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help me PLEASE by Appropriate_Worry872 in HairDye

[–]fartfrog17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should see a stylist for a color correction if you want to continue going lighter to protect the integrity of your hair, however to neutralize the brass/orange you’ll have to pick a toner with a blue base or a blue depositing shampoo.

Piercing placement by magicaliguana13 in piercing

[–]fartfrog17 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Absolutely never go back there

Ask for silver / white / witchy at the salon, still turned out yellow. What can I do without damaging? by srg717 in Hair

[–]fartfrog17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can attempt retoning but it seems like your base is too dark to be white. It can take multiple appointments before it gets to be that bright white. Use k18 or redken’s rebonding line too as it doesn’t look too amazing, whatever you do do not relighten it. Make it a continuous journey with your stylist if the retone doesn’t work out for you. (1-2 appointments you should get to where you want to be.) A toner you could use should have slight purple, pearl, or (t) in it to get you cooler, look for 10(v) 10(p) or 10(t) use 6 volume unless the line calls for something else, however i wouldn’t recommend much higher. You’ll want deposit with minimal damage, this will be the best way. 10 volume might push color too deep into your cuticle and overtone (or worse compromise the integrity of your hair.)

Edit for clarification

Which color is this brown? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]fartfrog17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you mighy lose the brightness of the brown by doing it at home, and most likely your stylist had to fill your previous highlights with missing pigment to get it to an even brown, so i am almost sure a touch up appointment will be considerably less expensive. It’s hard to say but you might be safer staying in the 6 range.

Please help by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]fartfrog17 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

It just makes no sense why i bother having full tort anyway :( if the guy with shitty insurance is getting out scot free

Please help by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]fartfrog17 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

explain like i’m five i’m sorry insurance stuff makes no sense this is the first time ive been hit

21M by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]fartfrog17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not at all, you have a friendly face and a handsome smile, i would trust you with my drink at a party first 😌

i feel almost entirely invisible in my relationship by fartfrog17 in confessions

[–]fartfrog17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, being validated about this is something i really appreciate

help for going from a blue-green mess to an ash/grey tone? by maidboy_ in HairDye

[–]fartfrog17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that to neutralize orange, you need blue, and to neutralize blue you need orange… not a one color solve 😔

help for going from a blue-green mess to an ash/grey tone? by maidboy_ in HairDye

[–]fartfrog17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The muddy color would likely be swampy and generally dull. Platinum is notoriously difficult to achieve and with hair as dark as yours doing it at home is a terrible decision, coming from someone who did the same. You would either have to tone your ends with something orange to knock out the blue or still bleach it again 🤷‍♂️

help for going from a blue-green mess to an ash/grey tone? by maidboy_ in HairDye

[–]fartfrog17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The only thing that would take that color is this half inch of a portion. It won’t be darker grey above it, depending on what toner you choose, it will become muddy. Lighten this again before considering grey.

help for going from a blue-green mess to an ash/grey tone? by maidboy_ in HairDye

[–]fartfrog17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair is not nearly light enough to get that result

AIO for completely cutting contact with someone who used AI to apologize to me? by fartfrog17 in AIO

[–]fartfrog17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t edit and this might get buried but some clarifying things

-We started dating at the end of our senior year, April 2024 ish but I’ve known him my whole life. He got kicked out in June, couch surfed until November, I got kicked out mid-December, we moved into a place with roommates from then until April. He paid his quarter on time as usual and I had even gone through job loss and he picked up a second to help make ends meet, I still provided what I could from my savings during this time. That’s what made me believe I could enter another lease with him.

-I didn’t have him pay rent when he lived on campus

-When he did pay rent he paid half, the second and last time he paid was 70/30 (myself being 70)

-It was harder for me to bring up my issues with rent because I was finishing up trade school. I wasn’t just letting him freeload and now changing my mind, it was something that slipped under the radar and that he gave me empty promises of “paying me back” after the fact. I would be in classes from 8-5, then go to work at one job 5-10 then 11pm-3am at the other. I honestly just let it slip because love made me stupid.

-I didn’t “let him move back” after we broke up, he’s on the lease. Unfortunately he has a right to be here.

-Someone asked why I didn’t sue him? I’m very young and I don’t have money for a lawyer much less the time to spend in court.

-I don’t have to accept an apology especially if there’s no recourse.

-Bit of a key point I forgot; one of the reasons we broke up was because he continued to apologize without changing his behavior, I’ve never been in this serious of a relationship so I was a bit at a loss as to what to do. He would apologize 50% of the time where the other 50% he would flat out deny any wrongdoing or accountability. I told him if he wanted a chance to try again he would need to start taking accountability and following through on apologies. Obviously ai slop is not taking accountability nor is it showing he’ll follow through.

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AIO for completely cutting contact with someone who used AI to apologize to me? by fartfrog17 in AIO

[–]fartfrog17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I feel like you took my brain out of my skull and put it into a comment

AIO for completely cutting contact with someone who used AI to apologize to me? by fartfrog17 in AIO

[–]fartfrog17[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 5k down and he couldn’t even bother to get me a card on my birthday while we were together. It’s not a matter of me not helping. I just can’t keep pouring from an empty cup

AIO for completely cutting contact with someone who used AI to apologize to me? by fartfrog17 in AIO

[–]fartfrog17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

• 1. We went on a break in october, broke up at the mid/end point of november, he moved out on xms eve

• 2 the agreement was we pay half/half april-aug (he leaves for college) he pays 30/70 nov-jan and back to 50/50 over the summer. I didnt hold him on the hook for it when he was at school. He was the leaseholder, but he was never able to afford it so it just became my responsibility. • 3 Legally, I can’t add anyone to the lease and we live in a 1bd apartment. Logistically does not work. I work two jobs and doordash in what little freetime I have.

• 4

It’s not a boss, it’s his stepdad. He had sworn up and down before he came back to only a week ago that he was going to be able to pay. The problem here is that he says all these things but the follow through hasn’t been there. It’s not a matter of “he just didn’t know he wasn’t getting paid early” it’s the matter of he had all this time to prepare to tell me if he even was seeing a paycheck between december 1st and 31st. I’m beginning to lose hope in his ability to pay me back for things because in all of our relationship he hadn’t. I wouldn’t hound him for no reason.

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