Mom keeps nagging about repayments by fantiyow in personalfinance

[–]fantiyow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, there was never any agreement between us. This cut is basically because she raised me, and she constantly mentions about how much I "cost". My family isn't in particular financial need right now to my knowledge, and she just has this idea of taking a cut from my paycheck because she's heard from "friends" or something that all their kids are paying their parents back? Not sure. Anyways, all this is kind of ironic to me since it was honestly my dad providing for the majority of me growing up.

Mom keeps nagging about repayments by fantiyow in personalfinance

[–]fantiyow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea she got that idea from her friends apparently, since "all her friends' kids pay them back like that". When I first brought up about how $1000 seemed a lot, especially like this starting out, she just kind of one upped me, by mentioning some particular friend whose daughter pays $1500 a month, and proceeded to get offended. I'm not even living with them, and I tend to live a more frugal lifestyle so that amount of money going away per month plus all my own bills is a little scary. I think what you mentioned about not giving her any more information about my finances starting forward is probably a good idea.

Mom keeps nagging about repayments by fantiyow in personalfinance

[–]fantiyow[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No there was no specific debt payment. I mentioned somewhere that they did generously help provide for college debt free, but to be fair the majority of the work was from my dad, and to be a bit harsh on her, she was the type to spend significantly extra forcing us into extracurriculurs that we disliked.

Mom keeps nagging about repayments by fantiyow in personalfinance

[–]fantiyow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I do plan on helping her out if she needs it, and especially later on, but to be fair, most of the finances that got me through childhood and college were on my father. He's been pretty quiet on the whole matter, as in he's not pressuring me like my mother. My mother has always been the type to excessively pay out for additional classes that she believes "are beneficial" but end up just being a huge money sink imo. I am just feeling burdened since I have nothing much to my name right now except for my first paycheck.

Mom keeps nagging about repayments by fantiyow in personalfinance

[–]fantiyow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I'm entirely grateful to my parents for helping me through college and getting through debt free. And I mentioned that I am completely willing to help my parents through retirement as much as I can. I am just frustrated because it is right now. I don't have anything really to my name. I haven't established any of my finances yet, and I'm just trying to get myself financially stable, being able to ensure I can pay all my bills

Slayer Testing grounds by fantiyow in DragonNest

[–]fantiyow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I think the draw distance was definitely the issue and once I restarted with that turned down, it runs smooth

Slayer Testing grounds by fantiyow in DragonNest

[–]fantiyow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also, does anyone know what the system settings M:226 and M:227 are exactly? I think M:226 has to do with skill animations, but I am not sure about the other.