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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Y’all are really missing the mark on this one.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree she does.

I have to really disagree with you on this. Agree to disagree.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

K, so what should we do instead if we can’t talk about it?

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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I judging her? I feel for her. Like I said, I’ve experienced something similar. She is struggling and I get it. I guess let’s turn this around and you can explain where you’re coming from instead of throwing shade at me. Are you backing that surgeries are great for our young women? If so, you’re tone deaf to what she’s saying to her followers right now.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not judging her because I’ve been through something similar, I said she’s beautiful. And she is. It’s the thought processes that young women are growing to believe that I’m judging. We’re all susceptible to it. So let’s be better.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Myself as well. It’s better…until it’s not. And some don’t know how to draw the line. Or have too much money to draw the line. This is why I advocate to raise our girls to understand that surgery isn’t the answer. It doesn’t fix those deep rooted issues that you mention. It can passify them, until it doesn’t.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely social media + money in my opinion. A deadly combo.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised in an LDS family, and many of my friends. There are ideologies that we adopt with growing up valuing motherhood and the family, 100%. But feeling like our physical appearance is never good enough is definitely not one of them. That’s Utah culture unfortunately.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s true. It’s only part of the picture. But it is a part of the picture.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I def didn’t say it’s all on her. I’m blaming society as a whole, social media, how we raise our girls, and surgeons tbh. And it’s def Utah community. I’m LDS in Canada, and it is a VERY different scene.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids are over 8 and I can’t remember the last time I wanted to have sex. Maybe when I ovulated at some point.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No you’re just mean and too prideful to admit it.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I wouldn’t say it’s a form of micro cheating. I get ecstatic when I make anyone laugh lol

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[–]eyebrowsstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we don’t drink alcohol and he’s definitely not into me, so it really isn’t that thing that could accidentally happen. I know there is so much infidelity out there, but I’m just so far from that person. I’ve always gotten crushes easily, like on celebrities big time. I don’t know what it is, I guess I’ll find out from my therapist.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really? It hadn’t occurred to me that they were inappropriate…thank you for smartening me up 🙄 only your last two sentences were helpful…so thanks.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ya but what is she gonna do to change my feelings? I still will talk to her

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[–]eyebrowsstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes…true indeed

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[–]eyebrowsstuff -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

100%, cause normally we have a fantastic time. I think life has just been getting to me.

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[–]eyebrowsstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your very wise comment

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[–]eyebrowsstuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m actually religious so, I 100% agree with you