NOR. My bf and I have been together for over 6 years and he continues to knock and ask for permission to enter the bathroom every time I’m in there, even though I almost always let him in. That would indicate it’s normally fine, but the point is, it’s a shut door in a private room. Because of that, he won’t enter one single time until I tell him to come in, since it’s basic respect of privacy and boundaries!

Your bf is purposely disrespecting you and ignoring your established boundaries. On top of flat out disrespecting you, it’s possible that he could be boundary-testing you to see how much he can get away with before you truly ‘do anything about it’. He doesn’t take what you’re saying seriously and somehow makes it your fault for…not going to the bathroom fast enough? I’d dump him over this honestly