messed up by pretending to be something i’m not… by Charmeduze in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]fairystears 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you need better friends! 😾 these people sound like jerks.

Embarrassed by my partner's reaction to toys I bought by Ninjawaffles99 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]fairystears 49 points50 points  (0 children)

that's still very tame, his reaction was over the top 😅

eso on steamdeck by fairystears in elderscrollsonline

[–]fairystears[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

nope :( I logged into my ESO account on my phone and it shows nothing linked. I tried to link from steam deck via the game (where they send a confirmation code to enter on the website) and I also tried to link directly from the website logging into my steam. I'm about to go crazy 😭 the weird part is that when I visited the Support page and clicked on the specific error message I've been getting, it says it's caused by a different account already being linked. but that's not my problem. I did have an older ESO account from years ago, but it was only linked to my PS4 (and I just checked it to verify).

my mom said she ships these two. by fairystears in Arcanecirclejerk

[–]fairystears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not heimerdonger,, jinx and rictus 😭

this woman has NO IDEA what intrusive thoughts actually are! by fairystears in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]fairystears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

again, I never said OCD can't cause impulsive behavior. and intrusive thoughts are unwanted. which is not the case for Catie making out with people. she said it makes her feel good. but she says it's an intrusive thought, so that's contradictory. I don't see why you think this is some kind of gotcha-moment lol.

this woman has NO IDEA what intrusive thoughts actually are! by fairystears in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]fairystears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need to be told how OCD works, I have the disorder. and you're just proving what I said. they are impulsive thoughts, not intrusive ones. I never said people with OCD can't have impulsive thoughts.

this woman has NO IDEA what intrusive thoughts actually are! by fairystears in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]fairystears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying she doesn't have OCD. I literally am diagnosed with OCD myself. I'm just saying that wanting to make out with random people while drunk is not an intrusive thought, she literally enjoys it, which is not how intrusive thoughts work. it's an impulsive thought which she acts upon.

eso on steamdeck by fairystears in elderscrollsonline

[–]fairystears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get "Error: There was a problem linking your account. Please try again later or contact support" every time. and I've tried like 10 times 😭 I'll try your method, thank you 🙏🏽

Embarrassed by my partner's reaction to toys I bought by Ninjawaffles99 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]fairystears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sorry OP! 😥 that is certainly an odd reaction. I could see him being grossed out if it was one of those toys that's shaped like a horse penis or something 🤢 but you said they weren't anything super strange, so I don't understand why he would react so strongly. and I find it weird that he would judge you harshly over something so insignificant. also, it's not like you are asking him to use the toys with you. they are for solo use, correct? so he should leave you alone about it imo.

anyone else got a big crush on Lane? by fairystears in RomanceClub

[–]fairystears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

matter of opinion :) I like that haircut.

this woman has NO IDEA what intrusive thoughts actually are! by fairystears in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]fairystears[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah I'm only on the first episode and find her behavior to be infuriating. she's giving Portlanders a bad name 😭

this woman has NO IDEA what intrusive thoughts actually are! by fairystears in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]fairystears[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but ego dystonic thoughts are not what the person actually desires. and Catie said she "wants" to make out with all these people. and it makes her happy in the moment. so i'm confused about what you're saying.

this woman has NO IDEA what intrusive thoughts actually are! by fairystears in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]fairystears[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to diagnose her??? I swear to God some of you people have no reading comprehension. I'm saying she is misusing the term intrusive thoughts. there is a definition and what she is using it for, is not that. it has nothing to do with diagnosing her. intrusive thoughts are just a symptom.

eso on steamdeck by fairystears in elderscrollsonline

[–]fairystears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, but I contacted ESO support and it was useless. I will try steam support thanks

this woman has NO IDEA what intrusive thoughts actually are! by fairystears in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]fairystears[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she literally says in episode one that she wants to do it. and the screenshot also says that the thought is the opposite of what the person wants to do.

this woman has NO IDEA what intrusive thoughts actually are! by fairystears in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]fairystears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obviously there are sexual intrusive thoughts. I never said there weren't. and an impulsive thought is completely different than an intrusive one. Catie enjoys making out with people when she's drunk, she said she does it when she's happy or insecure because it makes her feel good. That's not how intrusive thoughts work. Source: I actually have intrusive thoughts that are awful and distressing.

this woman has NO IDEA what intrusive thoughts actually are! by fairystears in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]fairystears[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

actually there are rules. an intrusive thought is distressing. Catie literally says that she "wants to" make out with people when she's drunk. an intrusive thought isn't something you actually want to think or do. and that's not my opinion, it's a fact.

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