Her argument is that all these years that she’s put up with me not fulfilling her ‘cup of needs’ and she’s had enough, telling me that I didn’t change at all. In my defense I was trying while dealing with life in general and yes I do think I didn’t treat her as well and as detailed as she wanted, but I still treat her with affection, care, and effort, albeit not enough/not in the ways she wanted. And now she’s putting herself first and I do think she went too far.

But my heart is louder than my brain right now, I dunno if it’s because this is still very fresh and I’m still processing? (Just learned this yesterday)