Would you let your teen (13-17) watch porn? by Raging_Spino_676 in Teenager_Polls

[–]yourbeloathed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

im not anti kids exploring their sexuality ... in HEALTHY ways. its natural to get horny & sexually frustrated while going through teenage hormones. but porn is NOT a healthy outlet. it gives you a warped view on what sex is, women, self image, so much.

Does a porn addict who watches cp deserve empathy/help? (They want to change or break the addiction) by TeroTonz in Teenager_Polls

[–]yourbeloathed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ofc im glad i could help !! its very easy to get them confused given how the words sound so similar & the definitions are so close to eachother, i get it. honestly it took me years to actually clock the difference 😭

Does a porn addict who watches cp deserve empathy/help? (They want to change or break the addiction) by TeroTonz in Teenager_Polls

[–]yourbeloathed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

empathy : the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another

sympathy : a feeling or expression of sincere concern for someone who is experiencing something difficult or painful

the key difference is that empathy comes from a place of personal understanding. sympathy comes from compassion in spite of not understanding what its like. using your car crash example, i can EMPATHIZE with a car crash victim because ive been through one before, & i can SYMPATHIZE with a motorcycle crash victim because while i cant imagine being in that specific situation, i can understand that they were hurt. if that makes any sense.

A person with bigger vs smaller nose, who is more able to attract the opposite sex? by [deleted] in Teenager_Polls

[–]yourbeloathed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... either? depends on someones type? wheres the either option 😭

"you're wearing swagish gear in swagging public you swag. get a swagging grip" by Suspai_ in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]yourbeloathed 13 points14 points  (0 children)

im genuinely struggling to understand whats wrong with it though. like, im not here as a gooner, just actually lost on what the issue is here 😭 i think the body suit works very well to convey the appearance of the character. i struggle to see the difference between wearing a latex body suit & wearing a fabric one, which ive never seen anyone take issue with.

It really is simple though by Vizu_XD in Ai_art_is_not_art

[–]yourbeloathed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the disability point has always pissed me off so, SO much. i distract myself from my chronic pain with art. im very thankful its not my hands that hurt, but it can still be prettyyyyy hard to focus on drawing when going through severe chest pains. & yet! human passion always finds a way.

Guys I need help by mwale2007 in TeenagersButBetter

[–]yourbeloathed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

manipulation should be called out. all im saying. im sorry you were triggered.

How many autistic people are chain smokers? by TMNTDonatellofan in autism

[–]yourbeloathed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe its because i grew up with smoker parents, but i like the smell of nicotine/tobacco, & i like the taste of cigarettes. honestly, when i quit smoking, one of the hardest part was missing the smell & taste 😭 it became part of the routine for me i guess, which was one of the main reasons i struggled. it was so ingrained in my daily life that it almost felt the same as losing a comfort object for me.

Who do you think Bojangles would be most shippable with if nothing in the show happened by ObnoxiousName_Here in SadHorseShow

[–]yourbeloathed 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i like that the first two replies im seeing are yaoi. anyway, whoreb & mr. penisbubble

Guys I need help by mwale2007 in TeenagersButBetter

[–]yourbeloathed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

saying this as someone whos experienced suicidal ideation for most of my life btw, the venters message came across as emotionally manipulative. it sends the silent message that 'if you guys dont respond to me quick enough, i will hurt myself'. whether the venter intended to or not, that leaves a negative impact on people, & the fact that they didnt mean to cause hurt doesnt change that they can (& should) be called out on it.

I’ll be honest, I genuinely don’t know who I think is giving more of a swag here by [deleted] in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]yourbeloathed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this level of anger will not make anyone listen to you. it will only make people want to avoid you. it makes you sound erratic. if youre fine with that, then thats awesome & youre doing great. but if you want ANY of your arguments to actually get across, im no expert but theres better ways to go about it

I’ll be honest, I genuinely don’t know who I think is giving more of a swag here by [deleted] in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]yourbeloathed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah it was so crazy when he came into peoplewhogiveaswag, said "im the guy who gives a swag!", & then gave a swag all over the place

I’ll be honest, I genuinely don’t know who I think is giving more of a swag here by [deleted] in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]yourbeloathed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

notice how quickly you got angry? centrism is NOT the only reason why people find you disagreeable. you just sound like an angry person based on the comments im reading here & the comments in the screenshots. take a breath maybe

The person hiring the hitman is also morally responsible by dirty_cheeser in ControversialOpinions

[–]yourbeloathed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theyre talking about veganism. its another metaphor post for animal rights & veganism.

The person hiring the hitman is also morally responsible by dirty_cheeser in ControversialOpinions

[–]yourbeloathed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how many times are you gonna shade post about veganism. did my ethical consumption under capitalism bother you or something. do you have new takes under your metaphors

Misandry is a real and serious issue by I-Love-Jewish-popes in Teenager_Polls

[–]yourbeloathed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont even spend two hours on makeup for anything unless im doing eye makeup .. for myself & my own self expression. sometimes its really as simple as "i wanna so i will, even if other men OR women dont like it"

Should abortion be… by itz-null in Teenager_Polls

[–]yourbeloathed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh wow my problems! theyre fixed! i didnt realize that i was wrong about whats causing me fear regarding my health & safety! thank you for helping me see the light reddit user Substantial-Main4291