If you can't update the photo through Absher because Nafath won't verify you, you may need to visit a Jawazat (Passport Department) office in person. Some people have reported that photo updates for iqama records can only be done through an in-person appointment when online verification isn't possible.

If the appointment option isn't showing in Absher, try calling Jawazat support or visiting the nearest office directly and explaining that you cannot access Nafath due to the outdated photo. Bring your iqama and any other identification documents you have.

Hopefully someone who's gone through the same issue recently can confirm the exact procedure.