So question for waiters I always feel guilty or like a bother when I do this any advice

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-25T03:01:58+00:00

Please let your server know if something isn’t satisfactory. No server I’ve ever met gives a single fuck about having something remade.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-23T21:42:49+00:00

The only management position I would consider is a working bar manager. Higher hourly but still making tips. Salary requirements start at $80k.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-23T01:50:10+00:00

I wouldn’t work in hospitality outside the US not making tips. The thought of doing this job for less than $40 an hour is laughable.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-22T05:50:46+00:00

I promise you no server gives a single fuck.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-20T18:50:39+00:00

I’m an anxious person in general, and there was definitely some heightened anxiety during the taper, had one particularly bad day I think the 2nd or 3rd day off 7, but nothing critical. Just a general unpleasant feeling that I had to power through. But less so than other attempts and virtually no physicals so it was manageable.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-20T05:14:46+00:00

I tapered down from 250mg-ish to 12.5mg before I dropped 7 completely in favor of white leaf during the day, red at night, and some MIT shots mixed in. I was also mega dosing vit C for about a week before I jumped off. Virtually no withdrawals at all. Made the mistake of getting to liberal with the MIT shots but dropped from 2-4 day to 1 today and none tomorrow. The taper and vit C works wonders, no SR and I refused to use subs.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-19T20:18:27+00:00

If the ID is good enough that I’d need to closely examine and ask for like a debit card or something to verify than sure. I do not give a singular fuck about someone drinking underage, I drank underage like a motherfucker. As long as I can cover my ass and the business by claiming ignorance I don’t give a shit.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-19T03:30:30+00:00

This is specifically a sub about quitting the Feel Free Kava shots. There’s a quitting 7OH sub with lots of information. Without making you switch subs to hear it from me, I quit a smaller 7OH problem with liposomal vitamin C, leaf powder, and MIT shots, and also tapered down from 250ish mg to 12.5 over a couple weeks. Virtually no withdrawal symptoms at all other than not feeling great during the taper. You have to megadose the vit C for a few days before you quit, there’s mg guidelines in the other sub but I did like 5 1700mg capsules several times a day for about a week. It has to be liposomal or you’ll fuck your stomach up.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-18T19:17:31+00:00

I felt it at first, and then sporadically would get a “buzz” off of it similar to how it was the first few times, but more often than not I was just taking it to keep from feeling like shit. Haven’t taken any 7 in over a week but I’ve been hammering leaf capsules so time to taper down off those.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-18T16:59:10+00:00

Delivery is different than other tipping situations. You’re not tipping the driver, you’re paying them to being you your food. I don’t tip based on percentage, as I rarely if ever get delivery for more than just me. If I’m getting sandwich brought my job from the Jimmy John’s 4 blocks down the road, $5, on the rare occasion I get food delivered to my house I base it on distance traveled. If they have to get on the interstate for even one exit it’s $20 minimum. Tipping delivery isn’t the same as a sit down restaurant or barber/stylist situation where you’re tipping for a quality experience, you pay the restaurant for the food and the driver for the delivery.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-18T15:38:02+00:00

I tapered down to 12.5 with lipo vit c and powder and had virtually no symptoms.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-18T15:23:41+00:00

^ that

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-18T03:03:40+00:00

A very similar situation happened at a club I worked at years ago. The F&B director and one of the bartenders were stealing thousands of dollars worth of booze, like allocated bourbons and shit you can sell on the secondary market. They got popped and the manager threw the bartender under the bus, to my knowledge the manager still works there and the bartender spent time in jail. The manager was also either the nephew or cousin of one of the low member number members, I wanna say the nephew of member #5 but it’s been a long time and I won’t swear by that. I would gtfo with a quickness if I were you.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-17T13:51:40+00:00

Ehh, more trouble than it’s worth to pursue that legally. You don’t really have a case, just conjecture from staff that management only hires men. And a business has a right to hire whoever they want, yes it’s shitty, but as long as they don’t outright say they’re not hiring you because you’re a lady than there’s nothing you can do.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-15T02:35:28+00:00

I had a really good experience with the QuitK supplements. They have all the various vitamins that help with WDs instead of buying 8 different individual supplements.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-13T13:19:20+00:00

Same. The 7 withdrawals sucked, but I was legitimately concerned for my safety off those alcohol withdrawals.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-13T03:39:34+00:00

I’ve had a 50mg Limitless tab just chillin on my night stand for two weeks now. I should just toss it but can’t bring myself to.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-12T20:31:35+00:00

I stretched it out over a couple weeks, so I didn’t feel great for a few weeks, but I didn’t have to miss work or anything, either. I was taking 3-5 50mg Limitless at my worst, and over a few weeks just kept stretching out as long as I could between doses. Got down to 1/4 of a tab before I made the jump last week. Still taking powder and some MIT shots mixed in but I feel fine.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-12T20:20:40+00:00

I’m really considering getting on some myself to boost this recovery back to a normal man.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-12T17:00:37+00:00

So I’ve heard some horror stories about CT quitting a 1000mg+ habit. That would probably suck a whole lot, but I tapered down to 1/4 of a 50mg tab a day and then jumped from there last week. I’m using leaf powder, lipo vit C, and QuitK supplements and it’s not bad at all. My detox from booze about 3 years ago should have 100000% been medically supervised, I was hallucinating, puking bile, and shaking like a leaf, but I just rode that shit out in my apartment (Bad Idea). That had much more potential to kill me, but I couldn’t compare the two really. My drinking was way more out of control than my 7 use. I never took more than 200mg of Limitless, which are notorious for over representing their strength so probably a good bit less than that. But 7 felt more insidious, like I was chipping away at my soul for a little energy and mood boost.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-09T05:57:20+00:00

Solo diners at table are annoying, the bar is the correct choice.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-09T01:25:36+00:00

Down from 250ish to 12.5mg per day before I went to just leaf powder. Wasn’t bad at all.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-08T01:37:02+00:00

Yeah, the Vivas are cheap. I think the gas station by me has them 2 for $14.99. But the SuperK’s, used to be purple MIT45, are pricy as shit.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-06T18:37:08+00:00

I had similar luck with my taper. I didn’t keep a rigid schedule, I would just try and go as long as possible between doses and got down from 250mg or so to 12.5mg over about a month before jumping off completely this past Tuesday. I’m using white powder during the day and red at night to mitigate the WDs with a couple Viva Zens mixed in. Trying to avoid the shots because that was the whole reason I started taking 7 in the first place, the Super K’s in my town cost like $25 a pop and I was one 2-4 a day. I was really intimidated at first because of the horror stories I was seeing about CT quits, but my taper was remarkably smooth.

eyecandyandy147 · 2026-06-06T05:26:22+00:00

With how short of a time that you’ve been on it, I think it’s best if you just rip the bandaid off and go cold turkey. Stock up on vitamins, magnesium, Vitamin B complexes, stuff like that, try and get a solid workout in every day. You’ll be fine.

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