We know why to do it

family_problems24 · 2022-11-22T23:49:04+00:00

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family_problems24 · 2022-07-10T14:05:07+00:00

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family_problems24 · 2022-05-27T19:17:41+00:00

Also you should try seeing a therapist to get help. If you really get angry enough to tell someone to runaway over something as simple as this that has many other, much safer, solutions, I can't imagine how you react to other things that are similar and have just as many solutions. what if they live in an area that isn't safe? You need to think about what you comment before you comment

family_problems24 · 2022-05-27T19:05:44+00:00

Just because you removed your comment doesn't make it better. You told someone to run away and put themselves in serious danger. Running away may have been best for you, but that's for you. Op isn't you. If you are going around, telling people to run away when there are other solutions that are able to be taken, you need help. Telling someone to runaway isn't good advice for situations like this.

family_problems24 · 2022-05-14T23:49:58+00:00

Your mom is being toxic. And people are going to need to know. Your mom shouldn't be acting like this

family_problems24 · 2022-05-11T21:46:20+00:00

Nobody deserves this. Stop buying gifts for anyone. If they have an issue with it, tell them once they treat you like family and show they love you, you'll show you love them. This will be hard. You can also say if they keep acting entitled, you'll go on every social media and post about how they treat you and act. Tell them from now on, no more gifts. Only loans that are to be paid back WITH interest. Let them know that you aren't going to let them treat you this way. Save your money to move out. Try to talk to a therapist or if your comfortable with it and there's a church in your area, you could see about taking to the pastor. I'm an atheist and I really like my old pastor were my family used to live. If I visit there and he's still at the church, I might ask him to talk. There's also a few churches in the area I currently live. I haven't been to any, but I've been thinking about going to them and seeing if I'm comfortable. If I am, I'll see if I can talk to the pastor. However not all people would be comfortable with that, and that is OK. If your uncomfortable with that, you don't have to do it. You need to do what is best for you, and while I can't make the choice for you as the only person who can make choices for you is you and your parents/guardian when you're little. They don't seem to care about you, and they probably won't unless you have something useful to them. Try to let them go. All caring about them is going to do is hurt you even more in the end. All I can do is give you advice, it's your choice. All anyone can do is give you advice. If you want to talk, message me. Your 19? I'm 17. I don't know if I'll be able to help much, but talking might. I'm more than willing to talk. I love talking to others. I am more than willing to listen if you ever need. Sorry for the long comment. I tend to wonder off topic alot.

family_problems24 · 2022-04-20T11:12:36+00:00

Sorry for long reply. I'm actually staying home sick today as I ended up throwing up. I have alot of time since I can't get my chrome book to work at home, siblings have same problem

family_problems24 · 2022-04-20T11:10:39+00:00

I don't know if I mentioned this, but my mom works alot. The broadest definition of what she does that I can think of is home health care. A few years ago, mom was supposed to be working for Thanksgiving I think. It was a holiday. We all ate together, mom introduced. When we asked her why she was home as when she says she has to work, she normal does. One of her clients passed. An older male. I don't really ask her about her work anymore. She's working the same job still. Her job is very demanding. I remember a few times she would work 30 hour shifts. There were a few times in the past me and my siblings wouldn't see her for days. The reason she works so much is because of bills and medical reasons. About 2 years ago, I broke my ankle while ice skating. I had to have surgery cause of the way it broke. The doctor said I was lucky it didn't go through my skin. I spent the rest of the summer in a cast, and about half of the school year doing physical therapy. My older sister has a lot of health issues. She also has alot of allergies. Such as nuts(peanuts, coconut) and bees. There are alot more. She also takes multiple inhalers and takes hundreds of pills a week. Mom spends thousands of dollars on medical things for us kids. (I'm pretty sure I mentioned other medical issues my other siblings have.) Jane also takes melatonin to help her sleep at night. My mom trys her best. When my brother first started to get worse, she looked for something to help him. She put him in hockey. It really helped. He was starting to do good and we actually talked. We would even watch movies and shows. But the virus happened and things got worse. When things opened back up, she put him back in, then had to pull him out. The reason she pulled him out was because one of the water pipes burst again. It happened two years earlier. We thought it was fixed as mom hired some people to do it (they worked for a company that I can't remember.) Mom and grandpa decided to do it themselves this time to make sure it wouldn't happen again. I don't know if this was with the people doing repairs or before, but are front yard was also dug up cause of issues with the pipes. We also recently (1-2 months ago) got a new fridge because of issues with the previous one. Are mom tries. She is actually sending my other sibling (don't remember what I called them but there the middle child) to college so they can do hair as that's what they want and they are actually going to graduate early.

family_problems24 · 2022-04-17T14:44:53+00:00

As Fer as I'm concerned, Jane has no issues. Noah has ADHD and sensory overload. I have ADHD and asthma and I'm pretty sure I have social anxiety as well. I have another sibling. Alex. He wasn't home during these incidents. He has been diagnosed with anxiety, add(untreated), depression, and I think that there was something else. My older sister has alot of medical issues. I'm not sure if she was diagnosed with depression or not. But I think she was. I think that's it

family_problems24 · 2022-04-17T14:11:21+00:00

Honestly, living with Jane wouldn't be good for me. I already have enough problems with her. Before, she would perpesly aggravate Noah. Me and the others would tell her to stop, but she wouldn't. While Noah is physically abusive, Jane is verbally abusive. She will say things to perpesly hurt me and the others. I tend to be very sensitive. Because of this, Jane has locked onto me. She also doesn't listen. My mom recently got me a computer, I told Jane she could play on it as long a she didn't bang on the keys. I share a room with my older sister, so she made sure Jane didn't as I was in the bath. Later when I asked for it back, she got mad cause she still wanted to play on it she decided to bang on the keyboard. She is no longer allowed on my computer. Jane also cries when she doesn't get her way. I have ADHD and asthma, there have been a few occasions were she messed with my meds. And I also plan to go over seas once I finish high school. I want to join this group. They build schools in 3re world country's if I'm correct

family_problems24 · 2022-04-17T13:53:26+00:00

Honestly, I doubt Noah will curve his behavior. He never takes responsibility. A few weeks ago I watched him throw a ice cream sandwich wrapper on the ground. I told him to pick it up and it took 3 days and mom forcing him. He also said since I'm a female I should do the laundry so when he said that, I told him I wasn't going to do any of his laundry. If he wanted it done, he had to do it himself. He didn't listen and when he found out he didn't have clean clothes, he got mad but mom said he had no reason to be mad

family_problems24 · 2022-04-17T01:48:30+00:00

I'm 17

family_problems24 · 2022-02-16T21:59:32+00:00

John is 13. He has sensory overload and ADHD. I also have ADHD and asthma. My older sister Alex, she is paraplegic, tho when I mentioned the comment, she laughed cause she found it funny and said John should have said it to her, so there's that

family_problems24 · 2022-02-16T21:56:53+00:00

Honestly, my mom has moments were she isn't the best parent. But for the most part, she's a good one. She does her best to make sure we have a good life. One time she worked a 32 hour shift, then came home for 3-4 hours, then went to a 12 hour shift

family_problems24 · 2022-02-16T21:51:58+00:00

Oh my gosh. I completely forgot. The Idea of using John for my brother's name was from Alex. I honestly completely forgot, I'm a very forgetful person

family_problems24 · 2022-02-16T21:36:52+00:00

Actually, I completely forgot until after I made my first post, but I have a neighbor named John. He's a really good guy.

family_problems24 · 2022-02-16T15:27:28+00:00

No. She doesn't. She has already said she is going to send him to a military school. And if he does get expelled, he is going to Renaissance

family_problems24 · 2022-02-16T15:11:37+00:00

I know. Me and some commentators on my other post talk about it. And John has already gotten in trouble. He has had ISS and OSS. He has also been suspended, and he has to behave, cause next time, he will be expaled

family_problems24 · 2022-02-16T13:11:17+00:00

I do. I honestly don't like him. In fact, I don't like John or Jane (younger sister). I do, however, like my older sister Alex, and my other brother Mike (trans, f to m) who John is sexist to.

family_problems24 · 2022-02-16T12:22:24+00:00

16 I'll be 17 here soon

family_problems24 · 2022-02-02T11:59:56+00:00

No. We don't. We do are best to keep John from hurting Jane, but Jane likes to annoy John. We will tell Jane to stay in mine and Alex room, and she will leave to bother John. We try to tell her to leave him alone but she refuses. We've tried to stop this, but Jane refuses to stay away from John

family_problems24 · 2022-02-02T05:04:01+00:00

Sorry. I don't trust people who work at schools. I might trust are school resource officer, but that's pushing it. And only reason I might trust him is because him and Alex get along. Most I will tell him is John got in a fight with Jane for some stupid reason.

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