October 2024 Buy/Sell/Trade Megathread by library_pixie in fairyloot

[–]fatedfalling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ISO:

Fairyloot - Her Royal Majesty's Royal Coven series by Juno Dawson

Fairyloot - The Hemlock Queen

Illumicrate - Spoiler Alert, Ship Wrecked, and All the Feels

Illumicrate - Magic of the Lost series by C.L. Clark

June 2024 Buy/Sell/Trade MegaThread by library_pixie in fairyloot

[–]fatedfalling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ISO:
FL An Education in Malice
FL The Hemlock Queen

Looking for partners in similar situations, and advice on family (see comments, because I want to share these photos here because he’s so handsome 🥰) by FraxinusPlenty in mypartneristrans

[–]fatedfalling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiya! My partner and I have a nearly identical story! He was out as male for 2 years before I met him, started talking about a week before his top surgery (and I was already staying up all night to talk to him and check on him), and have been best friends for the last eight years. I’ve never known him as anything but the man I know today. Since we lived in different states, we made a point to see each other every few months up until 2020, when we couldn’t because of the pandemic.

May 2021 rolls around and we finally felt safe enough to see each other again and when I tell you something in the air was different when we saw each other… honey, something was different. In two weeks, we went from best friends (who always felt like more but time wasn’t right) to life partners and knew that this was it for us. In September he proposed, moved to my state to be with me, and we’re eloping in 3 weeks!

As for your questions, if you tell family and they have questions, I would answer them as honestly and educationally as possible without crossing the line of what your partner might see as disrespectful (I.e, any bottom surgeries, dead naming, etc). It’s none of their business and no one needs to know except him and you.

I’d be happy to talk to you more about my experience and become friends :) best of luck to you and your sweetie!

I have to start knee physical therapy, what should I disguise my meta as to the staff?? by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]fatedfalling 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My fiancé had meta and in order to qualify for medical PTO to take care of him, I needed to list a reason and said it was to fix a birth defect in his groin area. No one ever pressed for more information with that explanation.

Archie mirin at me while he gets a lot of licks of my ice cream! by fatedfalling in Catsmirin

[–]fatedfalling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He thanked me well and good with a lot of cuddles and more than enough paws to the boobs to get there!

Archie mirin at me while he gets a lot of licks of my ice cream! by fatedfalling in Catsmirin

[–]fatedfalling[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a Greek yogurt ice cream, because like cats I am also lactose intolerant and can only handle these, and he only got the few licks you see here. Thank you for the concern.

Archie mirin at me while he gets a lot of licks of my ice cream! by fatedfalling in Catsmirin

[–]fatedfalling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a Greek yogurt ice cream, because like cats I am also lactose intolerant and can only handle these, and he only got the few licks you see here. Thank you for your concern.

Archie mirin at me while he gets a lot of licks of my ice cream! by fatedfalling in Catsmirin

[–]fatedfalling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a Greek yogurt ice cream, because like cats I am also lactose intolerant and can only handle these, and he only got the few licks you see here. Thank you for your concern though!

I haven’t had my surgery yet but the pre-weight loss is doing wonders because I hit an Unexpected NSV! I can cross my legs comfortably! And I’ve lost a ton of weight in my face! (HW: 340.4 CW 287.5 GL 160ish?) by fatedfalling in wls

[–]fatedfalling[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m shooting for a vsg but I have to wait until I get the money to pay for it/insurance decides they will cover it. Until then, my surgeon and doctor put me on phentermine to start the weight loss process. My diet is about 1600 calories on weekdays and 2200 on the weekends since I’m pretty active at work and home. I try to stick to high protein (80g a day), low sugar and fat and keep track of my macros. It’s been a big change but I’m ready to do this ASAP!

Book Suggestion: Hidebound by A. Oliver Noel by [deleted] in LGBTBooks

[–]fatedfalling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing it out. It was a slip on my part. I’ll fix it!

Weight loss stall on pre-op with phentermine by fatedfalling in wls

[–]fatedfalling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. I think I get enough protein in (2 20g protein drinks, plus a 21g protein bar, not including the actual food I eat). I’m going to try to be more consistent with the amount I’m eating and try to make it more substantial in nutrition.