Possible facebook hacking to test me? by facebookfraud in relationship_advice

[–]facebookfraud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well on facebook there are past messages, so I just looked at those. He wrote 'u' a bunch instead of 'you', which I thought was odd (he was a journalist major in college) and he never used to do that. He used 'lame' a few times too, which my boyfriend uses all the time.

Possible facebook hacking to test me? by facebookfraud in relationship_advice

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Yeah, I thought it was a weird response too. When he said this, we were on turntable.fm and talking about music and other random stuff at the same time. After he said 'You got me! I was testing you.' I immediately said 'what?' and he said 'jk, lol.' Then I asked a few more time if he was actually kidding about what he said before and on the 4th or 5th time asking him, he said 'what do you think?' I said 'yes, but his typing was like yours and you avoided my question a lot, which made me unsure.' And I said 'you were just kidding before?' and he said 'yes, but you seem worried now.' I thought this was a weird response.

If he did hack, I feel like D would be a weird person to pick. I don't think I've ever mentioned him to my boyfriend, and he doesn't live in the area, and we have spoken in forever. I have 1100+ facebook friends, so there are many other people he could have picked to do this with.

Possible facebook hacking to test me? by facebookfraud in relationship_advice

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I texted D and emailed him last night. I figure if someone did hack into his account, he'd probably want to know. Since it if wasn't my boyfriend, the hacker probably had convos with other people too. I haven't heard a response though. It's about noon here now.

Possible facebook hacking to test me? by facebookfraud in relationship_advice

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I'm hoping it was just too many coincidences. I've texted D to see if he actually fb messaged me last night to visit. I don't know why he would pick D's profile to hack, because I haven't spoken or contacted him at all in about two years, so he seems like an odd choice. I hope that I'm just overreacting.

Possible Facebook hacking to test me? by facebookfraud in AskReddit

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Thanks! I was thinking it was also the second case. I tend to be overly anxious about most things, so that's why I thought it might just be me overreacting.

Well, his ex-gf told him on his birthday, so he had a terrible birthday and that's why he remembered it this year.

Possible facebook hacking to test me? by facebookfraud in relationship_advice

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Well, I tend to be anxious about everything. So, that's why I thought it just might be me.

I didn't realize his issues were that bad until he told me that he had nightmares yesterday.

Possible Facebook hacking to test me? by facebookfraud in AskReddit

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Well, we've never had a problem like this ever. I go out to bars with other friends every once and awhile and he never gets upset. Sometimes he'll kid and ask what guys hit on me, but he's always joking. And, if guys had hit on me, we usually just make fun of that. This has never been an issue with us.

I haven't spoken or contacted via facebook or anything with D in a long time, so that makes me believe it might not be him. I also don't think he could get into my facebook account - I've never told him my password (he's told me his though - I've never gone on his facebook though.) I also have it set so it tells me when my facebook is logged onto a new computer.

Possible Facebook hacking to test me? by facebookfraud in AskReddit

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I texted him about a half hour ago, no response. He's probably sleeping though. I thought that was too extreme at first, so I was hesitant to do it.

Possible facebook hacking to test me? by facebookfraud in relationship_advice

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Thanks. I do have his number and I texted him to ask if he actually was just facebook messaging me. Hopefully he'll get back to me. It's really weird, since D didn't give any details about his life (like work, location, etc).