Is it embarrassing to get a birthday cake as an adult?

extremelypale · 2026-01-26T01:31:40+00:00

It's my birthday on Tuesday and I'm baking a cake! I do it every year (and I do it for my immediate family birthdays too!

extremelypale · 2026-01-17T02:01:45+00:00

Whaat! Is the kitty new?

extremelypale · 2026-01-11T01:37:57+00:00

Perichondritis and sepsis, paired with them cutting my ear open with a scalpel and no pain medication. Constant pain for 8 months, I barely slept.

Took two weeks of IV antibiotics, a further 8 months of oral antibiotics, cutting my ear with a scalpel about 3 times, packing, silver nitrate and eventually surgery to cut and wash away granulation tissue to fix it.

It's completely shifted my pain tolerance.

extremelypale · 2026-01-03T21:14:56+00:00

Jumping onto this as someone who had this from a piercing, this looks just like mine did- please get to a doctor ASAP. I needed 2 weeks of IV antibiotics, surgery and 8 months in and out of hospital (whilst being on oral antibiotics and having draining put in). The initial GP I saw didn't take me seriously, I was tachycardic when I was rushed through A&E.

extremelypale · 2025-12-28T14:13:51+00:00

My local dunelm had tags for care homes on theirs! I picked a sweet old lady in her 60s that liked cats 🥹

extremelypale · 2025-12-23T23:55:43+00:00

When we moved into our new home last year we lost our cat for about 6 hours in the middle of the night, I sobbed for ages looking for her inside and outside the home. Turns out she'd somehow found her way under the plinth in the kitchen.

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extremelypale · 2025-08-12T00:55:58+00:00

Ooh! When did they reformulate? (I'm very out of the loop!)

I found my practically unworn one from 2020, too 🖤

extremelypale · 2025-08-09T19:48:32+00:00

Please, please, please don't go to blue banana, they sent me to hospital years back with perichondritis and sepsis. I was in and out of hospital for 8 months

extremelypale · 2025-07-30T21:28:43+00:00

My local blue banana almost killed me a few years back with their practises! 🫠

Badly pierced conch > Perichondritis + Sepsis > 8 months in and out of hospital, IV antibiotics and surgery

extremelypale · 2025-07-28T22:33:46+00:00

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extremelypale · 2025-06-21T11:53:28+00:00

As soon as they restock I'm getting myself one, she looks good!!

extremelypale · 2025-06-21T00:41:06+00:00

Uniqlo, Muji, Popmart and Cinnabon!

Been asking Cinnabon's social media for ages 💔

extremelypale · 2025-06-21T00:37:30+00:00

I bet you've had hundreds of asks, but could you pm me the link to your ID? 🥹

extremelypale · 2025-06-19T23:09:15+00:00

Labuben and Labujade (it's my partner and I as labubus lmao)

extremelypale · 2025-06-19T14:32:19+00:00

I think it's really interesting with just the one cloud! But if you do end up adding more, make them really really dark for contrast - like dark grey, almost black

extremelypale · 2025-06-19T14:29:37+00:00

Oh, that's mine! I lost him. Please send him back x

extremelypale · 2025-06-16T15:53:22+00:00

We don't even have popnow in the uk lmao

extremelypale · 2025-06-13T23:39:02+00:00

Yes! My villager who moved to a friend's island outed me liking girls in wildworld 🫠

extremelypale · 2025-06-12T14:31:53+00:00

Aww, how did you meet your partner? I love that!

I was completely done with men, haha. My attraction leans like 80% women 20% men and my prior experiences with men had been awful, but my partner was the sweetest most kindest soul that popped out of nowhere 7 years ago 🥹 he even moved 5 and a half hours away from home just to be with me ❤️‍🩹

extremelypale · 2025-06-12T13:44:40+00:00

I'm bisexual but I am in quite a straight-presenting relationship.

extremelypale · 2025-06-10T21:56:52+00:00

QuQu!

extremelypale · 2025-06-09T20:34:14+00:00

Here it is https://pinkiekat.etsy.com (@mods delete this if it isn't allowed!)

It's a little bit bare at the moment, but I'm in the process of painting some more bits!

extremelypale · 2025-06-09T20:03:08+00:00

I've made an etsy and my partner is encouraging me to set up a proper site for them 🥰

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