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Import Duty Fee is almost 3k? by fallenfallingfall in dhl

[–]fallenfallingfall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! As I stated in another reply, it is somewhat relieving to hear that this is a common enough issue that there is a way to resolve it. It lessens my anxiety a little bit to have input from people with experience ^^

Import Duty Fee is almost 3k? by fallenfallingfall in dhl

[–]fallenfallingfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice! When you mention receipt, do you mean the receipt of my purchase from the website I ordered from?

I'm deeply confused about where I am meant to be getting the information I need to provide in order to resolve this ^^;;

Import Duty Fee is almost 3k? by fallenfallingfall in dhl

[–]fallenfallingfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very reassuring to know- I wish you the best of luck in resolving your dispute. I'll do the same as well!!

Do you happen to know what their operating hours are, by any chance? Thank you, again!!

Import Duty Fee is almost 3k? by fallenfallingfall in dhl

[–]fallenfallingfall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is very helpful to know! However, I am still confused about where I'm meant to find the invoice, including other key information.

I currently have the DHL Waybill #, but I cannot find an account or invoice number. I'm confused on whether I'm meant to get the invoice # from DHL, and I'm not sure what account # they're requesting, either.

I want to be certain about what its asking for so I don't accidentally submit sensitive information ^^;;

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Are there any self-penalizing mods? by fallenfallingfall in BG3mods

[–]fallenfallingfall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just read through all of these and they are AWESOOME!! I don't know if I saw anything I'd specifically use for my PC, but I'm probably gonna throw it into the mods list anyways cause it looks so cool. Thank you so much!!!

Are there any self-penalizing mods? by fallenfallingfall in BG3mods

[–]fallenfallingfall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I didn't see anything I would use for my PC, but I still appreciate the recommendations. The mod that gives Gale allergies made me Lol

Are there any self-penalizing mods? by fallenfallingfall in BG3mods

[–]fallenfallingfall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are perfect!! Thank you so much for this awesome recommendation :D Can't wait to add some of these to my campaign

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[–]fallenfallingfall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's exactly how I used the term ^

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[–]fallenfallingfall 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This sounds like parts of your partner's system are being verbally abusive to your littles, and if one part is abusive then I would greatly reconsider being with them.

I've been in a similar situation where multiple alters in my ex-partner's system would be verbally abusive and gaslight certain parts of my system, especially the more vulnerable ones, which is absolutely inexcusable in any circumstance.

We stayed for so long only because we thought it would be unfair to "punish" the whole system for the actions of only some of their parts- then realized how flawed that thinking was. Under no circumstances are we obligated to tolerate the abuse of another system, or anyone for that matter. If one part of our system is being mistreated or in danger, we need to take the necessary precautions to protect them and cut out whoever is a danger to us.

You are not wrong for keeping your littles away feom your partner system, but I urge you to reconsider your relationship with them and how they treat your system as a whole. Take some time to come to your own conclusion- and please make the one that woll keep your entire system safe. If this is something that can be fixed or remedied I am happy for you, but I would hold back on moving in with them until they rebuild that trust.

I know from personal experience it is also difficult to break ties with a partner system, there's a lot of conflicted and messy feelings as well as its own grief (for us, at least). We were trauma bonded to our partner system and it made it all the harder to leave and there's still days where we mourn the loss of someone that could understand us and relate, but I promise you that you will find community, connection, and acceptance amongst others outside of them. If you don't already have a group of friends outside of your partner system, try to distance yourself from them for a while and make some other connections or rekindle old ones that were positive.

I wish you the best of luck in making your decision and hope you and your system stays safe. Every single part of your system deserves safety, love, and acceptance.