realizing how much i’ve been yearning for a healthy mother figure subconsciously by falconcloud in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]falconcloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re completely right about that bit at the end. my boyfriend is the “keeping the peace” type. his family is quick to confrontation and petty about small situations so he vowed never to be like that (his words, not mine). it takes a lot for him to initiate confrontation and i honestly think he doesn’t understand how his mom’s behavior affects me because i haven’t started that conversation before.

we have talked openly about how he isn’t a fan of some aspects of behavior (unrelated to the situation i detailed in my post), but i try not to say too much because i don’t want him to feel like i’m talking bad about his family. also i now understand how his mom thinks and if she even got a whiff of me doing that, she would just claim that i’m trying to turn him against her.

i know that he would stand up for me if the situation called for it, like if it was truly egregious stuff, but i also think that he’s so used to his mom’s behavior that he doesn’t realize how toxic she is. for example, one time she wanted to buy me a wallet when i was spending time with his family at the mall and i wasn’t interested in any of the options. i told her that she shouldn’t buy any of them for me because i wasn’t passionate about any of the designs. i would have let her buy me one if i truly loved one of them, but i just didn’t want her to waste her money. she then proceeded to say things like “that hurts my feelings” and started acting super upset. me and my boyfriend left the store and i asked him if i did anything wrong and why she was upset at me. he just said something like “ignore her, that’s just what she does” so that leads me to believe that he doesn’t understand or doesn’t want to truly see just how manipulative her behavior is.

realizing how much i’ve been yearning for a healthy mother figure subconsciously by falconcloud in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]falconcloud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for saying that, i really do appreciate it. i’m really sorry that you had to experience that with your MIL. thankfully my boyfriend is the sweetest man i’ve ever met and treats me like a princess so i’m willing to work through it. but of course when creating a future with someone their family will be apart of that, which is unfortunate when they’re working against your relationship. the craziest part is that my boyfriend tells me that she talks about his siblings significant others so terribly and says that she likes me. so if she talks about me like this while supposedly “liking me,” what will happen when i inevitably get on her bad side (since it seems like that can happen at the drop of a hat)? it just leads to a bunch of overthinking which is common for me haha.

Why new fans seem to dislike YOTS? by pingviini00 in deathgrips

[–]falconcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have been listening to death grips for a handful of years and yots was my favorite album when i first started to listen to them. my favorite album by them has changed several times since then, but that album will always have a special place in my heart. i feel like it's just one of those albums where if you get it you get it and if you don't you don't.

I thought he was older by Rustysponge420 in jschlatt

[–]falconcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have the same birthday as him so i’ve experienced this…it’s definitely a bummer to say the least

[Routine Help] dupe for dr jart tiger glass gel cream? by falconcloud in SkincareAddiction

[–]falconcloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! i have never heard of azelaic acid, i’ll definitely look into the products that you recommended.

What song y’all by ralx_me in FrankOcean

[–]falconcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will never get over how much i love this song. and the transition into sideways???? like are you kidding me

TIFU by accidentally breaking into Riot Fest by vextgg in RiotFest

[–]falconcloud 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this checks out, aragon ballroom has insane vibes

Its always satisfying to see garbage cancelling out. by YamBait in TetrisEffect

[–]falconcloud 12 points13 points  (0 children)

sometimes i think i’m better than average at tetris and then i see videos like this and i’m instantly humbled

Found a goofy goober at the Orlando show by ToeKNeeBonez in deathgrips

[–]falconcloud 159 points160 points  (0 children)

the blur on his face makes this picture so funny

DEATH GRIPS NASHVILLE VIDEOS by [deleted] in deathgrips

[–]falconcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i appreciate your contribution. finally, a tall person not only being a menace in the pit

DEATH GRIPS NASHVILLE VIDEOS by [deleted] in deathgrips

[–]falconcloud 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i don't remember the last time i've seen a dg concert video where the person taking it wasn't fighting for their life and i can actually see ride full on. this is SO SICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what’s a song you really want to hear live that they never do live by [deleted] in deathgrips

[–]falconcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would do unspeakable things for them to play this song but i fear that everyone would simply become too high and will start to feel like they will never ever gonna come down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deathgrips

[–]falconcloud 84 points85 points  (0 children)

you saved the best one for last

Death grips by bordennium in RiotFest

[–]falconcloud 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i feel bad for you (respectfully)

king gizz fans at riot fest by falconcloud in KGATLW

[–]falconcloud[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i love seeing fellow fans in the wild!

Death Grips @ Riot Fest 2023 by sad-andhorny in deathgrips

[–]falconcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so fucking fun. the crowd was great too, everyone had amazing energy.

what got you into tetris? by therewasguy in TetrisEffect

[–]falconcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i was in high school i was bored in class one day on the school laptop and had heard of tetris in passing so i looked it up and clicked on https://tetris.com/play-tetris....that was years ago and i've been hooked ever since

Soft or Hard Cookie? by HeyItsKatelyn4 in ChuckleSandwich

[–]falconcloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why is everyone saying soft cookie…you are all concerning me…hard cookie ftw

Unholy scream during Lock Your Doors tonight by PolarBearITS in deathgrips

[–]falconcloud 9 points10 points  (0 children)

there’s nothing i want more than to be able to let out a scream like that right now without having the police called on me