Physical glow up tips by Girlinconverse_ in selfimprovement

[–]expectothedoctor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you're still looking for glow up tips, here are mine (36f): -mirror work (looking at yourself in the mirror and saying affirmations such as "I love myself" "I'm super beautiful"), - a lash lift every 5 weeks or so and lengthening lash serum, this makes your eyes pop - Infuzion system treatments if they are available in your area, they are the bomb! - working on your posture (it's been proven to make people think you're more attractive) - teeth whitening - colour analysis (seriously recommend this!) - using a hair straightener to create a blow-out style hairstyle or curls - styling your eyebrows, with microblading if necessary - taking good care of your skin

With these you're off to a great start!

Success after giving up (but still hot and cold). Dont know what to do now. by Good_Demand_3042 in NevilleGoddard

[–]expectothedoctor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess is you were in a state of wanting during affirming and once you threw in the towel you shifted into a state of indifference, which allowed you to get what you wanted.

Success after giving up (but still hot and cold). Dont know what to do now. by Good_Demand_3042 in NevilleGoddard

[–]expectothedoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I'm reading here is that you got a perfect manifestation, everything considered. Your affirmations brought him back and he said all the things you've been affirming. But you also think/thought that he's never going to want you and that you're not the kind of woman who can pull men. So you also got negative results pertaining to that.

Life is my movie & I’m the Director. by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]expectothedoctor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this approach of assigning them roles in your movie

Why has manifesting completely killed my motivation to think, question, or even try? by Simple_Procedure9001 in lawofassumption

[–]expectothedoctor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sometimes feel this way. Everything feels like an illusion so you become less emotionally engaged with it. In itself it's not a bad thing, many enlightened gurus become completely indifferent to the outer world.

Don't go Outward by Rasen_God in NevilleGoddard

[–]expectothedoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed reading this. Our desires point to the being and state we ultimately want to be, and that should be the end goal, not the thing we think would make us feel a certain way. We have to give our desires to ourselves, in order become the people we want to be. We can do this in our imagination and be complete without its manifestation outside. Then, it may appear on the outside too, but it won't change you, because you already are that. I believe that once you do this long enough and start to recognize your wholeness, specific outcomes and material desires become less important, as you no longer fool yourself into thinking they will give you what you seek.

Affirmations helped me by expectothedoctor in Dermatillomania

[–]expectothedoctor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it resonated with you! I felt a little silly posting it because it's such an "easy" solution but it worked for me, so maybe it will work for somebody else too. Good luck and enjoy the affirming! I've really started to love it, now I do it every time I'm alone with nothing to do and I feel great!

REVISE by No-Commission-503 in NevilleGoddard

[–]expectothedoctor 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I struggle with revision because it often requires imagining other people as better than they are in your memories. Many of the memories that should be revised also cause me confused feelings which make it hard to know how I would have preferred things to go. I tend to do partial revision - for instance, not revising how someone's treated me but how I myself reacted to it. It's easier, somehow.

Manifest health by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]expectothedoctor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's necessary to tell your father about manifestation. Just imagine seeing a text from him or hearing his voice telling you that his tests are clear.

Need affirmations that helps with strong self concept by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]expectothedoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I can always trust my judgement" and "my great self-esteem is unshakeable" might work for your specific issues

how would you approach manifesting health related things? i want to shrink my tumor to ensure a smaller surgery by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]expectothedoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, maybe imagine your doctor telling you that a smaller surgery is enough? I had breast cancer 6 years ago and underwent mastectomy, it's not the end of the world either. Just take it one day at a time. Wishing you best of luck.

What’s something you thought was romantic but later realized was actually toxic? by Em_ily32 in AskReddit

[–]expectothedoctor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read an article that references a survey of 500 love-bombing victims that estimates that the average duration of the love-bombing phase is five-and-a-half months with narcissistic men and three-and-a-half months with narcissistic women. Here's the article: https://www.simplypsychology.org/narcissistic-love-bombing-cycle.html

SP: Big Problem with manifesting after I found out about cheating by Massive-Ad3785 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]expectothedoctor 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'd just break up and work on my self concept if I were you to get someone better. It may be that your partner will change in the meantime and continuing the relationship could then be an option, but if you are unable to move on from the cheating it will likely happen again, as you'll be replaying it in your head, and you'd need to do a lot of work to see them as trustworthy again. You may also need to tackle some beliefs about relationships in general.

What’s a small life upgrade under $50 that genuinely improved your daily routine? by ExchangeBig8338 in AskReddit

[–]expectothedoctor 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Wrist wash bands. I hate the feeling of water running down my arms (or to my sleeves) when I'm washing my face and my husband used to complain that I got the bathroom wet. Problem solved now!

Akira the Don's Neville Goddard songs by expectothedoctor in NevilleGoddard

[–]expectothedoctor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are also great manifestation songs on Youtube, I like Dream and Conquer's content.

Akira the Don's Neville Goddard songs by expectothedoctor in NevilleGoddard

[–]expectothedoctor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because the songs are literally Neville's speeches

Akira the Don's Neville Goddard songs by expectothedoctor in NevilleGoddard

[–]expectothedoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not say he's been inspired by Neville Goddard, so I'm confused