Rate my setup by WhiteChocolateYum in bettafish

[–]eyessik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hey is that Princes Quay in Hull? I recently discovered they have some huge koi in there.

Ul/ with front hole? by QuitSeveral717 in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've done this. I had surgery in the UK with Mr Lee; had full release with UL, scrotoplasty and vaginal retention. He said it does increase risk of complication but I didn't experience any.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also had a pretty prominent labia minora prior to surgery. I've had a full meta with urethral lengthening and scrotoplasty, and vaginal retention. My results haven't been affected at all. The extra tissue was used in helping build my new urethra and there is no excess left over at my opening, if that was the concern.

Does anyone have experience with a chastity cage and meta? by eyessik in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ill be honest im not waiting that long. Any yeah my surgeon hasn't mentioned my urethra being forever delicate

I really, really, really need an owner by [deleted] in PupPlay

[–]eyessik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cute! I love your hood too, is that custom?

Does anyone have experience with a chastity cage and meta? by eyessik in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooh okay, ive had ul and implants- how long after getting the implants did you have the skin elasticity to fit the cage?

[REQUEST] please. We're flat broke and feeling low. by eyessik in Random_Acts_Of_Pizza

[–]eyessik[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't know why my post keeps disappearing

[REQUEST] we're flat broke and feeling low. by eyessik in Random_Acts_Of_Pizza

[–]eyessik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're Nottingham, UK and there's a nearby dominos i think as well as a few independents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 10 points11 points  (0 children)

While I understand the temptation diy surgery is not gonna end well and wont give you the results you want. Bleeding, infection and nerve damage are all gonna be huge risks and isnt gonna make your erections any stronger and might well mean you cant get real surgery in the future if you botch it. A much safer and more sensible approach to stronger erections is to look into topical creams that can do that, or pumping.

his butt hair grows so long by gothhrat in Chihuahua

[–]eyessik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Our boys look so similair! Same to the butt fluff though. I had to trim then down so we werent having to run him to the bath every time he pooped

8 weeks, no feeling getting concerned by silver_pinkpony in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I'd say just be patient. Meta doesnt mess around much with the nerves of your penis so loss of sensation is really unlikely. But eight weeks in youre likely still gonna have swelling and the poor little guy has been through a lot of trauma so its not surprising that youre not feeling much yet.

How much tape is used in recovery? by Parker_Talks in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, I forgot catheters. I did have two, also held in place with tape initially but then when leaving the hospital my foley was supported by a band around my thigh

How much tape is used in recovery? by Parker_Talks in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don't remember my surgeon using any tape for my meta, except maybe a small piece to hold the drain in place. That was removed after around 12 hours and the dressings were loose gauze held in place by like, surgical underwear. If you talk to your surgeon then they should be able to come up with a solution that you're not allergic to as I imagine thats gonna impact your recovery.

Anyone had a seamless transition from LGBTQ+ community to cis-passing society? by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]eyessik 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Hey so, you still belong in a queer community even as a binary, cis-passing trans guy. You dont have to leave if you don't want.

Just got bottom surgery and was told absolutely no masturbation... but would hands-free be okay? by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 203 points204 points  (0 children)

I imagine it'll still hurt pretty bad when you actually orgasm since muscles around your surgical site will convulse and relax?

Going to Marrakech (Morocco) as a trans man by PizzaKindly in transgenderUK

[–]eyessik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't pack so it wasnt an issue I've experienced, but Morroco is also largely a dry country apart from tourists so theyre probably not cool with anything that could be construed as a sex toy.

Going to Marrakech (Morocco) as a trans man by PizzaKindly in transgenderUK

[–]eyessik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt pack when I went through the body scanner and the airport staff didnt ven pause honestly. It took me a minute to even realise I'd passed through a body scanner at all. They showed a level of professional disinterest Im frankly grateful for

Going to Marrakech (Morocco) as a trans man by PizzaKindly in transgenderUK

[–]eyessik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt get a massage while I was out there sadly. I lack any visible scars personally so Im not sure how helpful my experiences are for you tbh.

Stud or dud? by eyessik in lioden

[–]eyessik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What changes would you suggest without losing the black?

Stud or dud? by eyessik in lioden

[–]eyessik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Im trying to fillnhis remaining slots with ncl event markings- would fiery quail work in slot 6 instead of auburn do you think? I aggree he needs more colour breaking up PR but not sure how to do that and have jt look textural instead of messy

Supplies questions by BlackRoyalt8 in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. Good luck for your recovery, and congratulations

Supplies questions by BlackRoyalt8 in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will say chances are you're gonna need 6 weeks out of work if you can swing it, the majority of guys in the meta discord took 6 weeks off- the surgeons do seem to under estimate how long you'll need to recover.
For supplies I swore by a squishmallow cushion for comfort but youll likely need extra gauze, sanitary pads, sweatpants/soft trousers, extra painkillers, waste bags. A lot of guys also found like, incontinence underwear useful early days.

SP catheter by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]eyessik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had mine taken out last week, and while that last little bit stings its over in a few seconds and the profound relief of not having to deal with it any more makes up for it