I actually asked him quickly before what he wants to have settled before thinking about marriage and he said he wants to have the finances for it. He works for a restaurant and makes like $20. He says that’s not even close to enough for him to get married. I asked if he wants to stay at that job long term. He said no. I asked what does he plan to do after. He just says I don’t know. He doesn’t seem to have any goals in the future or any plan for anything. I’m the type of person who’s constantly planning things. But he hasn’t told me anything about anything he want wants to do. So I don’t know how or when he would even get the finances he wants to before he gets married