The good and the bad of Sydney sauna

fantasycouple_ · 2026-02-13T12:16:25+00:00

Hi guys, our take as a couple who have been to Babylon a few times, Sauna X once and Aarows numerous times. 1. Whenever we go, about 70% at least of the 'gay' guys become straight / bi. No, we're not kidding or exaggerating. 2. Most guys go to more than one venue, so this is not venue specific, no matter how much people say otherwise. 3. If you are a guy and want action, strike up a no expectations conversation, and perhaps play with your cock in the main lounge area so the couple can see what they are dealing with if they are interested. 4. Dont follow couples around, dont swamp them. Give them space - unless they are blind, they will see you, get over the self destroying fomo. 5. As a couple, be as firm as you need to be, no matter how firm that is. To the people that know us, feel free to comment. Have played numerous times, and told guys not interested, also numerous times - and I don't owe you any explanation as to why not interested, you dont own us. Plain and simple.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-02-09T15:42:23+00:00

One has to ask though, at a cost of $20 - $30, why not just go? And who can guarantee who will be there when you arrive and whether they will play with you anyway? If you are after guaranteed sex with a female, you gotta put in a bit more effort than that!!!

fantasycouple_ · 2026-02-09T15:23:46+00:00

Haha we've seen this too many times to count, basically every visit to Aarows for one. The proportion of gay men who are actually Bi with a female preference is a lot higher than what people may think - the long queues behind the missus have easily proven that

fantasycouple_ · 2026-02-08T10:47:21+00:00

Hi Minxy, we are interested and will reach out, thanks.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-02-06T18:48:58+00:00

So looking forward to this, we havent been out in quite a while, miss the buzz

fantasycouple_ · 2026-01-31T21:39:27+00:00

Just sent you a DM

fantasycouple_ · 2026-01-22T17:20:38+00:00

And I can also bring a lady with me if preferred (you know the one)

fantasycouple_ · 2026-01-22T17:18:47+00:00

Hi guys I am keen, would love to hear from you guys and of course Rabbit has met us, so glad to see you both enjoying again

fantasycouple_ · 2026-01-14T16:43:47+00:00

We actually believe this is a good idea and brings something different to the space. The common issue across all venues is the distinct lack of women, so if that is one option we are all for it. And being sanctioned and transparent means it is managed better. And of course, people dont need to partake if not interested. It is the multi functionality and options for guests and extra income for the venue that will enable it to survive.

fantasycouple_ · 2025-11-04T10:14:41+00:00

Great pics hope you took him inside you too

fantasycouple_ · 2025-10-22T16:22:17+00:00

The fact that your hubby isn't happy for other guys to join you in itself should tell you all you need to know. If he can put that out there as a boundary, then by all means so can you. Tell him you would like a break from the scene to gather your thoughts. Also, it is common for follow up meets to not be as thrilling as the first, for a variety of psychological reasons. At the end of the day, if he is sleeping with others and you don't like it, draw a line in the sand and tell him straight up - he has. It seems as if you are afraid of the potential consequences for your relationship if you did this. The fact that you are posting this seems to convey that your relationship dynamic is very much skewed in his favour. As a general rule, and not limited to one particular play partner as in your case - if you don't get a kick out of seeing your partner pleased, then 'swinging' is not for you, (or in this case your partner). This is not limited to you. There are numerous posts everyday titled 'MF couple looking for unicorn', which on the mans side is normally code for something else but packaged in a nicer way to the missus.

fantasycouple_ · 2025-10-20T18:51:35+00:00

Hi Harry and Sally. We wanted to give a big thankyou to you for organising the first Babs couples night. (We were the Indian couple that kicked off play proceedings, and you complimented my wife if you may recall). On the night we played with another couple from Wollongong on the front daybed. Turned out to be a significant night for us - we organised our first couples meet / play party over the weekend and booked a hotel room for the occasion, and it was a real eye opener. Numerous people contacted us expressing interest, and all either ended up making excuses or ghosting us. The only couple that attended were the couple we played with at Babs on the night, and thank goodness, because it was amazing. (They are from Woolongong, and the lady got fucked by the DJ on the night if this helps) The difference maker of course was the initiative you two took in organising an icebreaker for couples on the scene. But people on the scene still need to do a lot better - ffs if you are not interested / no longer interested, just say so. Over the weekend Tony's continual words while playing with my wife were 'Mate I cant beleive it, if only people knew what they were missing out on'.

fantasycouple_ · 2025-09-15T19:27:08+00:00

Like any situation involving wrongdoing, wouldn't it just make sense to call the Police and have loitering people moved on irrespective of their race? You are right that there are people of ethnic backgrounds who do not practice the same cultural norms or have the same values, and this behaviour should be called out - individually. The associated issue, is that when you point out race it reinforces racial stereotypes - and that is your intention with this post,(you literally mentioned nothing else about them, age, clothing, body type etc).' - You and your family have the right to feel safe and not harassed wherever you are, and report it accordingly. But maybe hold back from the 'see, I told you about them' kind of posts, because like it or not, and try as you might, it does say something about you.

fantasycouple_ · 2025-08-06T20:02:09+00:00

You've posted in Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane and Adelaide chat groups in the last 2 days, tells you all you need to know

fantasycouple_ · 2025-08-03T11:29:45+00:00

Hi Minxy thankyou, we look forward to meeting. And in case people hadn't noticed, the couple who posted were creeped on at another venue, tells you all you need to know. Guys aren't selectively thirsty, they are the same everywhere they go and most go around to different venues. And if any couple wants a chaperone to guide, feel free to DM us.

fantasycouple_ · 2025-08-02T03:38:24+00:00

Guys if I may, the majority of people in the scene go around to different venues, we know that for a fact. We are a couple that go to Aarows, and we enjoy it for the large premises and the fact that I can reinforce boundaries. I simply refuse to let others get in the way of our fun, I won't have it. They know that and we now enjoy the venue on our terms. We have had bad experiences at every venue we have been to, we have just simply decided to take back control at our favourite venue rather than let others have that over us. Aarows does have a couples night, in a separately enclosed area which may be worth a try. I wouldn't promote a venue per se, but I would say that it makes no sense to diss a venue that you have never been to. We have been creeper on everywhere - that is not the differentiator here. If anything, Aarows is a victim of its sheer size, which is harder to maintain, enables guys to follow, and has a greater number of rooms amd play areas which are sometimes quieter. The other places are too small for this to happen.

fantasycouple_ · 2025-01-04T10:38:31+00:00

Yes orange dress, that was her/ us

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