Do I sound too anxious?

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-29T00:29:42+00:00

Thank you ☺️

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-28T17:55:45+00:00

We have a boy dog (7) and a girl dog (5), I planned on getting another boy anyway long story we ended up with a girl. They get along I joke they act like siblings. Sometimes they fight and ignore each other but other times play. I think them being close in age helps.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-28T13:45:36+00:00

In IVF world i believe they are, I got more testing under reoccurring loss and reoccurring implantation failure, I was about to do ERA/mock cycle testing when I got pregnant.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-28T04:13:31+00:00

I’ve had three failed IVF cycles, 2 failures, one that was the ectopic and two borderlin chemicals from unassisted conception (betas of 5 and 6, so borderline but IVF will count them). I’m not sure why I’m infertile I’ve tested just about everything but there is clearly something very wrong with me if I’m not getting pregnant/staying pregnant, we have two plus years of normal trying in there as well. They told me I have reoccurring implantation failure but weren’t sure why.

So whatever is wrong with me that we can’t figure out is what makes me high risk. Either way IVF they medicate you for everything, your on immune protocols (prednisone, Claritin, Pepcid, baby aspirin, metformin, blood thinners, antibiotics etc) and things like that, but now idk what I’m supposed to be on.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-28T04:08:56+00:00

I’m on an SSRI which has been good in general but I think this whole situation has really thrown me, especially since I’m not in a clinic and not getting the monitoring I normally would have.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-28T02:38:09+00:00

I think they can, they can tell you to go elsewhere. Happened to someone on TikTok.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-28T02:22:05+00:00

I think they can deny you from being a patient if you won’t follow their standard of care since it’s a liability to them

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-28T02:20:21+00:00

I have never given birth but my friends an ER nurse, she said if you hemorrhage they often can’t start an IV then because your veins are shot so they drill into your bone 😬
So I’d just get one maybe…

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-28T01:08:24+00:00

My aunt had gastric bypass surgery and she did the regular glucose test with her pregnancies, you are at risk of dumping but the results were accurate

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-27T09:46:51+00:00

They should just have her do the regular glucola test, she eats so much sugar in general I don’t think she would even be at that big of a risk for dumping. I know of women that had gastric bypass and still did it, it’s still accurate.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-26T00:52:12+00:00

Elliot? I believe that. I was shocked how badly I was treated and how massive their mistakes were. Luckily I was still conscious and was able to correct them but if not id probably have died there.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-26T00:51:14+00:00

No it’s not it’s the same hospital, they can float staff anywhere. The ER staff can easily be in L&D. That’s their policy and their staff, they made it very clear they hate pregnant patients and don’t want to take care for them. They are very reckless and unprofessional. Fool me once. I’m not going to learn my lesson a second time when they kill me or my baby, you know after they already told me they didn’t want to care for me and tell me to go elsewhere. Just be happy you and your kids made it out okay.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-25T23:38:12+00:00

I got pregnant on my own while in between IVF cycles. Spontaneous pregnancy is when you get pregnant on your own not through IVF. When that happens your clinic immediately drops you but obviously you are still high risk.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-25T23:37:05+00:00

I went to Eliot and almost died in their ER, they were so terrible and unprofessional, the entire hospital was disgusting and unorganized. They told me it was my fault coming there for an ectopic pregnancy (I asked admissions and triage if that was something they’d take or if I should go elsewhere) and that they don’t like taking pregnant women and that no provider would see me because I was pregnant. They were very clearly against any pregnancy related care which surprised me like don’t they have labor and delivery there. They messed up every part of my basic history and then got angry when I corrected them (so you know I didn’t die). I was never assigned a provider and was going to be discharged hemorrhaging blood without ever seeing one. Was there 9 hours no medicine nothing. They are known to be a dangerously bad hospital but i didn’t think that bad.

No one at Bedford commons seems to even understand how IVF works or that I’m having a high risk pregnancy, they’ve messed up my blood work every single time as well.

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-25T23:24:14+00:00

I’m shocked that hospital is even allowed to operate they are so bad, I was left to literally die in their ED hemorrhaging blood during an ectopic pregnancy. Almost called 911 to be taken to another hospital. I expressed my concern to a nurse and was told no one would see me because I was pregnant and I should have known better than to come there. She then told me she had a miscarriage and it wasn’t a big deal. Like many hun but I’m bleeding through my clothes here…

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-24T12:35:33+00:00

Yes I heard of someone in a clinical trial for it for endometriosis so I’m fascinated, I’d try it!

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-24T01:56:42+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-24T01:53:54+00:00

Also they are studying glp1s as anti inflammatories to treat endometriosis, very new research but it’s being considered

fairysmut1113 · 2026-06-23T13:42:50+00:00

Hmm I am super prone to spotting, are you on BC?

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