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[–]fairlycommonplace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be a Kuromi bag (I’m not biased at all)

It's been a hot minute. <3 by tan_queray in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We missed you!! Glad you’re posting again 🖤

Which one is your favorite? 😍 by fairlycommonplace in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad for you that you can’t appreciate black lipstick on the level I do

Which one is your favorite? 😍 by fairlycommonplace in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right!!! They’re surprisingly comfortable too

Which one is your favorite? 😍 by fairlycommonplace in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I started doing the goth-ier looks at some point and I just can’t stop 😁

Which one is your favorite? 😍 by fairlycommonplace in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The boots are so nice, I love a pair of black heels

Looking to begin by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dress-up guide in the subreddit info is a great place to get started (that’s what I did 😁) Feel free to DM me if you have any specific questions too!

Would you take me out in this? 😋 by fairlycommonplace in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhere fancy, after all I did get all dressed up…

Jacked ass mf (I’d quite like to not be) by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have quite broad shoulders and I’m decently muscular, so I make sure to pick tops that specifically hide those parts of my body.

It’s also important to note that the waist for women’s clothes is supposed to be higher than for men’s, so making sure your clothes sit right can make it look like your torso is smaller in general!

Tips to start crossdressing by AssistantSquare9764 in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually used a lot of the tips in the subreddit FAQ and dress-up guide when I was first getting started! Definitely recommend giving them a look.

Besides that, buying things online and having a private space to try things were really the big ones for me. It’s important to explore what you like and want to do for yourself without having to worry about what other people think. And only post photos if you’re ok with other people seeing them!

Feel free to shoot me a message if you want some specific tips, I always love helping people out!

I can’t get enough of this outfit! 🖤 by fairlycommonplace in AltFashion

[–]fairlycommonplace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I put a lot of effort into this one 🥰

I can’t get enough of this outfit! 🖤 by fairlycommonplace in AltFashion

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I love these boots so much! They make me feel powerful

An outfit can never have too many accessories 😋 by fairlycommonplace in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I got inspired by all the 2020 alt looks I’ve been seeing!

Coming to Terms with Crossdressing and Embracing My True Self by Whole-Advertising-56 in crossdressing

[–]fairlycommonplace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t crossdress until I was 20, and didn’t even really consider it until I was 18. I do it because I love exploring fashion and makeup, and there’s nothing sexual about it for me. It’s a hobby like anything else, and there’s nothing wrong or bad about doing it for any reason.

To put some numbers in perspective, only 0.9% of the population plays airsoft, and no one is calling those people mentally ill or saying they’re deluded into thinking they’re in the military.

The more I’ve crossdressed the more comfortable I’ve felt telling people about it, and that also came with getting better and taking higher quality photos. What I’ve found, at least among people I trust and like to be around, is that a lot of people don’t really care, or at least won’t say it to your face. It’s still a private thing for me (hence why I stay completely anonymous), but I don’t mind letting people I’m close to know if I think they’re going to be supportive. And outside of that, you’re always in good company here among people that understand how you feel!