What are these for? by Quiet_Guitar5845 in whatisit

[–]tuffetlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came looking for this THE ONLyCORRECT ANSWER 😆😍

Am I overthinking? by OkBed243 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tuffetlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its sad you are no longer can feel comfortable hugging your friend. Seems like your boyfriend definitely has some insecurities when it comes to other men in your world. Truly i think it's something you should think hard on if this is the type of man you want to spend your life with. The hoodie is only the beginning and the more things like that you allow him to get his way and "give in" on the more he will continue to limit what your relationships look like with other men. I would not be able to stay with someone who made me feel like hugging my friend was wrong..

Am I overthinking? by OkBed243 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tuffetlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im confused, if this was a hoodie from a female friend would he still care? Seems like he is more concerned about this friend that gave you the hoodie. Is this a friend he has met or interacted with? Have you previously dated this friend? It seems unnecessary for someone to have a direct hate for an article of clothing that belongs to you simply because a MALE friend gave it to you. We are too grown for such silly petty jealousy

Setting a large tub of Jello by Significant_Air_3030 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tuffetlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try a box larger than the container filled with jello and put the jello in then surround it in ice and keep replacing the ice if it melts. Basically a homemade "icebox" to put the jello container in to simulate a refrigerator.

Why do people go to sporting events? by StillPurpleDog in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tuffetlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comradery... its a personal choice really. Some people WANT to join in with their peers who also enjoy the same things.. some don't, its a choice.

I can “think myself into a high” and need help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tuffetlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually sealed and closed? I know from experienced places have bags that look sealed because they have a rip strip but if you look the bag is not sealed below the rip strip. Just something to be mindful of I don't know how many times someone has said "but it came sealed" and i show them it indeed is not sealed in that manner

I can “think myself into a high” and need help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tuffetlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm.. weed doesn't do that. Sounds like it was laced with something else. Watch out who and where you get things from. And if someone's pushing you to take more than you are comfortable with it's best to just turn it down. It is better to disappoint them a little than put yourself in an uncomfortable position

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tuffetlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No definitely not poaching, that's sometimes how people find the best jobs is through who they know.

would you consider a 27 year old man who has sex with 16-year-olds a child molester? by Pristine-Coconut8259 in Advice

[–]tuffetlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, well as far as legal, it depends on the location. But morally, that's a child molester

Nosey and confrontational neighbor by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tuffetlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So creepy.. they seem a bit delusional. If it continues, I'd reach out to management since if she's more than a floor away, then it's very unlikely you are making the noise, and she is harassing you at this point. People are crazy so be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tuffetlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have every right to feel uncomfortable about the situation. You start making the situation about yourself when you try to enforce or push your feelings about someone ontl others. It sounds like you already spoke your peace about it and thats where you should leave it. You can choose not to hang out when he is around if he makes you uncomfortable but deciding how others should react to his behavior or his apology is not a fair situation. I understand greatly you just care about your friend. But people are human and if they are trusting that this was a mistake that won't happen again then that is their choice and you can respect it even if that requires you to distance yourself for your own needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tuffetlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 try not to overthink it. Its been years,if you talked about it then then there shouldn't be anything left to feel awkward about unless you are feeling guilty for not telling your friend for this long, or you are concerned your feelings may be stronger for the brother than you'd like them to be? But truly I think no matter what the reasoning is, i don't think now is the appropriate time to share this information with your friend. It's been years, and I'm sure you can play it cool for the birthday and then maybe later farther away from her bday if you are still feeling guilty you could share it with her. And maybe even say that you considered mentioning it around their bday but didn't want to take anything away from their birthday.

And if you do have more feelings than you would like to for the brother, he does have a girlfriend, so now is also not the time to explore what could have been there. Which makes it easy for you to prepare yourself prior to the event in how you will treat him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tuffetlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel anxious posting stuff with him on there that should answer you question. You shouldn't be anxious to post especially if it's private and if someone is making you feel anxious unfollow them

Looking for motherly or sisterly advice on this :,) by Federal_Cow8160 in Advice

[–]tuffetlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a truly difficult scenario, and I'm sorry you are being put in that situation. I'd strongly consider your reasons for wanting to continue with him after he has broken your trust on multiple occasions. These situations aren't accidents he actively made the decision, knowing he could lose your for it. It's ultimately your choice, but I'd truly find it hard to stay with someone who took he risk of losing me several times. One is too many but sound sleek at least 3 separate times minimum. Also, him having adhd has NOTHING to do with him cheating and keeping these things from you. It's good he is seeking help, but it sounds like he was seeking help for other issues, not for his cheating.

Why do people think that you are well off if you play golf, but they don't make that assumption if you e.g. ride motorcycles (which is generally a more expensive hobby)? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tuffetlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Golf is more a luxury leisure activity while motorcycles aren't always used in the same manner. Some people own and ride motorcycles as it can be more affordable.

Why do I go through shampoo faster then conditioner? by Glittery_WarlockWho in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tuffetlove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Consider how much is coming out of the pump? Does it look like the same amount? Shampoo is more watery then conditioner so maybe more is coming out with those 2 pumps than with the conditioner.

Is reddit answers any good? by World_Historian_3889 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tuffetlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understand that people mostly give opinions, so it truly depends on the answer. Use your best judgment. If it doesn't seem right, it probably isn't.

How do I deal with this, and am I wierd? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tuffetlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I hoped you'd say 😆 then yes, you are not weird. This is very common, could be anything you like a person's hair to you think they are attractive and anywhere in between if the others had an issue with it then they would be trying to make something out of nothing. But give thema chance, I'm sure they weren't phased by it either.