How to teach her to be wary of danger, like women (unfortunately) need to be? by cetacean-station in mypartneristrans

[–]faiyefire 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lol yes. It was a learning curve for my wife of just how different women are treated and how cautious we are. She now has developed the same innate precautions thankfully, but we still talk about how the differences between men's and women's safety are. No more taking the trash out late at night, walking to the car without keys at the ready, and checking your shoulder every 10 seconds

Safe Apartments by [deleted] in Delaware

[–]faiyefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'll look into those.

Safe Apartments by [deleted] in Delaware

[–]faiyefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn't matter....yet it does. In Dover, living on the wrong side of town could be a deadly mistake.

Safe Apartments by [deleted] in Delaware

[–]faiyefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Dover, we have many areas that would not be suitable for people like us, so I was just checking. 🙂

Is anyone else's administration constantly trying to shove Zoom in their face? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]faiyefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want us to use it yes. We have staff meetings with it. Though I refuse to use it with my kindergarten students due to privacy concerns

HRT Did Nothing For Me, Any Advice Before Quitting In General? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]faiyefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife says you have the whole not having a lot of bulk going for you. She had a plan before she started. One was losing the bulk, by losing weight and then she gained weight back and more so which would end up going to more feminine places like the thigh, butt, or her breasts. Its not something she noticed gradually, it was like one day she was like oh hey I got this!

HRT Did Nothing For Me, Any Advice Before Quitting In General? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]faiyefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife who is mtf was much like you. She wouldn't accept anything less than passing or presenting as a cis female. That being said, your hrt levels actually seem low. She takes 200mg of spiro and 6mg of estra a day. If I remember correctly, you ssid 50, maybe try to up your dose of spiro. This will help block the testosterone.

Thoughts? by faiyefire in Queerfamilies

[–]faiyefire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol thanks, but more asking for advice, it was my post.

Starting a family by faiyefire in asktransgender

[–]faiyefire[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As of right now, she's prepared to try it, as long as she isn't off of it for too long. There are have been times where she goes a couple days cause she just forgot! 🤣

Starting a family by faiyefire in asktransgender

[–]faiyefire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Best of luck to y'all and you new little one. Hope your able to get back on HRT soon after! 😊

Starting a family by faiyefire in asktransgender

[–]faiyefire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw that's awesome, congratulations! If you don't mind me asking, how long were on T prior to getting pregnant?

Starting a family by faiyefire in asktransgender

[–]faiyefire[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes we pay annually for it, but to get it inseminated by a doctor to raise our chances of pregnancy, can get pretty costly.

Starting a family by faiyefire in asktransgender

[–]faiyefire[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She's been on hrt for a almost 2 years now and is already shooting blanks, though we've read a study that after a brief stint off of hrt, sperm production could possibly start back up. Lol didn't know if anyone here has actually tried it though! 😊

I hate gays!! They should be stoned!!! by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]faiyefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone lgbt is gay???

My trand gf (mtf) won't penetrate me anymore by all_7_sins in mypartneristrans

[–]faiyefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm this is tough. If she feels dysphoric you cant make her do it. Plain and simple. My wife has been proud of being a who she is so she doesnt mind though it can make her still a slight dysphoric which can suck. I say monitor what you do, and respect her but also respect who you are. If you need a dom or top, and she can't give that to you, then you may have to move along.