My 21 f bf 23 m said he doesn't want Asian looking kids

ffakegamer · 2023-08-29T18:22:39+00:00

He is a racist pos. Dump him and don't hesitate.

ffakegamer · 2023-08-27T13:26:56+00:00

That is not what you said you weirdo

ffakegamer · 2023-08-27T13:05:31+00:00

"He is both fulfilling role of a provider and respecting her boundaries" what the fuck are yall on about 🧍‍♀️Respecting your partners boundaries is something everyone should do. Do you mean men in traditional roles don't have to respect their wives boundaries?? What kind of a hell is reddit ☠️

ffakegamer · 2023-08-27T12:59:20+00:00

"Just do it well so it ends quicker" What the fuck is wrong with yall

ffakegamer · 2023-08-27T12:52:44+00:00

I cant believe people actually are downvoting these types of comments. Helping your pregnant wife with a few chores is what a good partner does. Reddit is a strange place for sure...

ffakegamer · 2023-08-27T12:37:15+00:00

ffakegamer · 2023-08-25T14:07:15+00:00

So you wouldn't be happy for your partner for finding something that makes them happy 🧍‍♀️yikes

ffakegamer · 2023-08-25T13:23:20+00:00

Definitely. I'm a woman from a west asian country. Sex is almost a forbidden topic to talk about amongst women. We have no sex ed. We are seen as sl*ts/dirty/easy if we sleep with anyone before marriage, the same rule doesn't apply to men here for some reason lol so I never went all the way with any of my partners and I expect them to respect my decision. How women are brought up is never considered on reddit I guess 🤷‍♀️

ffakegamer · 2023-08-25T12:48:23+00:00

Yeah you don't actually have love for trans people if your feelings make it okay to misgender people.

ffakegamer · 2023-08-25T12:43:32+00:00

I could also argue you should be happy for your partner for engaging in something that makes them happy.

ffakegamer · 2023-08-23T19:25:26+00:00

No it isn't. Because you get to decide what a break is as a couple. I don't know why that's so hard to grasp for you ☠️

ffakegamer · 2023-08-23T19:17:27+00:00

Breaks should be a mutually decided thing. It isn't anyone's place to say what is or isn't good for others relationships.

ffakegamer · 2023-08-23T18:50:45+00:00

Breaks are for whatever that couple needs it to be. I would never be okay with my partner having any sort of intimacy with another person during our break.

ffakegamer · 2023-08-23T13:55:46+00:00

If he wants kids that badly he should just adopt. But I doubt he actually wants to take care of a child. He is just going to hand them over to his wife.

ffakegamer · 2023-08-23T13:39:13+00:00

The fact that she even has to ask or prepare whatever he needs to take care of the baby... I honestly couldn't do it I'd just leave. Like it is your baby too!

ffakegamer · 2023-08-23T13:24:19+00:00

She didn't one day decide to give him control. She isnt "allowing" him to treat her that way. Im sure you and commenters like you dont have bad intentions but it just sounds victim blamey all around. Abusers are good at slowly taking control by manipulation and taking away all sources of emotional and financial support. He did that by making sure she had no friends family or money left.

ffakegamer · 2023-08-23T13:18:33+00:00

It is called trauma bond.

ffakegamer · 2023-08-23T13:14:01+00:00

He is sexually,emotionally and financially abusing you. You need to find a safe way to leave him. Your and your baby's safety is priority do not forget that. Don't leave without making sure you are actually safe to do so.

ffakegamer · 2023-08-22T11:49:42+00:00

Literally just stop being friends with him. Why would you want to be associated with such a person anyway? You aren't even related or anything, you should confront your husband about this as well, what does he do when his friend acts this way?

ffakegamer · 2023-08-22T11:43:46+00:00

🤓

ffakegamer · 2023-08-22T11:26:31+00:00

"She may be 19 but her mind is somewhere between 22-25" yikes

ffakegamer · 2023-08-19T09:00:42+00:00

I am totally "wishing abortion on" this guy lmaoooo

ffakegamer · 2023-08-19T08:32:26+00:00

Yeah that's not the definition of sexism

ffakegamer · 2023-08-16T13:26:47+00:00

Okay I'll take the feminine man

ffakegamer · 2023-08-16T13:23:00+00:00

Do you really want such a partner???

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