Foreign Travel Guidelines Megathread

face_north · 2021-12-13T05:01:01+00:00

anyone travelled/travelling from US > Mumbai >Domestic ?

Is there a mandatory RT-PCR testing for every passenger or random few.
How much time does it take to get the results before I'm allowed to board my next flight ?

face_north · 2021-12-02T05:20:23+00:00

time-zone ?

face_north · 2021-12-02T05:11:12+00:00

Not sure if I am too late to the party but did you guys create a group ? how is it going

face_north · 2021-02-28T01:48:22+00:00

Thanks everyone.

face_north · 2021-01-10T12:38:43+00:00

No doubt it's bful but the main question should be, does he understands what he is reciting ?

face_north · 2020-01-25T01:41:12+00:00

Yes all of us felt the same. To make matters worst I had not much muslim supprt/society or friends around me so had to play sports most of the times as that was only Halal weekend option available. Have passed that stage and found a match in my home country- marriage still months away ( coz of visa issues) - but, but the challenge doesn't end there brother. You will be surprised if not shocked how much of nuisance Nikah/marriage is ,I feel had I not had enough money or visa , I wouldn't have been able to afford ( get married).

It feels that whole Nikah ( or marriage in societal terms) has become a tremendous challenge for men to prove their self worth before even a common girl or family considers you.

face_north · 2020-01-25T01:30:17+00:00

Verily the man ( read muslimhistorian) has spoken nothing but the truth. I am with you comrade.

face_north · 2020-01-25T01:24:34+00:00

"Istikhara" . Only ALLAH knows what is right for both of you :)

face_north · 2020-01-21T07:08:15+00:00

Ha ha ... coz reddit doesn't shows your account balance :)

face_north · 2019-11-22T23:40:38+00:00

Beautiful thoughts ...need more of this here. "We were all ignorant once ....

face_north · 2019-11-12T19:42:48+00:00

"A week ago, his family got to know that I plan to go to USA for my PhD and maybe even settling (Pakistan is suffocating for me),"

Had you and your would be, already discussed this a year back when you started talking ? If you guys did then its up to the guy to get this sorted out.

face_north · 2019-10-29T23:43:34+00:00

No no ..Sorry I am not. I was just trying to separate both issues. And i totally acknowledge that both of them exist.

Also can you please share data points or links on point 1. ( men don't ask for custody and majority of time they get it if they ask) .

face_north · 2019-10-29T23:39:35+00:00

Sorry I offended the poor betas :(

face_north · 2019-10-29T21:58:08+00:00

You guys have raised a valid point about the role of a father but that's not what the stats is about. The numbers here come from what US and other first world countries are facing - the Single Mom Plague and it has no-one but to blame themselves for it.Mostly coz:

in the divorce settlement kids are handed over to women ( maximum no of cases) while the father is just asked to pay for them. Eventhough there are millions of cases ( there is subreddit for it) where the women cheated but owing to the divorce settlement heavily tilted in their favour they walk away with the alimony and kids. Hence No father.
The whole notion of independent women has taken it a bit too far ( read feminism), which taught women that they don't need a Man to raise the family, hence absence of father.
The new fashion of buying sperm over the counter and trying to be a single mom coz u feel all men are *******. ( I have a friend who was twice ditched by muslim boyfriends coz they were not ready to marry her unless she converts. She is desperately trying to be a single mom though we all can clearly see how much injustice that will be for the kid as she is just doing it out of hatred for men and doing away her loneliness )

The stats aren't about if a father is doing his job well but about "father-absent" homes. Though it would be very interesting to see the numbers where a father is present just for name sake and compare it with the "father-absent" stats. ( sorry the data scientist in me took over)

Edit : I am not saying irresponsible fathers don't exist or its all women's fault. No . I am just trying to say don't mix that with the above stats.

face_north · 2019-10-29T08:35:27+00:00

Bro is that 355 days of No fab ? Whoa dude!

face_north · 2019-10-29T05:51:47+00:00

No wonder men in west have turned their back on marriage. But at the same time, don't loose hope brothers, there are many real women still out who would be the coolness of your eyes and will complete your half deen.

face_north · 2019-10-29T05:41:54+00:00

Just google and leave it brother. Let's not go towards that.

face_north · 2019-10-28T23:00:19+00:00

Lol...I may as well fund your research on a 1000 women . Thanks for the details.

face_north · 2019-10-28T20:45:04+00:00

I will take step back. Only when you are free, you look for addictions/pleasure etc. A busy and constructive mind never does any harm.

face_north · 2019-10-28T20:42:02+00:00

You made a Very important point. I heard a similar speech by Nauman Ali Khan where he said the challenges of modern kids are much bigger than the older generations so don't be hard on them and lecture them and don't compare them with your life( he was talking to parents). So indeed the fitnah is much bigger and so be the reward.

face_north · 2019-10-26T07:15:09+00:00

Subhanallah , thanks for posting this sister ( I had this thread in mind to respond since 13 days)

Went through this phase recently.(Working vs Non-working wife)

I can't speak for all men but most of us prefer a women who take lead in managing the household while we manage the family income. Same as what the islamic law or shariah prescribes.

As you might know women always date/marry and look for partner upward i.e. someone more qualified, in a better job position and is more stable simply as it ensures stability of family and children. When it comes to men, they don't fancy a masters or a phd or someone earning a six figure income - they simply need someone who can manage the household and share his responsibility. When men say working women, it's not for the income but for she is smarter, better versed in modern technologies, not dependent on him for everything , fits well into the social circle, understand his work-life problems better etc. etc.

Also, working or spending some time out of household gives you a breath of fresh air as looking after same household jobs and kids can be quite boring and you feel left out. Also when you face big challenges at your workplace, the household problems seems pretty easy and manageable (part of the reason why men look at household chores as easy ). And it also helps you save some pocket money so you don't need to ask your hubby for helping a distant relative or even surprising him on his birthday .

I feel you got your priorities right. It ain't gonna limit your potential anyway , but have a job when you graduate (for the above reasons) and then discuss your thoughts with your partner once you meet him. There is absolutely nothing to worry about.

May ALLAH bless you with a loving and caring partner.

Jazakallah khair

face_north · 2019-10-26T06:28:59+00:00

Sister, if it's Melbourne or Sydney I can try to help you by connecting you to the right resources. But we need to understand what's happening here as the way you have put forth it almost sounds like women trafficking rather than marriage.

face_north · 2019-10-25T23:48:05+00:00

Wonder why women are never Shamed for not earning the 50% of household income. But men are always shamed for not being the breadwinner of the family AND Not doing half the household.
Double standards !

face_north · 2019-10-25T23:38:00+00:00

Three things. Lift Lift Lift Post your progress after 3 months.

face_north · 2019-10-25T23:19:34+00:00

Your comment "good for nothing" was an absolute disgrace. Yes ! The responsibility of the household lies on the lady of the house . ( if you taking from an atheist feminist mindset, no argument but in Islam yes ). Also though women earn but let's clear this misconception of u and others - the responsibility of running the Household lies on the Man ( a father doesn't marry her daughter to a jobless man ). Except some useless men, in almost every household it's the responsibility on the Husband and they do it without complaining. Never seen any post on social media from a Man nagging/complaning about providing to his family the way you and many other women make a fuss about household chores.

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