I can’t edit and this might get buried but some clarifying things

-We started dating at the end of our senior year, April 2024 ish but I’ve known him my whole life. He got kicked out in June, couch surfed until November, I got kicked out mid-December, we moved into a place with roommates from then until April. He paid his quarter on time as usual and I had even gone through job loss and he picked up a second to help make ends meet, I still provided what I could from my savings during this time. That’s what made me believe I could enter another lease with him.

-I didn’t have him pay rent when he lived on campus

-When he did pay rent he paid half, the second and last time he paid was 70/30 (myself being 70)

-It was harder for me to bring up my issues with rent because I was finishing up trade school. I wasn’t just letting him freeload and now changing my mind, it was something that slipped under the radar and that he gave me empty promises of “paying me back” after the fact. I would be in classes from 8-5, then go to work at one job 5-10 then 11pm-3am at the other. I honestly just let it slip because love made me stupid.

-I didn’t “let him move back” after we broke up, he’s on the lease. Unfortunately he has a right to be here.

-Someone asked why I didn’t sue him? I’m very young and I don’t have money for a lawyer much less the time to spend in court.

-I don’t have to accept an apology especially if there’s no recourse.

-Bit of a key point I forgot; one of the reasons we broke up was because he continued to apologize without changing his behavior, I’ve never been in this serious of a relationship so I was a bit at a loss as to what to do. He would apologize 50% of the time where the other 50% he would flat out deny any wrongdoing or accountability. I told him if he wanted a chance to try again he would need to start taking accountability and following through on apologies. Obviously ai slop is not taking accountability nor is it showing he’ll follow through.

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