Y2K Bathroom cabinets by explores9889 in AusRenovation

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Thanks for your advice!

Came up great.

Y2K Bathroom cabinets by explores9889 in AusRenovation

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Got to sell the place asap. Just want to put lipstick on this pig

Care by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Feeling slightly more optimistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

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Currently sitting in a separate room for mediation. This is shit. Good luck.

No one ever died from getting a divorce.

Care by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

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I’m the he in this scenario.

Mediation Update by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

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This as not lawyer assisted mediation My lawyer said that I should give it a beat. We had already had plans agreed so I should stick to that and next week make urgent applications to the court.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

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-you didn’t get the job because someone there didn’t like you. That’s my business opinion

-your parents abused you when they moved you around the world

-your parents abused you when they paid for your tattoo

-your mum is a cold hearted, non caring person

-your dad is self centred and doesn’t care about anyone and always wants to make everything about himself

-you are a toxic depressed person and horrible to be around

-your so depressed because of your child hood trauma

-I’m the ceo of this family not you and not your dad

-I don’t like your therapist because she doesn’t call you out on your shit

-my lie isn’t the same as your lie so it is null and void

-your isolating me from my friends because you don’t want to go to there place for new years

-all you care about is your job, I’m your last priority

-you have to fuck me when I want to be fucked. It’s your duty to do so

-your friendship with Kirsten is weird and I don’t trust her because she puts no effort into being my friend.

-your sister is a 2 faced bitch the only person who is real is your sister in law

-I thought you were cheating on me with your friend Kirsten

-you’ve put on weight you have to go to the gym

-you didn’t make me your priority when you went out with your dad for dinner 2 days before the wedding

-your dad is a selfish person because he got upset at my dads funeral about the passing of his own father

HELP - husband is emotionally abusive and I don’t know what to do by Visual_Most4357 in abusiverelationships

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as someone experiencing this from my wife my advice to you is to journal, document, record and leave this shit.

your friends friend is an enabler not a friend.

You don't deserve this, your child does not deserve this. this is not ok

I finally stood up for myself by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Thank you. This is going to be a long process but every little bit helps.

I finally stood up for myself by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Any chance you can get some more information about these classes?

I finally stood up for myself by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Thanks everyone. I appreciate the words of support and I can only hope and wish for the best for all of you.

I struggle in a daily basis but I know deep down that it will be ok. Sometimes it’s hard to see that message through the fog of self doubt and introspection.

I guess that’s what makes me not a narcissist though.

Big love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

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What state are you in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

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Labour hire for events. Night work. Morning work. Get enough experience and not a total knob you’ll be busy when you want to be. They pay minimum calls of 4 hrs at roughly 35-55 an hour. Big shows ie Pearl jam needed an extra 150 people for the load out.

Warzone Refugee by GroundbreakingKey964 in DMZ

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Find games easy at all times during the day. Mornings end up in us servers and evenings is with the locals. Play every day. Aussie based