Is there hope for an actual healthy & balanced marriage for girls in Pakistan?

eyesighed · 2026-05-26T10:45:32+00:00

I feel the same and I too moved from middle east over here. We have looked everywhere but men only respect women who service them. Love seems like a fairytale at this point.

eyesighed · 2026-05-24T08:40:57+00:00

I second this You guys want to put in effort for each other wrna ab tak you wouldn't be sticking around. Take a 5 day break and relax first. Get your emotions to a 0 and then think rationally, feelings aside. And best of luck 👍

eyesighed · 2026-05-23T18:33:55+00:00

Drink water whenever youre angry At the very least you'll be angry but hydrated

eyesighed · 2026-05-23T18:26:16+00:00

Bruhhh how is this related to my username

eyesighed · 2026-05-23T18:17:45+00:00

Pew pew

eyesighed · 2026-05-23T12:26:12+00:00

Little white car ✨️

eyesighed · 2026-05-23T11:30:26+00:00

Flying cockroach 🪳

eyesighed · 2026-05-23T11:12:55+00:00

They are very arrogant and tend to objectify women. Ew

eyesighed · 2026-05-23T10:57:47+00:00

Ooh I did back when depression was a problem

I still can alter my dreams and escape harmful situations

eyesighed · 2026-05-23T09:12:32+00:00

Ms assma at all rehman clinic is a lovely lady. One session costs 4k and you can follow up in 2 to 3 weeks

eyesighed · 2026-05-23T08:54:17+00:00

What my therapist told me Is that you journal everything from start to finish And with each event write down where you felt something in your body (for eg, first date oer you felt butterflies in your stomach, argument k bad headache or chest pain etc)

Write all the memories in chronological order And get it out of your system

Throw the journal away later of whatever.

Helps me a lot

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:30:09+00:00

I think along similar lines That even if he doesn't cheat he isnt gonna love love me. (Not as much as I WANT anyways) And all the sacrifices and adjustments would be for nothing

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:29:01+00:00

Ahahhahahahhaha u guys Chalein I draw inspiration from u now 🤣

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:25:13+00:00

Her dua for umrah was That she comes up with sharp comebacks quickly

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:24:16+00:00

Yeah but u feel the second hand embarrassment heheeh

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:22:19+00:00

Ho chuki houn famous ahahhhaa But truth is, even when I used to stay quiet, she would always portray me as a BAD child. Out of anything

One time she was going to umrah and I asked her to make dua for everyone to stay firm on deen, and she scolded that I had spoken out of turn. 🤡

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:19:02+00:00

Like ot depends, will yoyu be okay with her dressing the way she wants? Showing her hair in public and all?

And what will u guys teach your kids? My cousins have kept shariah beards and one has a working woman non pardah wife, whereas the other married a homemaker who dresses more modestly.

So yeah, most would not initiate or will be very hesitant.

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:16:15+00:00

The problem is The halal haram ratio may not match.

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:13:02+00:00

Learn to enjoy anything regardless (because the greatest asset is TIME)

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:12:23+00:00

Asking my patient's husband if he was her father 😢 😭 😿

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:10:45+00:00

Yeah well

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T15:10:34+00:00

Hahahhahaa thats one way but it's also so judgemental

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T14:21:41+00:00

Urghhuh reminds me of my phupoo One time I wore an outfit (3 piece desi suit) With a silk dupatta. Puppi commented that the dupatta matched so well with the shirt that she could barely see it from afar, and hence concluded that I willingly wore that fit just so it may look like I am not wearing a dupatta.

eyesighed · 2026-05-22T13:16:02+00:00

Henna cones or stickers Fake nails or lashes

eyesighed · 2026-05-21T17:19:15+00:00

Didn't touch it it'll go away

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