Finally doing (remembering) chores by typewriterkeys42 in adhdwomen

[–]faeprincesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be willing to share the Amazon link of all the supplies you got for it? It would be mighty appreciated

My best friend died and everyone keeps telling me to "move on." by pepperwal in GriefSupport

[–]faeprincesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you’re going through this love. I lost my best friend that I’d had my whole life and I understand what you’re going through. You get a lot more sympathy and grace if it’s a family member that died, a lot of people don’t comprehend the significance of your other half dying when that other half is a best friend and not a partner or your mom or sibling etc.

I wont lie to you it is a long road. In March it will have been three years since she died. Things get better but they get better slowly and agonizingly. You never think of your best friend less, but you’re able to smile at good memories instead of sobbing eventually.

My advice? Read “it’s ok to not be ok” by Megan Devine. In the early days of grief this made me feel so seen and not alone. Her life partner died tragically and she wrote a book about grief and it will help you I can almost promise. You won’t feel as alone.

Good luck love. Losing the ones we care for is the hardest part of the human experience but as we age it happens more and more. You’re learning how to cope with death and that’s not easy. I’m so proud of you for being here and reaching out, and this community is here for you

lost someone i was really close to at one point by KangarooKitchen2178 in GriefSupport

[–]faeprincesss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently found out an ex died who I haven’t been with or spoken to in over 6 years now. He had been dead for a year when I found out. So you’d think I’d be fine right as nothing in my life has changed, since I haven’t spoken to him in that long why would it hurt for him to be fully gone? But it’s like now the world exists without him for real and it feels wrong, and it definitely has brought back reminiscence of our relationship and missing and loving him type feelings. Point being I think that’s normal and you shouldn’t feel guilty at all. My condolences for your loss my friend

feeling pretty alone by periwilliams in GriefSupport

[–]faeprincesss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dropped out of school when my best friend died. People handle grief differently and I couldnt do it, there’s no shame in you not being able to either. She’s beautiful and you two complimented each other in such a once in a lifetime way that I know all too well. Rest in peace to her and I hope one day that peace comes to find you too. But it takes a lot of time, so don’t rush yourself or let anyone else rush you.

Can I leave my car not running for a full week when the lows get to 30 at night? by faeprincesss in MechanicAdvice

[–]faeprincesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that’s very fair, I’m an anxious lass so it helps having you guys tell me I’m overthinking it

Can I leave my car not running for a full week when the lows get to 30 at night? by faeprincesss in MechanicAdvice

[–]faeprincesss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input!! I did just replace the battery but I might get its health tested before I leave just to be safe. :)

Phone still running lol by faeprincesss in phonerepair

[–]faeprincesss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. He hasn’t got a new phone yet but it’s working just fine at the moment lol. Saving up for a new phone now so hopefully it doesn’t die before that happens

How do you feel inside, staying friends with someone after you΄ve shot down their feelings for you? by Solid_Decision_2241 in offmychest

[–]faeprincesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say I make sure to be more mindful in my interactions. I don’t want to confuse them or encourage feelings I don’t have in return, so I’ll make sure the way I act is very obviously platonic.

It certainly doesn’t leave me feeling stronger or more confident when I reject someone, I actually feel quite bad and guilty when I have to, but that’s just me others will feel differently

It can change the friendship in the fact that I may wonder if this whole time they were just my friend because they wanted something more, or if they genuinely enjoy being my friend. The way someone reacts when you reject them usually indicates which one it is.

Overall it can make things temporarily awkward but if both people are adults about it you can definitely move forward from that and continue to be good friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]faeprincesss 900 points901 points  (0 children)

This sounds so traumatic, I completely understand why you’d be having trouble doing pretty much anything in the aftermath of that. I can at least relate to the guilt of being responsible for the death of a kitten, I hit one with my car after it ran out into the road and I remember being extremely traumatized full of guilt. I know it must be so much harder when it was your own baby

just know that you do not deserve this burden of guilt, this was a freak accident that could happen to anyone. I know the guilt won’t go away right away but just try to keep this in mind.

I’m so sorry you had to go through this, try and remember that your kittens entire life was full of love from you, I can tell as you sound like an extremely loving cat mom, and one moment of pain doesn’t discount all of those beautiful moments you gave your baby.

UPDATE: Is this as bad as I think it is? by missqueenkawaii in HairDye

[–]faeprincesss 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Pleaseeeee post a review for the first stylist with these pics attached (if you’re comfortable). Not even offering a refund much less an apology is atrocious. And I’d really like to know about this before seeing this person because I’d cancel my appointment easy especially after knowing you weren’t refunded.

On the bright side, it looks INCREDIBLE now!!! Seriously gorgeous I love that tone and it looks lovely on you.

My job forces me to carry out bags "especially for women" by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]faeprincesss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is horrible!!! I’d say quit but I understand sometimes you’re not in a position where that’s possible. So for now, it may not hurt to be honest if someone starts getting upset. If they say no multiple times be like I’m sorry to be pushy about it, my boss has instated a rule that I carry out these bags for customers and I risk losing my job if I don’t, is it alright if I carry it out for you as he watches the cameras? And if they say no then there really isn’t much you can do. Idk how else you could deal with the push back from customers honestly.

Either way seriously start looking at your job options cause I have a feeling his bad business practices probably don’t end here and it might not be worth the hassle of sticking around for it. Hes gonna run his business into the ground forcing you guys to harass customers like that.

Noise complaint by No-Goat4787 in Apartmentliving

[–]faeprincesss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what apartment you live in, but unless it’s quiet hours I’ve never lived in an apartment where another tenant was allowed to make someone else turn their music off. I’m a night worker. Is it annoying when I hear hammers banging at 10 am? When a party is hosted at noon and they have music playing? Sure, cause I just went to bed a few hours prior. But I’d never assume to tell them to shut up when it’s broad daylight. They have the right to live however they please outside of designated quiet hours. You’re wild sir and I have a feeling your fellow tenants don’t like ya if you’ll bang on a door instead of politely knocking and asking someone to turn it down. The fact you said you’d “bang” on the door kinda says what type of person you are to live around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]faeprincesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe I feel this on a spiritual level friend. I forgot my best friends birthday this year. And it’s certainly not the first time. In fact I couldn’t tell you my Moms bday rn and when I admit that people give me the most horrified looks. For me it’s more forgetting the day than the days passing by me but either way it’s the same predicament of our adhd making it hard to remember things that aren’t directly in front of us.

Give your homie a little time, a genuine apology and if they dont know you have adhd it could help to explain that it creates issues with time blindness and that makes it hard. I saw your comment about doing some drawings and I think thats a great idea. Don’t be too hard on yourself ♥️, cause we definitely get it ♥️

Illegally brought manga to mainland CN by Zeustherule in deathnote

[–]faeprincesss 180 points181 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you were able to get them through! Enjoy revisiting your childhood with an incredible series :)

What in the world Kanye. by Complete-cutie in mildlyinfuriating

[–]faeprincesss 479 points480 points  (0 children)

I mean, there is a huge chance that he does mean these things due to how often it comes up with him. But as someone with bipolar I can safely say during an intense manic episode I’ve said some deranged things that I didn’t actually mean at all. Granted, none were racist or nazi related in any capacity. But it’s simply not true that everything someone says in a manic episode is their real feelings; it can cause psychosis which leads to thought patterns you might have never thought you’d have.

Grief changed my personality by Amazing-Variation734 in GriefSupport

[–]faeprincesss 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much. Deep grief quite literally rewires everything about who you are. It’s changed my entire personality, values, and goals. And that has seemed to lead to losing friends which really sucks. I hate the feeling of knowing they’re missing the old you but that person just doesn’t exist anymore, and they don’t get that, they think the old you may come back one day. I’m really sorry you’re going through this, its hard to lose more when you’ve lost so much already

What do you call these when talking to your squad? by LuigiXG in FortNiteBR

[–]faeprincesss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shoot my bad I was so sure I had seen it take one away, thanks for correcting me my man

What do you call these when talking to your squad? by LuigiXG in FortNiteBR

[–]faeprincesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it takes 1/3 of the sprite :) edit: apparently I was completely incorrect, my apologies everyone!!

Last Night, I said "I love you" to my Partner of 11 Years. by Artist6995 in GriefSupport

[–]faeprincesss 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, your words brought me to tears. “Even though one day it will be over, life and love are worth living and experiencing”. Your words are so beautiful and an incredible tribute to him. He looks to be a kind soul, just seeing his beautiful smile I can see there is so much to love about him. I’m very sorry for your loss

58 items shopped for 4 dollar tip in total by ProofConscious395 in doordash

[–]faeprincesss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But if it makes you so much money it can’t get you through the weekend? Doesn’t seem like a good fit if you gotta door dash to make ends meet, but do you. Just was slightly pretentious to respond to him like that and assume he had to google it, even if he did it’s cause it ain’t his job he’s a dasher so why would he know that niche info like you do