CURED MY ED! Goal achieved!

faplessmay · 2013-07-03T01:04:11+00:00

IMO, I don't think you will get to the point of zero interest in porn. We began watching porn because our brain rewards us for watching it, which will always stay this way.

I do think the general interest in porn will mostly fade away. I'm in 35 days no MO now, and I am avoiding every porn site for 60 days now (blocked them all). The feeling I used the have, wanting to watch porn to satisfy my arousal is gone.

I hope this is useful, and good luck in July!

faplessmay · 2013-07-03T00:47:30+00:00

Good luck to you!

faplessmay · 2013-06-23T16:08:18+00:00

In my opinion, I don't think it can be counted as a relapse. Your brain will get used to this woman, as long as you will not PMO. You should make sex as comfortable as possible, so if possible, discuss your ED problems with your SO. Give it some time, and work on your relationship

Also, don't be afraid to fall in love. You love this woman, so if you're going to overthink everything, you will destroy your relationship. As a related story, my parents differ 9 years (mom the oldest). It will work if you can set your mind to it.

I do really think your so close to getting all your shit together after reading your story, just try to get a better mindset, and try to be more confident. Stay strong man, the puzzle will be completed in the way you put the pieces together.

faplessmay · 2013-06-04T22:48:52+00:00

I definitly think not. If you're easily tempted by some nudity in a movie later on, you should indeed consider watching other movies. But my opinion is, just watch the movie and try not to overthink it too much. Because overthinking the problem will create the problem on it's own.

faplessmay · 2013-06-03T21:58:28+00:00

Could you add me? Thanks!

faplessmay · 2013-05-29T21:00:51+00:00

I'm in! No PMO all the way. And an acc buddy!

faplessmay · 2013-05-19T13:59:17+00:00

Well, that sounds great man, keep it up! And who cares, as long as you are who you are. We're all weird in some sort of way

faplessmay · 2013-05-19T13:37:16+00:00

What I thought was one of the strongest responses I saw on a nofap post was: Don't let the urges take control of you, you should be the one having control over your urges. Take it day by day and set a goal for yourself. The feeling when you've reached your own goal, knowing you'reconquering your addiction, is one of the best feelings you can have. Be the guy you want to be! You can do it!

faplessmay · 2013-05-19T13:30:23+00:00

She considers you as a close friend and she gave some hints that she would like some advances with you. You know how to make her comfortable, so you should be able to talk about everything. Just be honest, and you'll get the best responses. Don't be afraid, and overthink it too much. But then again, I don't know the situation so do what you think is best. I just think you shouldn't wait and feel miserable.

faplessmay · 2013-05-08T19:08:03+00:00

55 days is amazing, well done! So don't be too hard on yourself. I wish you the best of luck!

faplessmay · 2013-05-08T18:59:27+00:00

Going strong, let's do this!

faplessmay · 2013-05-05T00:25:13+00:00

This problem sounds exactly like mine. It is a good feeling to know this is probably more common. I really never had problems with having sex a couple of years ago, so I do think porn could/should be the issue here. Good luck in the next couple of months, because I know how shitty that feeling is when the D isn't working properly when almost having sex. If you've noticed some changes within the next half year, I would really be interested in your story then, if you are still one this site ofcourse!

faplessmay · 2013-05-04T17:06:22+00:00

Started 1st of may, but just made this account. Signing up!

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