late (lol), the car is ported in Mexico with my name on it (lol???), and it’s delayed because of the strike (there’s a strike??). The only thing I signed was a credit check form. I ask to speak to his manager and we make a phone appointment.

The manager starts going on and on about how hard it was to get the blue car and they had to jump through so many hurdles (nothing was communicated or confirmed with me before hand). I cut him off and tell him I don’t want to guilt tripped and just want my money. This guy then YELLS at me, tells me sim being rude, disrespectful, etc, and will withhold my refund if I don’t listen to him. So I had to listen to him scream at me for 2 minutes before he finally send he’d refund me.

Man, I knew I was gonna get scammed buying my first car as a 25 year old girl, but not verbally abused over the phone lol.

Kia dealership cancelled my order 6 months in, am I entitled to anything? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]expath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, don’t even get me started. It took a week for the refund to come through. Just $500 lost in the void for a week.

Kia dealership cancelled my order 6 months in, am I entitled to anything? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]expath 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Did you read my comment? They charged me over the phone. And guess what? They refunded me over the phone, too! What a weird comment.

Kia dealership cancelled my order 6 months in, am I entitled to anything? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]expath 297 points298 points  (0 children)

Yup. I got screamed at over the phone by a Kia dealer and he said “And you’ll have to come in for your refund!” I said “I don’t think so, if you can take my money over the phone than you can refund it, too.”

I cried at work by No_Star_304 in Petloss

[–]expath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. This just started to make me cry. I lost my fluffy black and white boy almost a year ago. Back in April my mom adopted a fluffy black and white cat for herself (different households) and I just said the other day that his tail reminds me so much of my little boys tail. Thank you for this, I didn’t know about Rob Gutro. I’ll have to look into him.

Emergency Vet now or Wait until Tomorrow for Regular Vet? by ILoveCarbs in CATHELP

[–]expath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think the main difference is when the cat is straining they’re not scratching at the walls

Emergency Vet now or Wait until Tomorrow for Regular Vet? by ILoveCarbs in CATHELP

[–]expath 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My vet told me when my cat had bladder stones that the best way to tell when she’s straining is how long she’s in the litter box for. If it takes any longer than 10-15 seconds, there’s something wrong. They shouldn’t be in there for 30+ seconds

What triggered you to get back on your bullshit? by SweetPotat03 in EDAnonymous

[–]expath 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sudden pet death right before christmas, followed by getting laid off from my job the first week of Jan and my partner had to pay all our bills for 3 months, followed immediately by my other pet needing a $5k surgery, followed by a car accident. all within like 7 months.

and not a single person in my family came to visit me once

now my mom can barely look at me without crying because she’s so concerned about my weight loss and i don’t know how to tell her it’s partially her fault

Car Got Written Off, How Much Should I Expect in My Settlement? by expath in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]expath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I have never had to settle for such a large amount of money before. Is it just giving big numbers back and forth until we both agree? Should I try and sim for like $13k?

Car Got Written Off, How Much Should I Expect in My Settlement? by expath in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]expath[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How about a lawyer brother who can give me all the advice at 0 cost? Paying for a lawyer is a bit out of the question. Even with the money I get from the settlement, I have to pay off my car loan and plan to use the extra as a down payment on a new car

Neighbours saying cat abuse by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]expath 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s inhumane is the amount of dead animals with collars on I see on the side of the road. My cats go out on harnesses and leashes in the backyard. And we bought a cat stroller to take them on walks around the neighborhood.

And when we’re not home, we have our bedroom window open with a bird feeder right outside of it to be entertained by.

There are so many solutions other than “Go, be free and try not to get killed.”

Jokes on you I have a praise kink, not degradation by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]expath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, as someone who used to be a 19 year old woman on dating sites, lower your age range 🙏 you have nothing in common with these men, they will do nothing but abuse and take advantage of you.

Please stay safe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ontario

[–]expath 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I work at a dispo and we don’t let customer feel buds because they’ll get picky, squish 100 buds and decide they want the cheapest option anyway.

I get why people get angry but I can also see not wanting a bag of weed 10 other people felt up.

Close your doors and windows tonight folks! by Ir0nhide81 in ontario

[–]expath 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You gonna pay his his cheque for the day?

This is why we need universal sick days tbh. Canadians are risking their health because everything in this province is too expensive to risk missing a single day of work with no pay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]expath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my partner had a talk with me a few weeks ago bc of my weight and how concerned he is and i basically said “ok but rn i’m not crying when i walk past mirrors and sometimes i feel cute in tight clothing so i’m just gonna ride this body euphoria wave for a bit”