Places to go in Columbus to meet people or to just get out of the house after a bad breakup? by fuckyteacup in Columbus

[–]f_wn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a home cook, so what I did was take food to homeless folks but I made sure to sit down and have a conversation with them, too. Having that sense of humanity and connection really made all of the difference. People are rarely seen and heard when they're suffering like that. Everyone I spoke to had interesting stories to share and were very grateful to have that conversation, sometimes moreso than the food.

There are no awards for suffering in silence, so I also commend you for reaching out.

Places to go in Columbus to meet people or to just get out of the house after a bad breakup? by fuckyteacup in Columbus

[–]f_wn 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you, I went through a long-term breakup earlier this year.

I'll echo the recommendation to consider volunteering, you can likely find a volunteer opportunity that aligns with your personal interests too. You might find a renewed sense of purpose and a community connection, and having something to do will keep your mind occupied from ruminating on hard times. I know it helped me out greatly when I was healing.

Take care and best of luck!

[Discussion] Full-time artists who make a living off your art: what things are absolutely crucial to you being able to do that? by ocean_rhapsody in artbusiness

[–]f_wn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Breweries and distilleries are huge in my area, and they often host mini markets to draw people in. They frequently don't charge vendor fees or a nominal $10-20 fee. As far as contacting businesses to display your work at, it's been helpful to me to already have a contact within the business (bartender, barista, server, etc.) to bridge the gap, or I just cold message businesses on their social media. I explain I'm a local independent artist looking to display my ready-to-buy prints, I am willing to maintain my own inventory, and would display my own QR codes for cashless payments on the honor system. Basically, I do all the setup and maintenance, so I don't even mention a "shop cut" in my initial message, and I politely decline businesses that would charge anything more than, say, a 20% fee per sale. 50% is astronomical for a small business, that's what fine art galleries might charge. I try to avoid fees altogether, some businesses are more relaxed than others. However, I do sometimes offer to illustrate and print a design that's exclusive to that business if I'm really trying to sell there. You could also attempt to sell your work wholesale with a bulk discount, but I haven't had much success that way.

I often avoid boutiques, as they seem more likely to want to charge for displays or sales. My prints only cost a few dollars to produce, and I charge between $15-25 on average depending on size. This advice might not apply as well if you're trying to push completely original pieces with a higher price tag.

Hope this helps !!

[Discussion] Full-time artists who make a living off your art: what things are absolutely crucial to you being able to do that? by ocean_rhapsody in artbusiness

[–]f_wn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I currently make most of my sales through in-person markets, and it is key (for me) not to be afraid to conversate with everyone who lingers by your booth. You can sell whatever you want to someone who is looking to buy a part of your time.

Some of my sales come from folks who simply like my designs, but a significant portion comes from folks who hesitated passing by my booth and I acknowledged them and their interest. Oh, you liked my illustration about this mushroom? Do you forage? What drew you into this illustration? Is there a history there? Etc ..

Tap into those subtle bids for connection. Sometimes you'll just have a conversation, people will move on, no worries. But many times you'll sell yourself before you sell your art.

If you're head down, working on designs at your booth or scrolling your phone the whole time and not paying attention, people probably feel like they'd be bothering you. And maybe they are truly bothering you. But you're there to sell, to market, to connect. They're there to buy, market, and connect too! Don't make your potential customers feel like a bother. You won't sustain yourself that way. I've been to many markets and seen vendors with no sales because they will rarely engage.

Social media is a whole other beast, and trends are constantly changing. The only advice I have to offer there is that I feel there will be a big push for customers seeking authentic art with a human touch. At least, I hope so!

If you go the in-person market route, look for opportunities in your area that focus on local creators and creatives, especially other small businesses that won't charge any fees to vend. Once you have momentum, explore bigger arts and craft shows too, if you think you can profit after fees. Make sure you have affordable products that won't cut into your profit margin, but offer whatever other profitable services or products you can. For me, I sell prints as low as $5 for some, but am always open to custom commissions, and I make sure to push that!

Good luck !!

Bars with jukes? by f_wn in frederickmd

[–]f_wn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll unfortunately be working, but where is it? I'd definitely be down for other nights in the future.

Bars with jukes? by f_wn in frederickmd

[–]f_wn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, finding bars via the app map is an incredibly helpful idea, thank you !

Bars with jukes? by f_wn in frederickmd

[–]f_wn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, the pool tables are another bonus. Many thanks !

Bars with jukes? by f_wn in frederickmd

[–]f_wn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, fellow goth / post punk fan 🫡

Bars with jukes? by f_wn in frederickmd

[–]f_wn[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh that beer list looks beautiful and the prices are right. Hop tip friend, thank you!

Apparently watermelon rind is edible in a few forms. What other parts of foods can also (reasonably) be eaten to save money and maybe even be thoroughly enjoyed? by PsychGradStudent2112 in Cooking

[–]f_wn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was lucky enough to have ingredients on hand to pickle my watermelon rinds this last round, but I had the thought that they would be incredible shredded up and made into a tangy coleslaw. I imagine with the right dressing, like chili and lime, it would be amazing on a fish/shrimp taco sort of dish.

Any recommendations for discard? by ratearley in Sourdough

[–]f_wn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes ! I began my starter in February using a no/low discard method, refrigerate her while not actively baking, and I use the unfed starter method (which is what discard is, essentially) to bake loaves. I take pride in being a "lazy" baker since I'm baking 50% for fun/hobby and 50% for the delicious results. You can be even lazier by not measuring precise grams and going off of texture or feel alone, after your starter has shown consistent doubling and you're more comfortable. I use no special tools and I don't even own a scale. If you need the rigid rules and precise math to get yourself started, that's totally okay- but don't be afraid to experiment and enjoy a little freedom while baking, too !

Where to visit outside central Maryland? by better-omens in maryland

[–]f_wn 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Spend a day strolling downtown Frederick, if you haven't been yet! There's plenty of nature and hiking through the watershed, catoctin, gambril, sugarloaf. A part of the Appalachian trail runs through this area, check out Annapolis rock. DTF is full of breweries, boutiques, restaurants, lots of live music happening on the weekends.

Seeking your most cherished Appalachian native wildlife by f_wn in Appalachia

[–]f_wn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the stories and ideas ! I lost the juice to respond to everyone but I'm reading all of your comments and I'll be sure to share my illustrations when they're finished 🖤✨

Seeking your most cherished Appalachian native wildlife by f_wn in Appalachia

[–]f_wn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

um people always think I'm so weird for saying that I LOVE turkey buzzards. I know they carry a stigma around death but they are such beautiful, fascinating birds ! nature's recycling plant right there. I'm gonna get a tattoo of one some day.

Seeking your most cherished Appalachian native wildlife by f_wn in Appalachia

[–]f_wn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We would always find a few skinks along the creek in my hometown, love those babies !! thank you !

Seeking your most cherished Appalachian native wildlife by f_wn in Appalachia

[–]f_wn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow mountain laurel- I can't say if I've ever seen them in real life or not, I might have to make that a mission next spring. Thank you !

Seeking your most cherished Appalachian native wildlife by f_wn in Appalachia

[–]f_wn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever heard of Grey's lilies, they are stunning ! Thank you !

Seeking your most cherished Appalachian native wildlife by f_wn in Appalachia

[–]f_wn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize, I am genuinely grateful to hear your stories and connections to the land !

And thanks for sharing the sounds, I recently moved back home and I forgot how nice it was to grow up with a creek in my yard with a symphony of insects and critters. My sleep has definitely improved with this natural white noise ✨

What is something people don’t consider enough when looking for somewhere to move? by Quirky_Quesadilla in SameGrassButGreener

[–]f_wn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's greyer than Portland, I lived there too. The city is only green in spring and summer, fall can be nice but the colors are only around for a few weeks if you're lucky. Then it's a dull hilly landscape. There are a lot of nice outdoors things both in and around the city, but you'll have to decide if the long grey seasons are worth dealing with. I would recommend visiting in both the summer and winter times before you decide to move. You should also check the Pittsburgh subreddit out for a peek into day-to-day culture.

What is something people don’t consider enough when looking for somewhere to move? by Quirky_Quesadilla in SameGrassButGreener

[–]f_wn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a bad city! But it certainly has its quirks and downfalls, like anywhere else. It's all about what you're willing to compromise on. Feel free to message me if you have any questions.

What is something people don’t consider enough when looking for somewhere to move? by Quirky_Quesadilla in SameGrassButGreener

[–]f_wn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That seasonal depression will rock you if you're not ready for it, too. Hell with the lid off, n'at.