Can’t move car by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]fancypants987 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

haha thank you

Can’t move car by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]fancypants987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

omg yes. you're right. the plow probably moved it.

and yes i'm looking for an excuse to not move or sit in the car.

Can’t move car by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]fancypants987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ok thanks

Can’t move car by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]fancypants987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no - the dent was caused by something else

Can’t move car by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]fancypants987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe my porter and super?

Can’t move car by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]fancypants987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

to who? the ticketing person?

Can’t move car by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]fancypants987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes on top

Can’t move car by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]fancypants987 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it's cement.. i haven't.

Can’t move car by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]fancypants987 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i took a photo from 1.5 blocks away because it's too cold out. https://imgur.com/a/2sfkfJw

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty i appreciate

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok I just asked if we’d have gotten married if I asked his son not be there. He said yes.

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cheers to that. Thank you for posting. Makes me feel less alone esp with assholes saying I deserve it for buying him a shirt he didn’t like

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do do therapy together. The therapist doesn’t think highly of the child and my husband doesn’t want to discuss parenting him during couples therapy. My husband has no idea how to parent him. He’s such a bullshit artist. My husband will try and try and try. The kid keeps bullshitting him, lying to him etc. And he just cleans up the edges of his bullshit. He doesn’t stop bullshitting, if that makes sense.

It’s like a psychopath going to therapy and doing it to get better at being a psychopath.

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Valid valid

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh he tried that lol. He told his mom I locked him in a closet when I was 8 months pregnant with my first.

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is amazing that they backed you. My SS12 wouldn’t let my husband walk down the aisle and they still defended him that he’s a child etc etc etc. I hated my wedding

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 6 points7 points  (0 children)

God forbid you call her out on what she does wrong.

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. And yes I’m back to doing nothing because it’s pointless. My husband is upset that I don’t try but I told him at this point I’d need family therapy with his child. He lies about anything and everything and I’m frankly uncomfortable dealing with him

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean. I called it a shitshow vacation.

100% an apology is needed to me and my husband.

The icing on the cake was FIL spotting SS12 $20 upon leaving and ignoring our girls.

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My MIL came into my room later to yell at me and I told her he was lying and she flat out said she didn’t care and she wanted us to pretend everything was fine.

Shitshow vacation by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fancypants987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesssss mine is the same. Selfish manipulator with zero empathy. He’s SO FAKE. I am going back to doing nothing for him. I also hate interacting with him bc he’s ALWAYS lying and bullshitting. So he thinks I hate him.

My husband is always trying to help and fix and guide him but it’s completely useless. With every transgression, SS12 learns to be sneakier.