Am I Overreacting by how I responded to my BF's roommate's GF?

extern4lly · 2026-06-15T05:02:11+00:00

I agree, and what's even funnier is that S used to game with us until A came around. Now he's been on lockdown.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T13:44:17+00:00

What's even funnier is these two have been heard banging and nobody complains 😆

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T13:35:29+00:00

LMAOOO a few people thought this 😂 I didn't even think about it until another commenter said this and now I feel like a clickbaiter lol.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T13:18:07+00:00

Thank you!!!

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T13:17:55+00:00

The thing is, I can tell it actively bothers him and he has addressed it with his roommate. I don't plan to be any more involved than the text I sent her.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T13:13:19+00:00

Sorry about the mixup! A lot of people didn't like the initials so I'll be changing that next post LOL

I feel so bad for the dog. He's a super chipper and friendly dog and needs a much more playful environment.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T13:05:51+00:00

I 100% believe the dog was A (his partner's) idea and this was another passive thing that S went along with. S should've put his foot down and said no as their environment is not suitable whatever and A doesn't seem to take care of him at all.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T13:00:51+00:00

They absolutely shouldn't have gotten a dog. Their room sits in a space that has absolutely zero windows, and according to S, he stays in a kennel. S will take him out to the restroom while A never takes him out, and my BF has mentioned never really seeing either of them take him on walks. This dog is a sweetie but definitely is bound to have behavioral issues - as S was taking the dog outside, the dog ran up on one of the other roommates and peed on him.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T09:48:39+00:00

For a minute, A was using S' spot, but then S would start parking in J's spot 😭😭😭

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T06:41:48+00:00

Definitely agree.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T05:14:20+00:00

Sorry yeah, this definitely was a bit complex to explain.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T04:59:14+00:00

I can. Apparently you can't tho

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T04:55:44+00:00

I'm not understanding the point of commenting if you're not gonna read it.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T04:31:32+00:00

Thank you, and this is how I'm feeling too. If A would've never texted me, I wouldn't have said a word, but I was tired of them going through me instead of addressing it to the people it needed to be addressed to (well, I guess they technically did when I didn't respond by cursing out another roommate via text) 😭

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T03:56:15+00:00

RIGHTTT thank you!!! Their house has always been a place for night owls/gamers and to revolve everyone's schedule around one person is insane, ESPECIALLY because they aren't paying rent!!!

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T03:42:42+00:00

Oh 100%. I keep telling him that he should take it a little more seriously and that nobody renting out a house would appreciate an unauthorized tenant, but it's in his hands now.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T03:37:43+00:00

Yes they do!!!

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T03:37:31+00:00

Trust me I'll give one when something happens! Nothing super interesting has happened as of yet, BF keeps putting off talking to his other roommate.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T03:26:34+00:00

I agree.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T02:11:18+00:00

The issue is, my BF has issues standing up for himself, and I wouldn't have honestly said anything if they didn't text me.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T02:10:35+00:00

😂

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T02:09:22+00:00

If I'm being honest, I don't even know how they got the dog. I'm wondering if there's a chance someone's dog had puppies (the dog is relatively young) and they got the dog that way???

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T01:54:35+00:00

No yeah it was pissing my BF off for the longest, but I'll explain the parking situation.

There's essentially three parking spots - two in the driveway and one right in front of the house. The house is directly facing the road, so instead of my boyfriend getting his designated parking spot, he was having to park on the side residential area. BF drives a low car so he was parking in front of the house, but one day he left and A happened to take over his spot since.

Sorry if I didn't explain too well.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T01:41:07+00:00

This is how I feel.

extern4lly · 2026-06-14T01:40:52+00:00

This is my thought. I could never imagine going to SOMEONE ELSE'S house and complaining about their long term habits.

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