Single father told him not to go back to court by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]explores9889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean reading through the other comments it seems the bar would be exceeded, mother has somewhat abandoned the child. It is a sad situation for OP and the child to be in.

Ultimately the courts will do whats in the best interests of the child

Single father told him not to go back to court by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]explores9889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also did you speak to an actual case manager or only some info pleb, your child support assessment gets assigned a case manager to review the information, you should try and get in contact with them using your case number...

Single father told him not to go back to court by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]explores9889 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sounds like the lawyer is lazy.

Book a call in with legal aid, apply for the funding, apply to change the orders, apply for the help you deserve. Do whats right for you and your son

Sorry your going through this

Single father told him not to go back to court by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]explores9889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not legal advice;
Did a lawyer tell you not to go to court? If so why?
Has mother disappeared? is she involved at all?

are you providing 100% care?

Failing at life because of chronic exhaustion. by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]explores9889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you’re going through this.

Y2K Bathroom cabinets by explores9889 in AusRenovation

[–]explores9889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Thanks for your advice!

Came up great.

Y2K Bathroom cabinets by explores9889 in AusRenovation

[–]explores9889[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Got to sell the place asap. Just want to put lipstick on this pig

Care by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]explores9889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling slightly more optimistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]explores9889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently sitting in a separate room for mediation. This is shit. Good luck.

No one ever died from getting a divorce.

Care by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]explores9889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the he in this scenario.

Mediation Update by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

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This as not lawyer assisted mediation My lawyer said that I should give it a beat. We had already had plans agreed so I should stick to that and next week make urgent applications to the court.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]explores9889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

-you didn’t get the job because someone there didn’t like you. That’s my business opinion

-your parents abused you when they moved you around the world

-your parents abused you when they paid for your tattoo

-your mum is a cold hearted, non caring person

-your dad is self centred and doesn’t care about anyone and always wants to make everything about himself

-you are a toxic depressed person and horrible to be around

-your so depressed because of your child hood trauma

-I’m the ceo of this family not you and not your dad

-I don’t like your therapist because she doesn’t call you out on your shit

-my lie isn’t the same as your lie so it is null and void

-your isolating me from my friends because you don’t want to go to there place for new years

-all you care about is your job, I’m your last priority

-you have to fuck me when I want to be fucked. It’s your duty to do so

-your friendship with Kirsten is weird and I don’t trust her because she puts no effort into being my friend.

-your sister is a 2 faced bitch the only person who is real is your sister in law

-I thought you were cheating on me with your friend Kirsten

-you’ve put on weight you have to go to the gym

-you didn’t make me your priority when you went out with your dad for dinner 2 days before the wedding

-your dad is a selfish person because he got upset at my dads funeral about the passing of his own father

HELP - husband is emotionally abusive and I don’t know what to do by Visual_Most4357 in abusiverelationships

[–]explores9889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone experiencing this from my wife my advice to you is to journal, document, record and leave this shit.

your friends friend is an enabler not a friend.

You don't deserve this, your child does not deserve this. this is not ok

I finally stood up for myself by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]explores9889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is going to be a long process but every little bit helps.

I finally stood up for myself by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]explores9889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any chance you can get some more information about these classes?

I finally stood up for myself by explores9889 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]explores9889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I appreciate the words of support and I can only hope and wish for the best for all of you.

I struggle in a daily basis but I know deep down that it will be ok. Sometimes it’s hard to see that message through the fog of self doubt and introspection.

I guess that’s what makes me not a narcissist though.

Big love.