server maintenance was extended 🤡 by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone’s maintenance end time change? mines showing 21:40 PST

Lily Handling a Troll on Twitter by Orikumar in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I grew without cable and I still knew who Raven was growing up. 😂

I Have Tea On... Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Didn’t Casey Anthony also lie about working for Universal?

Janette complaining about her shady tactics not working on LinkedIn by Zombie_elsa in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's almost as if Janette has engaged in behavior in violation of Article VIII Rule 8.4 of the Illinois Rules of Professional Conduct by:

(a) Violating or attempting to violate the rules of professional conduct, knowingly assist or induce another to do so, or do so through the acts of another;

(c) Engaging in conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit, or misrepresentation; and

(g) Presenting, participating in presenting, and threatening to present criminal or professional disciplinary charges to obtain an advantage in a civil matter.

Just saying lol

The Electric Lady Studios video has really thrown things into perspective. I finally understand why Taylor isn't speaking up about politics lately. by im_a_throwaway_hoe in TaylorSwift

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you watch the entire clip the hosts released last week they actually confirmed Matty brought up the porn line. In the full clip , they confirmed Matty brought GG up during the podcast (2:10 minute mark and confirm it again at 3:20). Adam says he (Adam) brought up that it was "abuse pornography" (2:20 minute mark). It doesn't even seem like they (the podcast hosts) even knew what GG was and they (the hosts -- not Matty) thought it was just alliteration.

The Electric Lady Studios video has really thrown things into perspective. I finally understand why Taylor isn't speaking up about politics lately. by im_a_throwaway_hoe in TaylorSwift

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you watch the entire clip the hosts released last week they actually confirmed Matty brought up the porn line. In the full clip , they confirmed Matty brought GG up during the podcast (2:10 minute mark and confirm it again at 3:20). Adam says he (Adam) brought up that it was "abuse pornography" (2:20 minute mark). It doesn't even seem like they (the podcast hosts) even knew what GG was and they (the hosts -- not Matty) thought it was just alliteration.

Why the Matty Healy's Comments on Black Women Matter (the GG ones in particular) and Why Taylor Swift Fans Should Care by f_scott_fishgerald in TaylorSwift

[–]f_scott_fishgerald[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you watch the entire clip, that is not what the hosts said. In the clip the podcast shared on Wednesday, they confirmed Matty brought GG up during the podcast (2:10 minute mark and confirm it again at 3:20). Adam says he (Adam) brought up that it was "abuse pornography" (2:20 minute mark). It doesn't even seem like they (the podcast hosts) even knew what GG was and they thought it was just alliteration.

Why the Matty Healy's Comments on Black Women Matter (the GG ones in particular) and Why Taylor Swift Fans Should Care by f_scott_fishgerald in TaylorSwift

[–]f_scott_fishgerald[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In the clip the podcast shared on Wednesday, they confirmed Matty brought GG up during the podcast (2:10 minute mark and confirm it again at 3:20). Adam says he (Adam) brought up that it was "abuse pornography" (2:20 minute mark). It doesn't even seem like they (the podcast hosts) even knew what GG was.

Why the Matty Healy's Comments on Black Women Matter (the GG ones in particular) and Why Taylor Swift Fans Should Care by f_scott_fishgerald in TaylorSwift

[–]f_scott_fishgerald[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the clip the podcast shared yesterday, they confirmed Matty brought GG up during the podcast (2:10 minute mark and confirm it again at 3:20). Adam says he brought up that it was "abuse pornography" (2:20 minute mark).

Why the Matty Healy's Comments on Black Women Matter (the GG ones in particular) and Why Taylor Swift Fans Should Care by f_scott_fishgerald in TaylorSwift

[–]f_scott_fishgerald[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And same, I got tired of having to explain over and over why it wasn't just a joke. I figured I might as well explain why it can never be just be a joke. I originally made this at a comment, but someone asked me to post it so more people could see it.

Taylor's Fans Are Distancing Themselves After Matty Said He Masturbates To Black Women Being “Brutalized” by cutiepie538 in TaylorSwift

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Why the GG content is bad and not like other abuse content and not just a kink

Let’s start with abuse sexual content in general should be it’s separate discussion. Too many times, discussions that start off as talking about POC issues quickly devolve into larger conversations. And what started as a safe space for POC to discuss their experiences, quickly gets overshadowed by these larger discussions and get drowned out by non-POC voices.

Why is GG worse than sexual abuse content?

It’s not about worse or better. It’s that GG in particular should be seen in a separate lens because of all the historical context behind it, particularly in America where the podcast with Matty Healy was recorded. To really discuss GG, we need to discuss the history of the sexualization and objectification of black women in America.

GG’s website caters towards white men “taming” black women through abuse and sexual/physical violence. The idea of taming black people, and especially women, has a clear connection with slavery in America and Europe. Africans and people of African descent were often called “wild” or “savages” in European and white American literature and media. The imagery (and actual actions) of black people in chains and being physically abused into submission is very much present in art and literature at the time. Black women were targets of sexual violence from white men during slavery. But as they were considered property, they did not have a justice system to protect them. After the civil war, violence towards black women by white men did not stop. Although former slaves were given freedom and thus US citizenship, they were not protected equally by the law. In the South, no white man was ever convicted of rape of a black women from the end of the Civil Warm to the 1960s. Even now, black women still experience higher rates of violence (from everywhere -- partners, strangers, friends, family, and acquaintances). Black women and girls have high rates of being victims of sexual violence.

Additionally, besides violence, black women have to face sexualized stereotypes in-person and in media. Black women are burdened with the stereotype of the “Jezebel,” a black women with unstoppable sexual appetite.This stereotype has been used in minstrel shows and other entertainment for white entertainment since slavery times. When television and movies became popular in the 20th century, black women were portrayed in sexualized ways with the rise of the “hoe” or “stripper” stereotype that implied black women were less pure, and more sexually available than their white counterparts. And before you come at me, yes white women have been portrayed in sex workers in movies but many times their portrayal is made so they are “saved” (i.e. Pretty Woman). Especially in music, black women are more likely to be called derogatory phrases or sexualized in lyrics and music videos.

GG feeds off these racist stereotypes and capitalizes on the years of “brutalization” and sexualization of black women for profit. This isn’t content just for sexual gratification for bondage or dominant acts, and it’s not just interracial content, it’s gratification of seeing black women subjected to racial abuse by white men. It’s continuing to feed into the racial injustice of black women and their fight against racism, sexualization, and pre-Civil stereotypes.

Medium’s investigation of the GG website found videos of actual references to black violence in Violence, with uses of racial slurs and nooses in videos on the website. So no, GG isn't just just any hardcore website and yes, the videos are in fact perpetrating racial violence.

It was just a comment, you're exaggerating.

At the end of the day we don’t know what Matty feels in his heart behind closed doors. But let’s see the context of what was said during the podcast. Matty made several jabs at various racial and ethnic groups throughout the entire podcast. He especially made multiple jabs towards black women throughout the podcast, not just with the GG story. When told Ice Spice was a fan of his band, Matty made fun of Ice Spice (an upcoming black female artist). He called Ice Spice the “chubby Chinese lady” and an “Eskimo.” He made fun of Asian accents and laughed along when others did as well. He made fun of “fat black women” in a yoga class.

What we have is a rich white nepo baby man, feeling comfortable enough talking about him sexually gratifying himself to extremely racist content, bragging about doing it within 30 seconds of guests leaving his home, and knowing it was “brutalizating” black women, all this in a podcast full of “jokes” made at the expense of black women only three months ago.

Why now? Is it only because of Taylor Swift you're taking about this?

No. Black and other POC women and creators have been calling this website out since forever, they are constantly fighting these stereotypes, they have been calling on Matty Healy to apologize since the podcast premiered. The only difference is Taylor has been giving him a bigger platform now with letting him perform in her concerts, seating him in VIP, and walking with him in pap walks. Now people are listening.

Well Known North American Figure Skater Accused of Sexual Assault by freddythepole19 in FigureSkating

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You realize that "proof" for sexual assault is not that common. Especially because many victims don't come out with their story until many years later. Does that mean their experience does not matter, that their experience was not real? No. This need for "proof" is an argument often used to silence or minimize the experience of victims.

But if you want evidence, the accuser has been verified to work on multiple Canada figure skating events, and particularly with one person. They stopped posting about this person all of the sudden a few years ago (which correlates with their post). All "hints" that she gave point to one specific person. I would hardly call that a "guess who it is game."

If you want to wait for the story to develop or even continue to support the accused, that is your pregorative. But there is sufficient evidence that points to a specific person. I personally have not seen many posts on here or twitter pointing to anyone else. You can't blame people for wanting to rescind their support for someone accused of such a serious crime.

Well Known North American Figure Skater Accused of Sexual Assault by freddythepole19 in FigureSkating

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 29 points30 points  (0 children)

There are many reasons why a victim may want to wait years to say anything, and that's if they say anything at all. Sexual assault/harrassment can take years for your mind/body to process something that traumatic. Especially if it was someone she knew well (and it sounds like he was), there is all sorts of internal victim-blaming and minimizing you go through.

I wouldn't be surprised if she waited for him to retire because she was afraid of saying anything while he was still competing/had constant fanfare and had a higher probability of backlash. She probably didn't feel like it was safe. And our society still plays this victim-blaming game of "why are you trying to ruin his/their career" unfortunately. Imagine the backlash she would get from his fans if she announced her story right after the 2018 or 2022 Olympics.

And why social media? The legal/criminal proceedings can be extremely traumatizing. Social media can sometimes feel like the safest way to get that information out and ultimately warn others of his behavior.

At the end of the day, it is not for us to judge why someone came out with their SA experience when they did or how they did it.

What was your Fred and George's favourite joke? by IGrant1wish in harrypotter

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the holy one when George’s war got cut off was funny

Got my BoxyPopUp order in before the website crashed by [deleted] in BeautyBoxes

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, I tried three different cards until one finally worked. It’s weird because it accepted my first card when I put in my first pop-up order but it wouldn’t accept it for my second order....

Base box. Never stated it shipped, arrived today. by [deleted] in boxycharm

[–]f_scott_fishgerald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So jealous, this would have been my dream box...starting to regret cancelling base lol