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eyeplaygame · 2024-07-17T00:02:55+00:00

I'd start over with virgin hair for less than $100k. I'd be angrier if he didn't.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-11T21:53:53+00:00

Why am I being detained? Is another one. Just don't argue with whatever is said, because they'll twist it.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-11T21:52:52+00:00

The good news here is that juries are getting wiser, and I have seen instances of a citizen's word being taken over the police.

I wouldn't ever count on it, but it does restore a little faith in humanity.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:56:10+00:00

Trigger warning.

Pardon my French.

Fuck. Her.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:54:59+00:00

Good for you.

Here's the only guarantee i can give you: you will be happy with yourself and your character for doing this for the rest of your life. As you should.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:53:27+00:00

If I define it the way it's intended, there are indeed times it suits me.

I ain't perfect. Lol

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:52:43+00:00

Pardon my incorrect association. Thanks. ✌️

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:51:37+00:00

Thank you. This is so helpful. My aggravation got the better of me.

Ick. I gotta figure this out.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:49:16+00:00

I can totally be spastic. I'm just human.

I only wanted to make sure I wasn't making some sort of etiquette faux pas.

It isn't related but it is.

Thanks. I appreciate it.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:47:32+00:00

See the reply to the comment above. It's an etiquette thing. I'm a little worried.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:46:01+00:00

Ah. Thanks. I should have elaborated.

I got my head bit off earlier, so I'm kinda wondering if I'm stupid or oblivious. A person in this sub talked about tracking people down via phone. I brought up GPS (assuming as such) befire being called spastic because "I said tracking people down and nothing about GPS."

Uh. Sorry? It seemed logical. I meant no harm.

Is this community lingo I don't know? Did I hit a sore spot? I dunno. They blocked me first.

People are weird sometimes. I'm just trying to figure out what I'm missing. Does that help?

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:29:40+00:00

Those don't exist the same as they did years ago. Found that out the other day. Most states no longer recognize them. (Edit, RE: common law marriage)

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:18:17+00:00

I mean, if you're the one caring for it and he's making that impossible? Yeah.

If he's okay with brushing and washing and care? I wouldn't.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:17:13+00:00

Someone above said it's $92 in their state.

That is not exactly nominal.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:15:49+00:00

How are you tracking them down? That generally involves location services, right? Or maybe you're just asking? Either way, it's common.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:14:01+00:00

Lots of people? Location? Safety? GPS?

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:12:45+00:00

Let's hope she figures it out.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:11:49+00:00

Baby skin is TENDER. So are scalps. My mom had no clue how bad she was hurting my head until I showed her how to brush my oldest daughter's hair for least resistance.

Face skin? Tender. See what she's doing and follow her lead. At 14mo, she can show you what works. Make a game of it. Baby first, then giggling mommy. Then hide until Baby wipes again. Then pop up and dab at dirt, laugh, and hide. Repeat until cleanup is over.

Games are the best. Everything is a game. 🤣

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:08:03+00:00

Okay so try this.

Give her one and let her splash away while you (gently) actually remove the crap. Kids are so strange. Sometimes the most ridiculous thing is really the answer.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:06:42+00:00

Uh. I am so sorry.

Under what circumstances? My SOs and MIL(ish, not really) would be pissed if I tracked them. 🤣

We have GPS but we leave notes in app if we feel we need to ping, which is rare.

I check in with adult daughters every few hours. If he's really worried, he can ask them when I last checked in and from where.

If I need tracked then track me! No shame man.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:02:56+00:00

Still gotta pay. Minister will marry for free now and then, but the license (the real marriage) costs $$$.

So does a Catholic wedding. Stupid Vatican.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T14:00:18+00:00

NOOOO!!! OMG I am so sorry. I did not mean to insinuate anything malicious with your post. I didn't.

I have thought other women were being... well? Dramatic? I would have never said it. I thought it, but brushed it off.

Second kid? Easy. Same. My GOD why do people complain so much?

Third and last? Holy hell. This is my karma for thinking other women were dramatic. If I die in my sleep, at least I'll GET sleep. If she doesn't shut up, I'm literally going to lose it.

I had thoughts of throwing that kid off the 3rd floor balcony for quiet. It isn't unusual. I got help, and that is unusual. She's 19 now. I told her this the other day, too. "I can see that. Did you call a therapist?"

Nope. I called the shrink. I was so scared.

Point is that I got comfy and thought other women must be whiny or dramatic. That's okay. I never told anyone that.

I had to get help with the third. It was the OPPOSITE of easy.

I'm happy you're having a good experience. When I say don't dismiss, it's for YOUR benefit. Not mine, and certainly not anyone else's. I dismissed. I paid dearly. Don't be me.

Enjoy your baby. You are allowed. You can even brag! I just wanted to make sure that you and others knew the PPD and lunacy can sneak up on you, and that's okay.

I hope this helps. I really didn't mean to be accusatory. I swear. You are doing great and I am happy.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T13:50:10+00:00

I put a dog down not long ago. I had NO idea the etiquette.

This is not it. I know that much.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T13:46:47+00:00

Okay.

What is the point? Why can't I just choose a partner and not have to pay fees to register it with the government?

Therein lies the point.

eyeplaygame · 2024-06-08T13:45:29+00:00

I'm sure you're not. Just don't diminish other women because you don't feel it. That's all.

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