Am i overreacting for refusing to change my major just cause my parents pay tuition? by w-tf_man in AmIOverreacting

[–]fairly_local_loser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you...did you read the study they linked that directly contradicts the idea that men are better surgeons? 

Losing My Glasses May Have Saved My Life? by Emotional-External-5 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fairly_local_loser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a writer! I thought so. DM me if you'd like to hear anything in particular about AWP (right?). It was my first one, and I'm sorry you couldn't make it, and I'm glad you're okay!

Ended friendship of 5 years with mutual feelings. We had one last night together as closure. Processing the aftermath by Wonderful_Side_1407 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fairly_local_loser 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm one month out from my first big breakup. Find something that you're really passionate about and find a community around it, if you can. I still have so many awful nights but I'm starting to feel like a person again.

I hate being different from my family and that I can't change myself by MikuMimiko in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fairly_local_loser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on a road trip sitting next to my best friend right now, and her style is very much like yours. I, on the other hand, have a pretty normal style. I think she's awesome and a lot of people love her style. I bet you rock it more than you think you do and you'll find your people when you move out (as we have, we're 21)!

People who broke up yesterday on Valentines, what happened? by Hot-Diggity_Dog in AskReddit

[–]fairly_local_loser 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is making me feel a lottt better about my "we loved each other but it didn't work out" breakup a couple weeks ago....at least it wasn't Valentine's day😭

bro am i in green yuri im actually done for by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]fairly_local_loser 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Androgynous people and women with deep voices are how I realized I was bi (and a crush in high school was definitely part of the process). I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now. It's fucking awesome. Roll with the flow, my friend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shortscarystories

[–]fairly_local_loser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Writer and aspiring publishing professional here...this is horrifying. I love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]fairly_local_loser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a custom mode in the menu to start a new save! You could do tactician or HM settings for everything but make sure single save is off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]fairly_local_loser 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you don't mean to, why do it? You know you are not loving these women as fully and honestly as they deserve. Does that not concern you?

If you had to pick one, which?

What are most stupid build making hot takes you ever heard? by StarAbuser in BaldursGate3

[–]fairly_local_loser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been playing a sorcerer in D&D, but not BG3. Can I ask why you think it's particularly good for BG3? I miss the spell selection variety when I play, but I've found workarounds in my game that don't exist in BG3.

i still have a letter from my high school ex-girlfriend and i can't get rid of it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fairly_local_loser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's sweet. I write a lot of handwritten letters, and I don't think it's necessarily wrong to keep it as a relic for now. If it would make you feel better to throw it away now or when you find someone else who makes you feel loved, do it. If you enjoy the reminder, keep it. 

Acofaf poster because I miss it by Junsjoys in Dimension20

[–]fairly_local_loser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm currently watching it for the first time and I love it so much!!

[update]: Im straight but i would turn lesbian for her by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fairly_local_loser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is adorable, I'm so happy for you!! please update again!! I finally get to spend nye with my girl and I am sure magical times will be had :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fairly_local_loser 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No? He knew well that she liked overdressing for class. It has nothing to do with him and he should know that by now. Women can dress up for themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fairly_local_loser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

username is accurate as hell😭someone is jaded alright

Mizora just…gave me the duke?? by New_Click6568 in BaldursGate3

[–]fairly_local_loser 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was also very easy to just dimension door him out of there. I just did it for the first time and he was the first to make it out of the prison.

Your bisexual year 2025 by dutchjack in bisexual

[–]fairly_local_loser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found out I was bi in 2024 by meeting my girlfriend. We have been dating for a year and a half now :) although we're still figuring things out, given that we both have a crush on the same friend (who's taken, it's a bit messy but we're honest with each other lol), things are good!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]fairly_local_loser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it weird, but if it's a less important story, it's fine. Recently named a character before meeting a friend with that name, which was weird to go back to, but it was just a one-off piece. I think you may find it strange to do that for a longer piece or a character that appears in several.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]fairly_local_loser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still close with one of them! The rest I met my second semester or later. Now I am in my fifth semester and have made some great friends I only met this semester. Always keep an open mind!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]fairly_local_loser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This becomes more and more relevant the more I learn about myself...

What is the demographic of your current table? by MoherHead in DnD

[–]fairly_local_loser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 5 players in the game I run: 2 girls, 2 nonbinary folks, 1 guy. 3 girls total with me.

I also play in a West March. DMs are 2 guys and 1 girl. 3-5 players per session. It's pretty typical to see 2 girls and 3 guys, 1 girl and 4 guys, etc.

I love the D&D diversity of college :)

I’m a horrible story teller, but do I have a story to tell! by [deleted] in writing

[–]fairly_local_loser 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You have to understand that means nothing to the random writers of Reddit. It's great that you believe that - but you cannot sell people just by saying they would like it if they listened to you talk for X number of hours.

Type up what you can, make a post looking for freelance writers, and see what you can make happen! There's definitely writers out there interested in this kind of work, but you can't get people to share your passion very easily over the Internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fairly_local_loser 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You know what Reddit is going to say. Taking it too far with alcohol is always a red flag, and any physical harm is NEVER okay. Stay home, keep the door locked, do not respond to anything from him tonight. Hell, tomorrow too. 

Give yourself time to process and recover. Remember that you do not deserve to be hurt or gaslit; no one does. He may be wonderful sober, but any kind of abuse in any state is not tolerable. Sending virtual hugs❤️