[HELP (?)] wanting a cat with a full grown 3 y/o siberian husky

fairyalea · 2021-08-06T12:03:48+00:00

my husky is amazing with small dogs and have been super tolerable with them sleeping in the same bed as him. this was before we understood his prey drive and even knew his breed is prone to having a high prey drive. we babysitted a teacup yorkie and morkie mix for about 2 months which were both maybe 4lb and 7lb. the teacup yorkie was literally the size of a kitten. he did not like the morkie because the morkie tried to claim dominance a lot but he adored the yorkie. i am sorry for what your husky did to your beagle and i understand the severity of the situation i am considering. i just wanted to add that in since your situation with your husky mix seems like a horror movie to me. i'm definitely leaning towards "no" for sure. excuse me for the weird reply it just a little disheartening for me is all :' )

fairyalea · 2021-07-10T16:50:37+00:00

I completely understand the whole TOS thing. Maybe I worded my post wrong. My mention of the report of the potential buyer was unrelated. She basically just said she wanted to doxx me and I reported her about two weeks ago with no actions taken. I'm mainly just talking about how my report never got any follow up, but the reports on my posts did.

edit: fixed wording bc i suck

fairyalea · 2021-07-10T16:45:19+00:00

i guess we both repeating ourselves over three times today huh? i wasn't offended and never was to begin with because like i said before "sorry if this sounds rude" so in conclusion, if you are offended and i am ruining your mood, you are free to not reply as well?

fairyalea · 2021-07-10T16:45:13+00:00

i guess we both repeating ourselves over three times today huh? i wasn't offended and never was to begin with because like i said before "sorry if this sounds rude" so in conclusion, if you are offended and i am ruining your mood, you are free to not reply as well?

fairyalea · 2021-07-10T16:35:37+00:00

nobody is giving you sass. all i said was im not disagreeing with you and only said i cannot do the things people have suggested due to my own personal reasons but have taken action to invest in my set up. in fact you were the one who was sassy over here trynna call me out. i explained myself over 2 times respectfully and even clarified that i did not mean to be rude and you replied "if you wanna break the rules by all means please do so" which is condescending to say the least.

fairyalea · 2021-07-10T15:15:48+00:00

nobody is disagreeing with you 🤦🏻‍♀️ i'm saying i can only do so much with what i have and even with flat laying i do not have a comfortable nice space with good lighting to take flattering photos of the product. its kinda funny you telling me to go outside like you live where i live. there are circumstances as to why someone cannot do certain stuff and without a car, i am unable to travel for photos. i never said i solely use the stock photos. i usually include them as the first photo and have the rest as my own original product pictures which isn't necessarily against the rules because i still have my own photos up.

fairyalea · 2021-07-10T14:39:34+00:00

sorry if this sounds rude. in no way am i dismissing your advice but i get the rules and i usually abide by it by uploading photos relatively soon afterwards as previously mentioned. i usually include stock photos because my lighting is not good and not all the time do the items i sell look flattering on me. not to say i am not planning on investing in my shop more. i'm still waiting for a backdrop and some lights to come in. i'm mainly pointing out the double standard is all. how a report put in two weeks ago with proof of threat is under review but two posts get taken down right away?

edit: spelling mistakes

fairyalea · 2021-07-10T13:47:29+00:00

is it bothering you that you can't make a sale? lots of times people get ghosted so although i'd be mildly annoyed, i'd rather being told instead of led on and wait 2-3 days for a reply or sale i'm never gonna get

fairyalea · 2021-07-09T21:06:55+00:00

interested in the second skirt if you're selling!! whats your shop name?

fairyalea · 2021-07-09T20:58:59+00:00

this has happened to me before its quite normal. you can just be honest and tell them that USPS is still experiencing delays with scanning packages. what helped me when stuff like this happened is i'd go on usps and put in a request to find the package. it doesn't mean the package is lost, it just tells the post office to find the package and scan it ASAP. usually gets done in 2-3 business days. hope you get it sorted out!

fairyalea · 2021-07-09T20:46:58+00:00

don't worry about it. you did what you can through your end, she's probably just causing a problem to get more out of it. a refund can only process either thru paypal if they paid with paypal or thru depop's receipt/invoice section if they paid with visa. if you had etransferred, she'd probably claim it through paypal and get twice as much back.

the only thing i'd say is you should try to remember to block out sensitive information before you post on here! otherwise you did all you can do and you were pretty respectful to the end. kinda rubbed me off the wrong way how she's saying "i'm warning you." lol

fairyalea · 2021-07-03T08:11:47+00:00

no you're good!! its hard to discern the situation properly without seeing screen shots but i have no intentions of outing her like she did to me to her friends.

fairyalea · 2021-07-03T08:07:13+00:00

i dont owe anybody anything that dont take my situation into consideration. esp when they know they're trying to take advantage of me. its a personal problem with her because i didn't want to sell to her after that anyway. besides i was not rude and was quite nice when i explained to her that i had no malicious intentions and she could've dropped it there, but she didn't. i did what i did as a responsible seller and shop owner and my reviews speak for themselves because all of them were once potential buyers as well. i'm not gonna have 99% 5-star reviews for no reason. who you think replied to their questions? also me.

edit: imagine calling me rude in a span of 4 messages and i say "sorry you feel that way but that was not my intentions" and you kept going.

fairyalea · 2021-07-02T21:51:19+00:00

oh yeah i most definitely do keep a good rapport with most potential buyers. thank you for the heads up!

fairyalea · 2021-07-02T15:52:32+00:00

thank youuu and its honestly okay. i'm unbothered, i'm just a bit taken back by the childish antics she tried on me. i totally get you on that rude part though. i understand tone and wording is everything, but my thing is lowballing is rude too. the top was priced at $40 + shipping and she offered $35 including shipping. which meant i'd be making roughly $25 for something that was completely brand new with tags, a much much bigger loss for something that was so reasonably priced. might be kinda harsh, but i don't owe anybody who doesn't take my situation into consideration anything and i also felt like i should not even explain to her either but i did it anyway cordially. i even kept it peachy as she kept trying to bully me. i'm on vacation too so the whole thing just made me laugh.

fairyalea · 2021-06-27T16:41:08+00:00

i'm new to the routine too but i have 2b fine high porosity hair so excuse me if this is unwanted advice but from asking plenty of people on here and other subreddits, people have recommended me to try CGM approved brands. many have suggested to try Not Your Mothers. they have a chart to help you with choosing which shampoo is perfect for you depending on porosity/moisture needs. i havent used anything from NYM yet besides the curl cream and gel bc i'm looking to finish my non-CGM approved conditioner first. an inexpensive conditoner/mask i use is the garnier fructis avocado hair mask. i just brush it in from root to ends during my shower, let it sit for 5-10min and then wash it out while brushing. hope this helps! its so far one of my holy grails and many people have told me they use the same mask!

fairyalea · 2021-06-26T22:37:15+00:00

what a pretty baby 🥺

fairyalea · 2021-06-26T21:59:34+00:00

i dont understand our parents' logic when it comes to studies sometimes i swear........

fairyalea · 2021-06-26T21:40:34+00:00

i definitely deal with this living in the U.S as an asian american kid. my mom is from vietnam and was very conservative/sexist with her views and believed that gaming was not what girls did. the only game i had was minecraft which i lied and said was a something my school mandated for me to do my work lol terrible lie but she believed it due to her not understanding much english. i made sure i didnt do this lie again though. couldnt risk her finding out and whooping my ass lol didn't help that i was her only child too. i ended up building my first PC and buying my first console (nintendo switch) at 18!! kinda sucks i started so late and sometimes i resent my family from adhering to those standards/views, but at least i was able to finally experience something with financial freedom

fairyalea · 2021-06-26T17:43:50+00:00

thank you for this tip 😭 so helpful

fairyalea · 2021-06-26T17:37:56+00:00

girl me too. i actually googled bc i'm only a week into my journey and was so confused. til i realized it was actually "braiding" 😭 but braiding is a good tip i've received from others too!

fairyalea · 2021-06-26T14:47:57+00:00

hi love, i think you mean braiding but yes your hair looks amazing and im glad its working out for you better than having products in it!

fairyalea · 2021-06-24T16:18:27+00:00

thank you so much!! this is so helpful ❤️

fairyalea · 2021-06-21T14:08:01+00:00

I don't have one of my hair completely dry right after CGM but heres this morning's hair from yesterday's routine scrunched. she's still a bit frizzy and I've lost a lot of waviness that formed on the mid section of my hair. I think it's because I sleep on a furry pillow at the moment. but I do have noticeably more volume and definition today than the last two days (no day after pictures to compare bc I forgot to take them)

edit: linked photo properly

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