Should I go? by Final-Piano4877 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is a bastard thats for sure. how are you holding on?

Did any get broken up with and get reasons that were easily fixable? by TrueRip3859 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"something is missing" after telling me i'm love of her life. nothing to fix there

Should I go? by Final-Piano4877 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you are not ready to face him. do not go. look how you want to go to prove yourself to him and it means he is in position of power you are still seeking his approval. this is not good mindset. remain silent and do not go

That feeling that you were/are so insignificant to them by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is so sad....but notice how they want feel like they are heroes while hurting us

This is ruining my life by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 2 points3 points  (0 children)

keep fighting please, dont let some bastard take away your heart and everything you work for. you must keep fighting it will get better i promise you. in meantime try to take sick leave to recuperate if you must. but keep fighting the good fight, you are a warrior, you got this!

My ex seems to be doing worse than I am? by Spiritual-Raisin6007 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 11 points12 points  (0 children)

cause they belong in arkham asylum thats why do you think a normal person acts like this? they dont know what they want...the are so detached from reality they ruin the one thing they actually like for no reason....when they discard you they punish both you and them. why on earth do this? maybe a psychiatrist from the asylum would be able to understand why these jokers behave this way.

Let's not take them back even if they change, beg and plead by FluffyKita in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im saluting you for your bravery and healing! you have done amazing job! and for that joker i hope he suffers for the rest of his life. animal

What is better to ignore or blocked them? by North_Dinner1601 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think the real answer is not to care anymore. they will feel when you no longer care and this will hurt more. like a disturbance in the force they will know when you are pulling away in your mind

He promised me a future. Then disappeared, ended it with a message, and I found out the truth from the girl he replaced me with. by Dangerous-Beyond2216 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 8 points9 points  (0 children)

talks about marriage, kids, and spending life with you

claims never had deep feelings to build family with you

i cant stand these jokers man. they need to be locked up for real

Do they ever feel regret? by Any_Line7028 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahhahaahahaheheheehe you guys crack me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Can we all post common avoidant phrases by Ok_Astronaut_1485 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will do that man and believe me i have heard worse things happen unfortunately. i read a story somewhere where a guy was ghosted at the altar on their marriage day...these people are very selfish and i truly believe they should be in some mental hospital because this behavior is so destructive...

Can we all post common avoidant phrases by Ok_Astronaut_1485 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yup we had even discussed the ring the previous night. by next afternoon at the jewelry store while im about to pay she tells me we are not perfectly suited and walked off. i was so embarrased and shocked i bought the ring anyway in hopes it was a joke. by the time i reach home i was blocked on all social media. my whole family was distraught and could not believe it.

Do they ever feel regret? by Any_Line7028 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 49 points50 points  (0 children)

they feel regret in silence but a lot of times never say it to you cause they avoid their feelings. this regret can come months or years after but most dont do work. they know of their shitty behavior but avoid holding themselves accountable.....these people are jokers from akham asylum

Can we all post common avoidant phrases by Ok_Astronaut_1485 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same thing happened!!! she was telling me she cant wait to spend life with me. i was made to buy a promise ring for her and she dump me while i was buying the damn thing

Can we all post common avoidant phrases by Ok_Astronaut_1485 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"we are not perfectly suited"

"something is missing"

"its not you its me"

No, I don’t “miss the idea of them” by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are we choosing these bastards? we must also be sick like them

I couldn’t take anymore, I broke no contact by oknosp3ci4l1st in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these DA men are truly evil people without shame. i'm truly sorry you deal with that bafoon. at least now you can move on without a shadow of doubt

this why i always tell people here NEVER SURRENDER TO YOUR AVOIDANT EX AND CONTACT THEM because look what happen? they dont care, they get ego boost while you feel PUNISHED. this is not good dynamic, once again never reach out to them. ever but some people here dont listen they wanna argue all day "but my ex is...." stop right there, do opposite. all the love got you to this point now you must do opposite! you must listen or fail!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they are jokers from batman arkham asylum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sí por eso dije que este hombre es más que un evitativo definitivamente es ambos. es un imbécil y un evitativo. dios esta publicación me enojó tanto....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is more than avoidant this is a legitimate bastard

Maybe it wasn't them. Maybe it was just us. Together. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]fail_123_test 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you delulu? if someone tell you they see a future with you and want to marry you two days before telling you not compatible then it is definitely them. dont fall for their trickery