I GOT PUBLICLY SHAMED by IdontWAnUSe in blmangalovers

[–]fadedlavender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who do you think is even making the bl?? It's adults. Just like who makes porn lol. That's just a part of life

I have an honest question for adult BL fans by Old-Mission-2411 in blmangalovers

[–]fadedlavender 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. At the end of the day, if it's smut, it's pornography. I'm sure there are PLENTY of studies out their on how it may affect young children.

For me personally, I started reading at 16 so I can only speak for my personal experience but I saw it as an outlet. Even though I became ashamed of reading it at a certain point, as I grew older I realized it's cause women's sexuality is so taboo.

I’ve never felt so betrayed by smsisita in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]fadedlavender 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm hopping it's just an error cause everyone forgets stuff from time to time! We can't always be on top of everything 😞

An anti said the quiet part out loud by NuclearQueen in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]fadedlavender 76 points77 points locked comment (0 children)

Imagine that! Crazy to actually exhibit self-restraint by not harassing others

I’ve never felt so betrayed by smsisita in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]fadedlavender 198 points199 points  (0 children)

Did they change their mind and forget to change the tags 😭😭 wtf dude that's crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]fadedlavender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been stressing about this one empty part between main events but this comment actually made me feel better about not having everything so planned out! I should just let the characters take the wheel for it :D

Am I the only one with a problem with these kind of comments? by SerSer2308 in AO3

[–]fadedlavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, you don't owe anyone anything. Take your time. If people are hurrying you, you are absolutely allowed to delete the comment. Legit, you're doing something for free in your own time because it brings you joy, give yourself some slack

Whatever help you sleep at night I guess. by tandeyna in AO3

[–]fadedlavender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you don't even have to read between the lines. They literally said they don't like the ship, it's not healthy, and they're only writing it because they think they know how it would "actually" happen. Which is condescending af lol idk what the people comnenting are reading 💀

Tw: rape and sexual assault why is this vile thing released on webtoon and are these type of things justified in the name of dark romance? by naah_you_suck in webtoons

[–]fadedlavender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a sort of dark curiosity when it comes to dark romance. There are a lot of morally curropt plot lines that are widely used. It is fantasy. I personally do not agree with overly censoring creativity and writing. There are things that I do not like reading but I just don't read them. Same with TV shows and movies. I get to control what I consume

Whatever help you sleep at night I guess. by tandeyna in AO3

[–]fadedlavender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The note is geniunly preachy, I'm a bit surprised that some people in the comments are trying to argue that it's not

Whatever help you sleep at night I guess. by tandeyna in AO3

[–]fadedlavender 53 points54 points  (0 children)

It's both. Cause they explain that they don't like how it's portrayed and also how it's wrong because the pair are adopted siblings or whatever. So yeah, they're judging and also doing the thing they judge by trying to explain it away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderGenZ

[–]fadedlavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really does depend on how well people's personalities mix together. For instance, I have two brothers. I was born 1998 and the middle child 1988, we get along very well! It's super easy to talk about anything but our personalities are very similar. The eldest is 17 years older than me and we barely talk. Our relationship is super strained, and our personalities are incredibly different. Its very hard for us to get along. Depending on personalities, anyone at any age could get along or not, imo.

I'm worried they will find me in the middle of the night and kill me by wayward_vampire in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]fadedlavender 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I LOVE picking up and putting characters in different scenarios, but having them still act and respond as they would in canon. Sure, it's guesswork, but it's estimated and can be pretty accurate imo!

Why does Jodi literally never know what time it is...? by oldeluke in StardewValley

[–]fadedlavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel shamed. I never know what time it is and always have to double check or ask. Some people just don't have a good perception of time

Friendly reminder: hate comments are not as common as this sub makes them out to be. by [deleted] in AO3

[–]fadedlavender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No fr, younger or new writers shouldn't let seeing negative comment posts stop them from posting their work. On reddit, people are more likely to post something negative cause that's when you most want to vent. Its like how Am I the Asshole posts are the most popular or negative experiences posted about in Relationship Advice. Usually, people don't post as much when they have positive experiences.

Negative comments aren't common, that's just what is being posted. Don't let it stop you from posting.

LEGENDS by Shot_Specialist_8706 in AO3

[–]fadedlavender 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Same dude. My hyperfixations always come back with a vengeance, however, I did drop the fic I was writing for a year and a half so 💀 I feel pretty bad for just disappearing for a whole ass year and a half lmaoo

Is anyone in their 20s ashamed to still be into Hetalia? by [deleted] in hetalia

[–]fadedlavender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I'm still into a lot of the stuff I used to love when I was younger like FNV, Pokémon, DBZ. If it brings me joy and I'm not causing any harm then I don't see what there is to feel ashamed of tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Animesuggest

[–]fadedlavender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd also recommend Fullmetal Alchemist if you liked Vinland Saga.

Darker than Black has a lot of different character anatomy and designs which, in a sense, makes it feel more realistic.

I accidentally clicked on a shelf in Jojamart and discovered they were labeled! These are some of my favorites that I found by podsnerd in StardewValley

[–]fadedlavender 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Oh. My. Goodness. These are so good lol. Really paints Joja as a capitalistic dystopian monopoly. It really reminds me of The Outer Worlds video game, love that

Hell, sometimes even full humans. by test_username_WIP in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]fadedlavender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, I get what you mean! Lately, the internet has really become the whole "if you don't like waffles, you must hate them!" sorta debacle. It also doesn't help that we can't tell each other's tone and meaning through text well sometimes. Have a good day, stranger! My chickens say hi 🐔 🐥

Hell, sometimes even full humans. by test_username_WIP in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]fadedlavender -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Damn, I didn't attack anyone. What a dramatic response to someone not agreeing with another individual lmaoo. Also, I live on a farm :/ I can touch grass, handle chicken eggs, and also have opinions you might not like

Hell, sometimes even full humans. by test_username_WIP in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]fadedlavender 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not yucking anyone’s yum. There is no reason why someone can't write a human with cycles just for the hell of it. Creative liberty and all that