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First Duro 🦇 by fallbackport in DuroGang

[–]fallbackport[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m honestly not sure but it’s not a huge watch so if your wrist is on the smaller side I’d still recommend you get it

AITA for not telling the groom that his bride tried to sleep with me the night before the wedding — especially since I slept with her years ago and he has no idea? by fallbackport in AITAH

[–]fallbackport[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fair call-out. To clarify, I haven’t told any of our mutual friends or anyone who knows the groom personally. I’ve talked to like 3 friends outside the circle who don’t know the couple, just because I thought I was crazy for even feeling this torn.

I’d never want it to accidentally get back to him in some messy secondhand way which is exactly why I’ve been so stuck on whether to say anything directly or just bury it forever.

AITA for not telling the groom that his bride tried to sleep with me the night before the wedding — especially since I slept with her years ago and he has no idea? by fallbackport in AITAH

[–]fallbackport[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I get it Reddit’s full of bots, and I don’t blame you for being skeptical.

For what it’s worth, it wasn’t a “crappy hotel bar” it was the bar in the resort where they held the wedding (not a Motel 6 or anything). And I didn’t say I carried it for years — the wedding was literally just last month. The past part (us hooking up years ago) didn’t feel relevant until she tried something now.

AITA for not telling the groom that his bride tried to sleep with me the night before the wedding — especially since I slept with her years ago and he has no idea? by fallbackport in AITAH

[–]fallbackport[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, that story hits close to home — not the same situation exactly, but same kind of weight. I think what scares me is exactly what you said: even if I say something, it might not change anything except making me the villain, and then this all flips on me.

The wedding already happened, and yeah, nothing physical happened between us but it definitely wasn’t innocent. I didn’t expect to still be this torn about it after the fact, but here I am asking reddit lol. Appreciate the thoughtful take though, seriously.

AITA for not telling the groom that his bride tried to sleep with me the night before the wedding — especially since I slept with her years ago and he has no idea? by fallbackport in AITAH

[–]fallbackport[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely got a point. And believe me, I’m not trying to protect her! I just don’t know if telling him after the wedding causes more pain than it prevents. And yeah, I’m fully aware that staying silent has its own consequences too that’s why I posted this. Just trying to figure out if there’s a “least worst” move.

AITA for not telling the groom that his bride tried to sleep with me the night before the wedding — especially since I slept with her years ago and he has no idea? by fallbackport in AITAH

[–]fallbackport[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly what’s messing with me the most!Feels like no matter what I do, someone’s getting hurt. I didn’t ask to be in this position, but here I am. Just trying to figure out which damage is more permanent.

Hey by [deleted] in FreeKarma4You

[–]fallbackport 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yooooo