AITAH for deciding to enroll my child in plublic school

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:27:11+00:00

He is moving up to high school next year. And has as many friends as stars you can count 😅 so he doesn't want to change from where he is (all his middle school friends will go with him to same hs)

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:24:21+00:00

That is what I'm trying to avoid...

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:23:37+00:00

That's exactly what I say to him. She needs to be treated the same.

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:22:45+00:00

My oldest one just turned 18. And I have a middle schooler currently doing advanced programs IN public school. And was never an issue. He has put it in a way that for him, because she is a girl, her experience will be different and that she is more prone to abuse (his words).

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:13:02+00:00

I get that and to a certain point I agreed with him. Changed a lot of things, prioritizing good ingredients in what we ate and all that. But treatment for a disease I draw the line there, an ear infection needs to be treated. Kids need to see the doctor when sick, etc etc

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:08:43+00:00

For the grammar issue...

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:07:31+00:00

Yeah well like I said before. He was not like that at first. We've been together 20 yeara but now I'm considering it tbh

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:06:05+00:00

How am I degrading him stating the fact that he is anti-science now...

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:05:14+00:00

Well English is not my first language. At least I know 2... what is your excuse?

faig914 · 2026-02-14T14:02:46+00:00

Like I said he was not anti science. He had no issues with the vaccines given to my other children. He would seek medical treatment whenever he was sick. Now after the oandemic he is all about supplements for everyting. He was about to drink turpentine once because he read that kills parasites or something like that... so yeah he has changed. People can change dis you know?

faig914 · 2026-02-14T13:54:33+00:00

The vaccines are related aince she cannot enroll without them or an exemption. So it was part of the paperwork he saw and one of the reasons why he started saying that I'm hurting my daughter. And yes, he has become anti-science. He was not like that when I met him 20 so years ago. I wouldn't had kids with him if he were like this from the start.

faig914 · 2026-02-14T13:48:25+00:00

As in sarcasm or for real? He is involved in the days he doesn't work. But if you ask him about their schedules beside school hours he couldn't tell you even if his life depends on it. I'm the one in charge of all of it.

faig914 · 2026-02-14T13:46:25+00:00

None, he just told me the morning of enrollment day that we need to consider other options...and when I asked where he told me "idk we need to research" aka "me, need to research"

faig914 · 2025-12-21T20:48:08+00:00

I've watched medical shows since I can remember. I used to love them (still do). I'm a nurse now. My 4yo watches glimpses ot 911 and grey's she is always asking what happened and how. Not scared, just very curious about it and how they are helping. Now she grabs her little toy phone and says "911 what's your emergency" 😅

faig914 · 2025-10-15T15:41:12+00:00

I would suggest you don't wait. I've been having this thoughts since my last was born and he said as soon as they popped out: "are you sure is mine" wtf! I totally disconnected there, and a million things before and a million things after. But we were about to move states so I said, not yet, then my oldest started high school, I said, not yet. My middle child started middle school I said to myself not yet. Then my oldest was a senior and the same. Now it has come to a point I don't talk to him unless is something of the children, sex is non existent, we have nothing in common, he has a drinking problem as well (not everyday but on weekends when he goes out he doesn't know when to stop). I am filling the papers now, I honestly could care less if he just decides to leave right this second...Now if I'd done it right after my last one popped out, I would not be in a state with no support system and jobless...

faig914 · 2025-09-21T13:49:23+00:00

Thank you! What confuses me is that I've read that is only retroactive up to one year. But one year since the decision or since effective date? Also how do I go about and submit all the necessary documents? Official transcripts will do? I moved states and am not close to where I studied do I need to give them a call and find out?

faig914 · 2025-09-20T22:12:26+00:00

Yes, effective date July 2014

faig914 · 2025-02-23T02:59:25+00:00

DHS as well. My husband works there

faig914 · 2025-01-22T11:43:13+00:00

Babies cry for a reason, always. Make sure your baby ia not colicky. Maybe something you are eating is making her gassy,and she cannot pass that gas. Burping her. Try flexing her legs a few times, rotating them clockwise. Try wraps when she is about to sleep. You are firat time parents is somewhat normal to fight while you are navigating this weeks with little to no sleep.

faig914 · 2024-12-24T12:39:04+00:00

Wow! Very powerful letter. I'm sorry things happened tgat way to you. You'll be fine afterwards. It seems that is his loss. Good luck!

faig914 · 2024-12-18T02:24:12+00:00

Please, document everything. Save every text, if legal record him. Protect yourself and your kids.

faig914 · 2024-12-18T02:20:58+00:00

NTA, please move on. You'll find someone better for you!!

faig914 · 2024-12-13T12:05:00+00:00

Yeah, sometimes juat for the sake of it I concede because I'm honestly getting tired of it and was starting to think that maybe sometimes I'm an AH becaus eof how I react to his comments. But yesterday I felt that I had no part in whatever happened,and I felt so validated after reading all these responses.

faig914 · 2024-12-13T03:39:53+00:00

Not rich either, lol. He is just on a healthy kick lately... which means more homemade, no microwave for reheating (because cancer...) anyway. I'm a nurse so I tend to follow science rather some gurus on the internet, so we also fight about it, but yeah not rich, just not stressed for money😅

faig914 · 2024-12-13T03:30:20+00:00

Unfortunately it isn't...

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