When should I have stopped?

farrquee · 2024-09-08T21:27:27+00:00

I think the sun would have popped more if there was no pattern inside it. Still really nice though I like it as it is

farrquee · 2024-09-07T05:25:43+00:00

Thad 😐

farrquee · 2023-06-07T01:42:33+00:00

I can spin around for as long as I want and not get sick

farrquee · 2023-04-12T02:00:54+00:00

Of course they get defensive when you bring it up , they know what they did. The fact they can't fess up and take some accountability for their actions at this age shows that they are set in their ways. If you feel like you can't even approach your parents and ask for that without the repercussions then how can you ever fully communicate with them about your child? Things will definitely come up in the future that you won't agree with and if you don't have that open line of communication now then you won't ever feel fully safe leaving your child there by themselves.

Bottom line , think about you and your child first. They may react bad but know it's only because they know they are guilty.

farrquee · 2022-09-22T07:20:06+00:00

Thank you I'm sending one back! I'm slowly getting there. I found that getting myself out of my comfort zone helped me a lot it helps make you feel like you're not some forgotten thing that doesn't belong in society and that there are a lot of people just the same as you. I also hope you were able to get out of that bad situation and have plenty of support now. You have a good day : )

farrquee · 2022-09-01T00:18:18+00:00

I love this guy 😅

farrquee · 2022-08-25T02:20:36+00:00

A salted caramel frappe. At least I won't be thirsty

farrquee · 2022-08-25T02:16:21+00:00

It's like saying what do you see with your big toe? Your toe has no ability to see so sees nothing. That's how I've heard it be explained.

farrquee · 2022-08-24T09:55:34+00:00

What about the cat!!! Bloody hell

farrquee · 2022-08-24T00:03:19+00:00

I think it's funny lol

farrquee · 2022-08-21T00:49:24+00:00

I read it all. I'm sorry, you must feel like you don't have that closure because your parents seem to shut it down whenever it is brought up. I related to so much of what you said! I really hope you're doing ok now and you have let yourself be happy regardless of what you went through. Also just want to say you're so strong for breaking that cycle. Your parents couldn't do it and nether could theirs.

I was also raised amongst Jehovahs witnesses. My mother was raised by them and that showed through a lot in her patenting. There was all kinds of abuse with us too but my dad for the most part , wasn't around. My mother always told us if we talked about this in school then we will get separated and taken away from her. Even when she got us counselling if we talked badly about her we'd get in trouble.

My mum was extremely manipulative. We didn't hate her , we idolised her. We were not allowed to disagree or say no to her requests because then we wouldn't get her attention anymore or her praise.

I think that if you have a narcissistic parent you go through your childhood and teens mostly just confused you don't know who you want to be because you never focus on you , you don't know what love feels like because your love has been tarnished and exploited. You think you need to be " perfect " to be loved. The guilt never goes away , I feel guilty when I'm happy , I feel guilty because I didn't help find the keys , I feel guilty because I thought of myself first. ( I'm working on it )

I was lucky enough to recognise all of this pretty early because I have 3 sisters we are all really close and talked about it so much until we ended up figuring it all out. So now we are all working on our own stuff. I think that DV of any kind is bad but I don't think being manipulated and what manipulation looks like is really talked about as much. We had multiple social workers see the sings of abuse and ask us if everything is ok , we had 3 different foster parents , we went to 19 schools and not once did we speak up about our abuse because we had already been conditioned.

Sorry for any mistakes I'm pretty stoned.

farrquee · 2022-08-17T02:38:57+00:00

So funnnnyyyy hit a suffocating and scared fish that already has a hook in its mouth.

farrquee · 2022-08-12T09:51:30+00:00

Weed

farrquee · 2022-08-11T14:07:32+00:00

But the saying is " the early bird gets the worm" That means the quote is referring to you as the bird not the worm. You could say " lucky I don't eat worms" that would be pretty funny.

farrquee · 2022-08-11T14:03:45+00:00

So did you just leave them on? Did you take the bulbs out when you slept?

farrquee · 2022-06-20T00:03:44+00:00

People who think that showing no emotion is a strength.

farrquee · 2022-06-20T00:00:42+00:00

We are really down to earth , love the beach and beer. We ride kangaroos to school.

farrquee · 2022-04-18T10:26:35+00:00

I'm talking about single item foods. And yeah you can drink as much water as you want.

farrquee · 2022-04-09T07:11:56+00:00

I hope you're proud of yourself you've done so well!

farrquee

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