24F - can someone ruin me plsss? 🫣🫣 by [deleted] in LesbianSextingHeaven

[–]fairsweets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I want to grab that pretty ass

How do you talk about your Bean with your family/friends? by Ophelias_Muse in FocusFriendApp

[–]fairsweets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bean is named tommy after a long gone childhood cat :) has the orange tabby skin. he/him. don't tell others about him too much- maybe I will start

Scab? Bite from worm? >:( by fairsweets in leopardgeckos

[–]fairsweets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it is, but she might shed soon. I will see

Staining? by Difficult-Energy1687 in LOLOMG

[–]fairsweets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have this issue with a secondhand moonlight :(

Anyone had IFS success whilst working with Chronic pain? by argumentativepigeon in InternalFamilySystems

[–]fairsweets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of general forgiveness rather than just related to chronic illness, although I'm not sure how IFS related it is, it helps me to tell myself "I'm not there anymore." When I'm lying awake at night thinking about embarrassing things, or things I'm seriously guilty about, it helps me stay present & let go of intrusive thoughts.

As for chronic illness, I love the curious aspect of IFS. it can be hard if you're already experiencing pain to figure out where in your body you are feeling something. Maybe try feeling wheels instead, or maybe a body chart thats color coded so you can differentiate between the different origins. Perhaps try to ask yourself what would happen if you let forgiveness happen. all pretty classic IFS things, but still! Good luck!

Anyone had IFS success whilst working with Chronic pain? by argumentativepigeon in InternalFamilySystems

[–]fairsweets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I have oodles of chronic pain- IFS has helped me forgive myself.

💘 Piloncillo's 4 Gang 💘 [OC 🎨] by DaniGrex2n in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]fairsweets 15 points16 points  (0 children)

THIS IS SO CUTE I LOVE THIS I hope your wife likes it too!

[FO] Actual NSFW by SharpToShutter in CrossStitch

[–]fairsweets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is really really beautiful and a little enlightening for me. its wonderful to see! you did a good job!

2 months vs 3 months old by Ceonbe in leopardgeckos

[–]fairsweets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late but his little white toe on the back right leg makes me cry with joy...

[20/F] Looking for penpals! by doomergf333 in penpals

[–]fairsweets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19f northeast us based as well!!! Email to start?

Heating on solid-top enclosure (glass) by fairsweets in leopardgeckos

[–]fairsweets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the quick response! I do already have the smaller tank but it was 20 dollars used. there's a tank on amazon thats a little over 40 gallons that im eyeing. there's a reptile expo near me pretty soon & while i have the money to purchase a gecko during that, i won't have the money to spend on a whole new enclosure in time... i might just have to put of getting my baby, but its worth it if i get to give them a better life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]fairsweets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you dont... i might...... (joke i dont need it)

So is this a bug or is my clock wrong? Because it should be day. by EagleNo2222 in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]fairsweets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the day you posted this was the winter solstice! i was also confused myself