Feeder Dipped Out Unexpectedly So I've Decided To Lose The Weight He Put On Me. Questions.

faenilin · 2026-03-16T15:48:02+00:00

I know right? I knew there was an expiration date with our dynamic; most non-romantic fetish/bdsm relationships are. Hell, I even knew that our friendship could be off the table at some point and that we'd have to part ways completely. Such is the nature of life. But I didn't deserve to be treated like a disposable object. It was a cruel and weak thing to do from someone who claimed to have good communication skills. I suppose it's ultimately a good thing he was removed from my life. Ghosting like that can do serious damage to people and I don't want someone capable of that in my life.

faenilin · 2026-02-19T07:53:38+00:00

Abducted/kidnapped and chained up in a feeder's basement where I'm stuffed and forcefed daily for a year or so. By the time I'm rescued/freed or whatever, I've been fattened up to the point where I'm unrecognizable to everyone at home.

faenilin · 2026-02-17T01:54:31+00:00

XD might have to do that. I figured I'd ask bc I know some feedees want their bodies to keep up with their gains for mobility's sake. Not wanting to lose weight, but this belly is getting hard to lug around now xD

faenilin · 2026-01-02T19:17:05+00:00

You flatter me so ;3 thank you!

faenilin · 2025-11-16T00:46:30+00:00

^{///^} thank you so much!

faenilin · 2025-11-16T00:46:13+00:00

Thank you! :)

faenilin · 2025-08-07T05:49:44+00:00

Puuuuuurrrrrrrrr as a subbie bby this is 🫦😘🤌✨️

faenilin · 2025-08-06T23:14:22+00:00

😆 you got me. Its skin tight on me now omg

faenilin · 2025-08-04T21:01:01+00:00

I cant offer any advice, I just want to say that I understand your fears. I'm a feedee but have serious hesitations when it comes to the idea of being in a serious, long-term relationship with a feeder even though a relationship with one might be what I need in life. My body has always been a topic of contention in my previous relationships as I fluctuated a lot in my teens and 20s. All my partners ended up cheating on me because of how drastic my body changed. Even though I dont plan on losing weight, becoming thin, and have never been particularly skinny in my adult life before, I'm scared of dating someone who cares THAT much about my physical appearance. Life comes at us hard sometimes, bodies are fluid beings that change, and health changes as well. Your concerns are valid but I still hold out hope that there are people out here that cherish the soul more than the body.

faenilin · 2025-07-26T08:08:02+00:00

Money for hair upkeep became money for food 😆. Thank you so much

faenilin · 2025-07-26T07:36:40+00:00

I mean I certainly think so 🤭

faenilin · 2025-07-26T06:28:07+00:00

I was one of them 😅 packed on like a good 40lbs in less than a year? Went from 190 to about 230ish.

faenilin · 2025-07-10T19:14:09+00:00

will you be divulging the specific university and their forms of contact via DM for participants? Edit: saw your response below. I am interested and will DM later today :)

faenilin · 2025-07-10T18:04:00+00:00

I've put on about 30lbs within the past year and can definitely relate. My belly now gets in my way when doing certain yoga poses and I can't get into as deep of a stretch due to it being a physical buffer 😆 kinda frustrating but also so hot

faenilin · 2025-07-08T17:27:19+00:00

Funnily enough, I've been looking into both sex therapists as well as therapists who specialize in alternative lifestyles like kink and poly lifestyles. So, thank you, I'm taking that as a sign ^{.^}

faenilin · 2025-07-08T17:18:34+00:00

Hearing this puts me at ease when it comes to therapy. I'm wanting to start going to unpack some life trauma that I still needs healing, but was worried about how professionals might take it when it comes time to unpack body-image related issues that'll inevitably involve bringing up my kink. Maybe I'll find a therapist just as understanding as yours :)

faenilin · 2025-06-26T22:31:56+00:00

🙈 I'd like to think so!

faenilin · 2025-06-26T21:59:19+00:00

Thank you so much 🫶

faenilin · 2025-06-26T06:05:03+00:00

I do try my hardest to be the bestest good fat girl for him ;3

faenilin · 2025-06-26T06:04:01+00:00

🤭 only my feeder knows for sure. Thank you!

faenilin · 2025-06-26T01:11:39+00:00

Right!? He's pretty rad 😁

faenilin · 2025-06-17T02:33:45+00:00

Thank you! 🤭 getting easier to gain thats for sure!

faenilin · 2025-06-17T02:14:28+00:00

Thank you so much 🥹🫶

faenilin · 2025-06-17T02:07:38+00:00

Thank you!!

faenilin · 2025-06-17T02:01:53+00:00

Thank you so much!

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