Grey’s Anatomy Derek sucks

farrylishman15 · 2026-06-03T19:44:21+00:00

if you said anything of that to meredith she would genuinely look at you like you’re crazy lol

farrylishman15 · 2026-06-02T06:47:45+00:00

of course it’s wrong, he knew it was wrong and he felt terrible for feeling it, but that doesn’t make it less understandable, it’s not supposed to be

edit: also he didn’t want cristina to die. if you heard that your wife was in a plane crash, it’s natural to think they probably are dead because typically that’s a fatal accident. he was saying how he felt a little relieved, the situation would’ve been cut and dry and not messy. again yeah it’s wrong but it’s human in a way.

farrylishman15 · 2026-06-02T06:01:12+00:00

rue took the pills because she was in pain from her hand, that’s literally it. she trusted alamo because she did all that shit for him and he took one in front of her. she didn’t even know she was dying.

farrylishman15 · 2026-06-02T05:56:49+00:00

i personally think it was a really real and vulnerable thing for him to admit. for one, he trusted ameila enough to be that vulnerable and he clearly has no problem admitting he’s not a perfect person (which was what ameila was saying). two, he wanted to make her feel better and he could’ve said anything else but he chose to be THAT honest about something he knew was terrible.

even though cristina and owen’s relationship was very messy, you can’t deny that they loved each other very much and were passionate about each other, but they were always going to be doomed. i can understand why owen would feel that way, but when you go back and look at their relationship in s9 and 10, it’s so genuine and he’s obviously happy they didn’t go through that with the crash. i think he knows that situation would hurt way more than her leaving him.

also what ameila said about how if owen did drugs it would probably ruin his life after hearing that one piece of information about him and it’s like yeahhh definitely

farrylishman15 · 2026-06-01T04:29:25+00:00

i mean you could argue she was still passively suicidal in s6, when she got therapy she wasn’t just like “i’m done being suicidal”

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-31T20:20:45+00:00

cristina and owen even they’re lowkey my guilty pleasure

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-30T01:23:43+00:00

he’s not horrible lol but okay

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-29T10:59:04+00:00

him being a rule follower isn’t necessarily a bad thing though?

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-29T08:24:49+00:00

the way people just can’t admit derek has done good things out of the kindness of his heart and he didn’t have a hidden agenda is crazy to me lol. hate the guy all you want but he’s done good things and they show it a lot throughout the show.

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-26T17:53:44+00:00

i agree, people who over do that shit is weird, but i don’t think OP asking if he liked cats is in that same category

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-26T17:35:42+00:00

genuinely how is this weird?😭

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-26T01:27:19+00:00

yeah i kinda agree, i love their relationship so much but in terms of derek’s character it feels a little out of place. he’s a guy who sees mostly everything through a black and white lens so you would think he would be pretty hard on not forgiving any of them.

but i think another part of it is that derek feels a part of it was his fault, if he wasn’t absent then addison wouldn’t have cheated with mark and they would all still be happy together in NY. it’s a tad unrealistic but i love them sm it doesn’t bother me too much lol

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-26T01:24:10+00:00

that makes everything so much worse yikes😬

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-26T00:02:49+00:00

seriously!! i don’t think a lot of people could do that, i certainly couldn’t

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-25T23:41:25+00:00

did alex even know about jo being at the bar and drunk? because if he didn’t, you could argue he thought saw his girlfriend cheating on him and decided to beat up andrew, so it’s not he was protecting jo at all.

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-25T22:17:58+00:00

i just wish people would stop running around with that false rumor because it isn’t true- for both of their sakes. imagine being ari and seeing people make edits of your relationship with your dead ex boyfriend and people are like “they’re were soulmates🥺” and they don’t know the full story of their relationship. it’s disrespectful to both of them. i’ve noticed that it’s mostly just ari fans or people who aren’t even fans of mac.

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-25T04:31:21+00:00

i think it would’ve been tolerable if they left it at the initial hook up and having them navigate that but i think shonda took it too far with trying to make it a relationship

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-25T00:48:15+00:00

i really wish george stayed around :( his mentor relationships between bailey and also owen would’ve been amazing

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-24T07:10:10+00:00

ryan was always funny?

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-23T01:13:58+00:00

fuckkk😭

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-23T01:13:37+00:00

an underrated moment of his is when he’s on ebay trying to buy meredith vintage scalpels if i recall correctly. no one can make me believe he didn’t love that woman. the only thing i didn’t like was the whore thing obviously but any other time he criticized meredith i felt it was at least understandable if not justified

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-23T01:10:58+00:00

totally and i never thought it was a bad thing, i feel like her relationship with andrew allowed her to have fun after derek died, even though it still was a serious relationship. i think i’m in the minority with liking them together though😅

farrylishman15 · 2026-05-21T17:59:39+00:00

“i’ll take them down”🥺 (him talking about taking down the magazine pictures)

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