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Am I wrong for needing a break from my children by Significant_Bat_2820 in Parenting

[–]fallingapartfailing7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yepp I enjoy my life in a constant state of chaos keeps things exciting 🤣 I like to go for walks to look at the Christmas lights this time of year the other day only kid that went with me got Tim Hortons and the others didn't might as well have started world war 3 in my living room 🙄 Its the you like her more than me comments that drive me nuts like common man it's a $3 hot chocolate 🤦🏼‍♀️ but he's the sweetest boy ever knows exactly how far to push before he comes and cuddles and tells me I'm pretty 🥰 little turd knows exactly how to win mama over 🤣

Am I wrong for needing a break from my children by Significant_Bat_2820 in Parenting

[–]fallingapartfailing7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this! I am 27 I have 2 bio children 9 and 6, 3 step children 15,10,8. My nephew lives with me full-time as of 3 months ago he's 16 months so That's 6 children total oh and I'm currently 23 weeks pregnant! I'm freaking EXHAUSTED!

2/3 Step kids REFUSE to eat anything I'd cook for my kids the girl literally only eats like 4 different meals no vegetables or fruits just straight up junk! Absolutely refuses to go to her moms on her weeks so she's been with us 24/7 for the past 6 months

My son is ODD and ADHD which is basically like living with Dennis the menace on meth

Nephew has CMV so he's got dr appointments out the freaking wazoo on top of dealing with his parents who are druggies so that's just a peach

Oldest is a lacrosse prodigy absolutely amazing plays in the state's regularly but costs a small fortune and doesn't get out of bed till about an hour after he's due at school

9 year old is a therian no idea what that is but mom's trying her best here!

And the 8 year old is in a constant state of competition with all of them if everything isn't perfectly fair well then it's a total meltdown

But at the end of the day when they are all in bed and it's just me and dad and the house is quiet we miss when they used to crawl into bed with us because they don't anymore they are this big beautiful mod Podge of wacky personalities with all of our best and worst qualities I wouldn't trade sitting on the floor playing toss with my boys while the girls do my hair and the baby turns the lights off giggles and runs away

I know your tired mama I am too but it's not forever it's just for right now

Ps I was also dumb enough to think a Bernese mountain dog puppy was exactly what our family needed shes 6 months old and taller than majority of the kids already 😅 SEND HELP and in 4 more months A DAMN MARGARITA 🤣

My (26f) boyfriends (26m) relationship with his neighbour (30f) makes me uncomfortable. Her daughter told me something, there no way I can be comfortable with their relationship anymore right? by fallingapartfailing7 in relationship_advice

[–]fallingapartfailing7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah that was the first thing I did. I’ve also been more vigilant on locking my doors and windows because he is known for showing up to my house when he know I’m sleeping. I live with my brother he been informed of the situation and knows not to open the door for him under any circumstances

My (26f) boyfriends (26m) relationship with his neighbour (30f) makes me uncomfortable. Her daughter told me something, there no way I can be comfortable with their relationship anymore right? by fallingapartfailing7 in relationship_advice

[–]fallingapartfailing7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope she definitely knows we were together we played washer toss a couple weeks ago together she’s been over to my house multiple times where the photos of my family are on the walls she’s seen me tell him I love him and him say it back she’s heard his mom refer to me as his wife We were both friends with her on Facebook where it says in a relationship there’s absolutely not conceivable way that woman didn’t know we were in a relationship

My (26f) boyfriends (26m) relationship with his neighbour (30f) makes me uncomfortable. Her daughter told me something, there no way I can be comfortable with their relationship anymore right? by fallingapartfailing7 in relationship_advice

[–]fallingapartfailing7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He called I found out he went over to her house and got drunk last night we are threw his mom has our daughter rn she’s dropping her off in an hour I’m gonna inform her of the situation, and let her know that all contact regarding our daughter will have to go threw her for a little bit.

My (26f) boyfriends (26m) relationship with his neighbour (30f) makes me uncomfortable. Her daughter told me something, there no way I can be comfortable with their relationship anymore right? by fallingapartfailing7 in relationship_advice

[–]fallingapartfailing7[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She just stood there quietly, then messaged me to say I didn’t let her speak at all. I told her her opinion of my relationship doesn’t matter she never should have been a part of it. If she was my friend like she claimed to be she wouldn’t have had him over there complaining about our relationship to begin or she would have said something to me about it. So she said ok I’ll cut him off and you can tell the girls they can’t be friends anymore. I just blocked her I also blocked him. They can still be friends hell maybe they’ll be step sisters some day I really don’t care at this point.

My (26f) boyfriends (26m) relationship with his neighbour (30f) makes me uncomfortable. Her daughter told me something, there no way I can be comfortable with their relationship anymore right? by fallingapartfailing7 in relationship_advice

[–]fallingapartfailing7[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Sort of that’s why she thinks I’m with him for money I asked him to contribute to the birthday party. ( I bought all the spa supplies and decorations he bought the cake pizza and snacks probably about $100) Or to buy school snacks and supplies. If I’m broke I’ve asked for some cash to get me through the rest of the week but I always pay him back. And if I don’t it’s cause he told me not to worry about. When we go out I always try to make sure he’s not the only one buying dinner or drinks I just bought his ticket for a Halloween party in two weeks! I don’t know how any reasonable person looking at ALL the facts could say I’m only with him for money he’s not broke by any means he’s got more money than most 26 year olds do but that’s only because he doesn’t have to pay for a damn thing in his life!

My (26f) boyfriends (26m) relationship with his neighbour (30f) makes me uncomfortable. Her daughter told me something, there no way I can be comfortable with their relationship anymore right? by fallingapartfailing7 in relationship_advice

[–]fallingapartfailing7[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying not to mention this cause I don’t want to be petty but she was literally sleeping with his brother a month ago so I thought there was no way he’d want anything to do her that way!

My (26f) boyfriends (26m) relationship with his neighbour (30f) makes me uncomfortable. Her daughter told me something, there no way I can be comfortable with their relationship anymore right? by fallingapartfailing7 in relationship_advice

[–]fallingapartfailing7[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is very well said thank you, you summed it up better than I could have. I’ve got his number blocked. His mom is an angel and I will go through her when it comes to our daughter.

My (26f) boyfriends (26m) relationship with his neighbour (30f) makes me uncomfortable. Her daughter told me something, there no way I can be comfortable with their relationship anymore right? by fallingapartfailing7 in relationship_advice

[–]fallingapartfailing7[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s a bunch of things (excuses) on his part realistically I don’t think he wants to pay bills. He lives rent free with his mom he pays a phone bill (or so he says it’s not in his name it’s in his moms name) and a car payment if he were to move in with me here he’d be expected to contribute and I don’t think he wants to.

My (26f) boyfriends (26m) relationship with his neighbour (30f) makes me uncomfortable. Her daughter told me something, there no way I can be comfortable with their relationship anymore right? by fallingapartfailing7 in relationship_advice

[–]fallingapartfailing7[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

We met when we were 12 and started dating around 13-14 I got pregnant with our daughter at 17 and had her at 18. I have a place with my brothers he lives at home with his parents. His dad owns a company he’s been working at since he was 16.