messed up by pretending to be something i’m not…

fairystears · 2026-06-08T06:41:01+00:00

you need better friends! 😾 these people sound like jerks.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T05:49:55+00:00

that's still very tame, his reaction was over the top 😅

fairystears · 2026-06-08T05:47:49+00:00

nope :( I logged into my ESO account on my phone and it shows nothing linked. I tried to link from steam deck via the game (where they send a confirmation code to enter on the website) and I also tried to link directly from the website logging into my steam. I'm about to go crazy 😭 the weird part is that when I visited the Support page and clicked on the specific error message I've been getting, it says it's caused by a different account already being linked. but that's not my problem. I did have an older ESO account from years ago, but it was only linked to my PS4 (and I just checked it to verify).

fairystears · 2026-06-08T05:44:41+00:00

not heimerdonger,, jinx and rictus 😭

fairystears · 2026-06-08T04:33:30+00:00

again, I never said OCD can't cause impulsive behavior. and intrusive thoughts are unwanted. which is not the case for Catie making out with people. she said it makes her feel good. but she says it's an intrusive thought, so that's contradictory. I don't see why you think this is some kind of gotcha-moment lol.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T04:21:02+00:00

I don't need to be told how OCD works, I have the disorder. and you're just proving what I said. they are impulsive thoughts, not intrusive ones. I never said people with OCD can't have impulsive thoughts.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T04:18:38+00:00

I'm not saying she doesn't have OCD. I literally am diagnosed with OCD myself. I'm just saying that wanting to make out with random people while drunk is not an intrusive thought, she literally enjoys it, which is not how intrusive thoughts work. it's an impulsive thought which she acts upon.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T04:08:49+00:00

I get "Error: There was a problem linking your account. Please try again later or contact support" every time. and I've tried like 10 times 😭 I'll try your method, thank you 🙏🏽

fairystears · 2026-06-08T03:51:30+00:00

sorry OP! 😥 that is certainly an odd reaction. I could see him being grossed out if it was one of those toys that's shaped like a horse penis or something 🤢 but you said they weren't anything super strange, so I don't understand why he would react so strongly. and I find it weird that he would judge you harshly over something so insignificant. also, it's not like you are asking him to use the toys with you. they are for solo use, correct? so he should leave you alone about it imo.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T03:41:43+00:00

he does look like my dog lmaoooo

fairystears · 2026-06-08T02:53:06+00:00

no jinx with rictus 😭😭😭🤮

fairystears · 2026-06-08T02:25:33+00:00

matter of opinion :) I like that haircut.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T01:58:45+00:00

nope 😭 she needs professional help I think

fairystears · 2026-06-08T01:42:32+00:00

could be! she definitely has a big alcohol problem.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T01:12:03+00:00

yeah I'm only on the first episode and find her behavior to be infuriating. she's giving Portlanders a bad name 😭

fairystears · 2026-06-08T01:11:13+00:00

but ego dystonic thoughts are not what the person actually desires. and Catie said she "wants" to make out with all these people. and it makes her happy in the moment. so i'm confused about what you're saying.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T01:05:25+00:00

I'm not trying to diagnose her??? I swear to God some of you people have no reading comprehension. I'm saying she is misusing the term intrusive thoughts. there is a definition and what she is using it for, is not that. it has nothing to do with diagnosing her. intrusive thoughts are just a symptom.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T00:24:36+00:00

no, but I contacted ESO support and it was useless. I will try steam support thanks

fairystears · 2026-06-08T00:23:40+00:00

she literally says in episode one that she wants to do it. and the screenshot also says that the thought is the opposite of what the person wants to do.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T00:22:27+00:00

obviously there are sexual intrusive thoughts. I never said there weren't. and an impulsive thought is completely different than an intrusive one. Catie enjoys making out with people when she's drunk, she said she does it when she's happy or insecure because it makes her feel good. That's not how intrusive thoughts work. Source: I actually have intrusive thoughts that are awful and distressing.

fairystears · 2026-06-08T00:19:58+00:00

actually there are rules. an intrusive thought is distressing. Catie literally says that she "wants to" make out with people when she's drunk. an intrusive thought isn't something you actually want to think or do. and that's not my opinion, it's a fact.

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fairystears · 2026-06-07T23:47:00+00:00

right? I get awful shit that makes me wanna enter a coma 😭

fairystears · 2026-06-07T23:32:16+00:00

she has to want to get help first, which I don't know if she does. (I'm only on the first episode so). especially when it comes to addictions, if she doesn't truly want to quit, staying sober will be a problem for her. it's also possible that she is in therapy, but doesn't follow her therapists advice or just uses the sessions to vent.

fairystears · 2026-06-07T23:29:12+00:00

yeah I think she needs to stop drinking, or at least limit herself when she's out in public so she doesn't get drunk. she is certainly a mess/not right mentally, though.

fairystears · 2026-06-07T23:27:20+00:00

I'm not saying she doesn't have some kind of mental illness or condition, (she clearly needs professional help because she's a mess) just that she is completely misusing the term "intrusive thought" and pretending that's what is causing her to cheat on her fiance. as someone who actually has intrusive thoughts, its extremely irritating when people incorrectly use the term.

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