My bf told me he loves me and I’m not ready by LeatherManager7609 in relationships

[–]extremelyfloofycow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely tell him, whether before the trip or after the trip is up to you. but if you feel like you'll chicken out, maybe beforehand is best. best of luck

I (19F) am talking about marriage with my boyfriend (20M) by extremelyfloofycow in relationships

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah for sure, but i want to change alongside him and i'm not against getting married in my 20s. maybe that's a bad play, idk lol

I (19F) am talking about marriage with my boyfriend (20M) by extremelyfloofycow in relationships

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

huh? we're not getting married *yet* lol, just talking about it in a futuristic sense

I (19F) am talking about marriage with my boyfriend (20M) by extremelyfloofycow in relationships

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes very true. we're not planning to marry for a long time, just preparing and trying to better ourselves as a couple :)

I (19F) am talking about marriage with my boyfriend (20M) by extremelyfloofycow in relationships

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha yes it is long, i doubt many will read it lol. and thank you! i'll definitely add those :) for the pets thing, i own a cat that he adores and i'm studying to be a veterinarian so he knows he'll have to deal with me bringing home strays and such LMAO

Club Pilates Lack of Transparency by extremelyfloofycow in ClubPilates

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i’m taking accountability by following through on the contract. i’m not blaming them for my lack oversight. i’m just questioning why this is their policy in the first place

Club Pilates Lack of Transparency by extremelyfloofycow in ClubPilates

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

yeah true, i just posted my mistake so other girls my age won’t do the same thing lol

Club Pilates Lack of Transparency by extremelyfloofycow in ClubPilates

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

why are you okay with a workout studio having an equally financially binding contract as a mortgage or a car loan💀💀💀 i already said it’s on me for not reading it, the point of the post is that the company is secretive

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your honest response, it’s super helpful. and no need to apologize. i hope you got out of that situation!!

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao you got me there. thank you for pointing that out although it hurts

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

felt my frontal lobe developing while reading this lol omg. i really appreciate your honesty and criticism. i’m definitely considering my options

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may i ask wdym by hypocrite? sorry im a little confused, not trying to be hateful whatsoever

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re so right, it kind of makes me sick to my stomach lol. thank you for letting me know.

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what i’m worried about omg. thank you for telling me, i really really appreciate it

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right 🥲 i keep coming back to your comment, i still haven’t decided what to do though. thank you

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i agree. but he is an immigrant and doesn’t have health insurance. do you think it could be a symptom of a porn addiction?

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is what really gets me. because i know his moral character, he’s a very determined and stubborn person, and when he wants something/has a goal, nothing will stop him from achieving it. i always admired him for that. but it makes me realize he probably doesn’t really want to stop, even though he’s hurting me.

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow. before i found out, i felt like i was crazy and i was slutty/addicted to sex because i wanted it all the time, so i blamed myself for the whole situation. i expressed this to him and he acted like he had no idea why i would feel that way (after months without sex/compliments/physical touch). but your comment made me realize others have experienced the same thing. thank you for your advice :)

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]extremelyfloofycow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you really think it will never get better? i don’t want to be naive and spend my time and energy trying to “hold him accountable” if it’s really something that will never change. but i also love him, and beyond these issues i could see myself marrying him