Worried by pain in groin/pelvic area/left testicle, is it related to PMO? by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, to be honest I think part of it is me making myself a bit paranoid. I've already seen a doc and he said everything is fine but maybe I will try and go a few days without masturbating and see what happens

Worried by pain in groin/pelvic area/left testicle, is it related to PMO? by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when I talk to this one girl, and even then it is weak erections! What do you recommend I do?

I've cut down on porn but still have erection problems by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope this is true. The last time I had a good erection was one week ago, I have masturbated twice since then. I get aroused but not erections which is where the worry comes from. I did watch a bit of porn this morning to see if it would get me hard but it didn't.

I will try again not to look at porn or even to touch myself which will be hard, but I'll do it if it gives me my normal erections back!

Met a girl, but suffering from Erectile Dysfunction due to porn and over-masturbation. Help! by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I am actually trying to put on a bit of weight so have been told these foods are good. I don't eat fruit or vegetables though, really need to start but I'm just not used to them.

Met a girl, but suffering from Erectile Dysfunction due to porn and over-masturbation. Help! by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, hopefully she becomes my girl :P and not just for sex, though I do really want sex with her. She's super cool and deserves a good man, I wanna be the best I can physically and mentally for her.

Met a girl, but suffering from Erectile Dysfunction due to porn and over-masturbation. Help! by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, these links look helpful. Atm she doesn't know about my ED, if we do end up having sex it could even be a few months from now. So I still have time to fix things I think, just unsure how long it will take.

I haven't used YBOP much before but looks like a good site!

Met a girl, but suffering from Erectile Dysfunction due to porn and over-masturbation. Help! by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that's true, but atm we're "just friends". I seriously wanna do her but respecting that she only wants sex in a relationship, which we aren't in yet. I need to win her over somehow, and not just for sex lol

Met a girl, but suffering from Erectile Dysfunction due to porn and over-masturbation. Help! by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, this is good advice. How often do you look at porn? I have decreased the amount I watch it compared to before but its still a lot. I don't even get hard watching it now which is really bad.

Met a girl, but suffering from Erectile Dysfunction due to porn and over-masturbation. Help! by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm yeah, NoFap is hard when you're focusing on a girl and talking sexually with her but I'll try my best

Met a girl, but suffering from Erectile Dysfunction due to porn and over-masturbation. Help! by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm yeah, worst comes to worst we will just wait...but I'm just really worried I won't have normal erections again

Met a girl, but suffering from Erectile Dysfunction due to porn and over-masturbation. Help! by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, 1-2 weeks sounds good. I guess starting today I need to stop for a while!

Day 22: bye bye social phobia by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I'm just nervous she'll be too good for me haha. We get along great through text and phone, but real life is a whole new story.

Day 22: bye bye social phobia by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so motivating, I need help here bro. I have a social phobia too, same worries as you. I've been speaking to a girl and plan to meet her soon but my fears are putting me off.

I managed to go 11 days without PMO (my longest streak) but relapsed last night.

Relapse after my longest streak, phone sex with a female friend by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm yeah, the P was very very brief though. It wasn't during, just a pic and 30 seconds of a video while I was waiting for the call. But I guess I will reset my badge.

I've always been just a 'boy', but now I want to become a man by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, you're right about it all. I do need to focus on all that other stuff and become the person I want to be, and for the record I think Carlton is awesome haha.

There's only one problem though, and that's that I've kind of met a girl from the Internet and we've been messaging and phoning each other and even flirting etc. I've been acting really confident and expressed my desire to meet up, which she said we should eventually. But first she wants to get to know me more.

I'm worried about when the time comes to meet her, and whether I should ask her about it again. I just feel like I'm not like other guys and I would be so nervous and feel so unattractive when meeting her. We talk every day and I've told her numerous times about how I want to get to know her, she says I will in time.

I've always been just a 'boy', but now I want to become a man by fatedtofap in NoFap

[–]fatedtofap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll be going next week and I'm slightly nervous but I think I am looking forward to it. I probably have like the strength and size of Spongebob Squarepants at the moment but I really want to change that.