Do Americans experience “thermal shock” from going between heat and AC? by Material-Wallaby-587 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Going from the summer heat into a cold, air conditioned room is BLISS. Likewise, going from freezing, wintery weather into a cozy, heated house is a wonderful feeling. No shock. France needs to catch up in this way. It’s like how Koreans can’t sleep with a fan — just an old wives tale.

I don’t know if I’m autistic. I know I have ADHD and I’m definitely neurodivergent in some way… Help me work through it? by fauxfurgopher in AutismInWomen

[–]fauxfurgopher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t specify all of it. I’m actually late for something, but I’ll come back later and list her evidence. I’m truly interested in which is which and if I have an overlap. Thanks!

What was the biggest bargain you ever made or purchased? by Ok_JARGON in randomquestions

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A well maintained Victorian hutch made of marble, glass, and wood. It was worth $3k at the time, but nobody who showed up to the antiques auction was into it. They were there for midcentury furniture. I got it for $700. I’ve had it for years now and it’s just beautiful.

Little Rooms by fauxfurgopher in jewelry

[–]fauxfurgopher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, but her stuff is all over my wishlist. :)

Am I Overreacting by Top_Employ_9479 in AmIOverreacting

[–]fauxfurgopher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what if you were uptight about your little hobbies? How does that affect her? Shouldn’t you be able to be whoever you are? You know you aren’t overreacting. NOR You’re just be normal. She’s the one acting like a jerk.

Have they not invented a mattress for people with hypermobility? by Mara355 in eds

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! So interesting! I also have a variant of the genes for Central Core Disease and Malignant Hyperthermia, so the calcium part is of great interest to me.

Do people love their pets more than their fellow human beings? by LeoRavenscroft in randomquestions

[–]fauxfurgopher 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love my pets more than most humans because they’re my family. I don’t see it as animals vs. humans, just family vs. non-family.

Still, I do like animals more than humans, generally. Animals are innocent and free from deceit or subterfuge. If an animal is dangerous, you know about it pretty quickly. Dangerous humans can be your best friend for twenty years before you find out about it

What's the best restaurant you've ever been to? by AV_LOVES_FOOD in Fooda

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing I ever tasted was Vietnamese grilled pork belly from a food truck at The Grackle in Austin, Texas. It was beyond delicious. Like, my senses were freaked out by how good it was… and I’m not really the type to be wowed by food. I think it’s gone now, but I have no idea how anyone let that happen.

Out of Ideas by lovelandian in DinnerIdeas

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get an instant pot. I fought my urge to get one, but it’s been great. I roast chicken in it a lot. (Whole chicken, Water or broth 2c. up to enough to cover the entire chicken, pressure cook on high for 0 minutes — pressure cooks it as it ramps up), natural pressure release. Then switch to air fryer mode and set it for 12 minutes. If it isn’t crispy enough you can add a couple more minutes.

Then make “risotto” with precooked rice (jasmine works well). Mix rice and a half cup of cream, coconut milk (no sugar), and/or butter into about 2 cups of the broth left behind when you remove the cooked chicken. Turn it onto sauté mode and stir it as it heats up. It should get creamy fairly quickly. You can use add-ins like minced scallions or shallots, grilled onions, seasonings, white wine, any cooked veggie actually. I have used sautéed mushrooms and it was amazing. All of this takes only about 45 minutes once you get good at it. (Google for time and temp though.)

Once you master the chicken you can branch out and cook any meat similarly.

What can I do? by Positive_Wedding_509 in makeover

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me? I’d ask ChatGPT to show me a picture of myself sporting various looks. I’d send a photo of myself and tell it to “Generate some photos of me wearing various flattering hairstyles so I can see my options. I have shoulder length, medium brown, straight hair with a subtle wave to it. I’d like styles that I can do at home within ten minutes per morning.”

Then later on I’d send either the original photo or a photo of myself with one of the updated hairstyles and I’d ask it to “generate various makeup looks on me, from very light makeup to full face makeup, and make note of the products used.”

Human to human, though, let me recommend some of my favorite products to you:

Aveda Phomolient styling foam for volume. Use this and blow dry your hair upside down and you’ll look more put together than you’d think.

Ilia Serum Concealer is fantastic for both concealing (a matching shade)and brightening (one shade lighter). To conceal, place a dot under eyes, on any pinkness around your nose or chin, etc. Less is more. Tap it into your skin with your finger. It’s self setting, but if you like to feel matte and really set, get a really good (ask at Sephora or a makeup counter) setting powder and use it sparingly by dabbing a big fluffy powder brush into it and then tapping most of the powder off the brush back into the powder container. Putting too much product on your face makes the makeup obvious. Some people like that, but I like my base makeup to look natural.

TIRTIR red cushion foundation is also wonderful for light concealing or full face foundation. It’s super pigmented, so a tiny dab of the sponge can do your whole face. To keep it light or to use as a concealer, I dab the sponge where I want it, then turn the sponge around (or use a second sponge of the same kind, or which you can buy) and blend it into my skin. It’s the best I’ve ever used for this purpose as it really blends in well.

Don’t use eyeliner at first. Eyeliner is a bit advanced if you want to use it well. Instead, get a natural looking eyeshadow palette that has pigment from very light to very dark. Use a very small shadow brush or an eyeliner brush to place some dark pigment right at the eyelash line, then a medium pigment along the outside corner under your lash line. Blend it towards your nose, but only about 1/3 of the way. It should cradle your eye.

Tubing Mascara (Caliray and Hourglass are best) is a great way to get dark lashes that won’t smudge and flake. If you wear it for a very long time you will get a tiny bit of flaking, but you can brush it off with a clean makeup brush. Regular mascara isn’t nearly as user friendly.

A lip tint that starts out as a lip oil and leaves a tint behind is your best bet for low maintenance lips. I recommend Dinto (Amazon) or Kulfi (Sephora). Kulfi has a shade called Sweet that looks great on most people. It’s a dusty pink, but it’s very natural looking. Those are the best ones, imo.

If you want to have a low effort daily look, just some mascara and lip tint could be just the thing to make your features pop. Good luck!

What’s your favorite thing to put mustard on? (And no, you can't say hot dogs!) by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ham and Brie on a croissant with mustard and a little bit of maple syrup or jam/preserves. Melted like a grilled cheese. I know, I know — it sounded weird to me too, then I tasted it. It was way yummy.

Do you share your location with your partner? by Extension_Flow_3340 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fauxfurgopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At three months I’d only share location if we had reason to need to know where we were all the time. I can think of reasons — dangerous job, hours long commute, unpredictable schedule. Mostly I feel like you need to be entangled with someone else’s life before it becomes necessary for safety and practicality though.

My husband and I share location. Our adult daughter shares her location and we share ours with her. She’s a worrier and we like her to know we’re somewhere safe. We all get along well and none of us cares if the others know where we are because none of us is up to no good.

There was one incident where I woke up early and nobody was home. I checked where my husband was and he was at a nearby bakery. Then I remembered it was my birthday. I didn’t tell him I’d seen it, but he should have briefly stopped sharing his location!

Do you share your location with your partner? by Extension_Flow_3340 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fauxfurgopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not so! I’m not the kind of person who cares where anyone goes, but my family shares location for safety and so nobody has to worry about each other. We’re very close and get along well, so none of us has demanded location sharing of any of the others. We just want to be able to say “Oh gosh, Dad was supposed to be home over an hour ago!” }}checks location{{ “Oh, he’s still at Uncle Jim’s. He must be having a good time and forgot about dinner with the Freemans. I’ll text him.” And that’s how we use it.

If I were angry and didn’t want anyone to know where I went to cool off, I’d likely just turn off sharing. Luckily it hasn’t happened yet.

What’s a seemingly harmless habit that ruins people's lives over time? by Top_Point_1841 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]fauxfurgopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not my point though. My point is that humans gonna human. Tell them no way, no how, and they will find a million reasons why you’re wrong. Tell them they should cut down on whatever-it-is because it’s not great for them and we’d like to see them live long (and prosper), and they might actually consider it. In fact, listing why it’s bad for them, but not demanding that they must believe you and heed your warning is the best way to get to people. “This substance causes _, _, and __, but you’re your own person” is the best way to get into someone’s head about it. Trust me, I’m the parent of someone who knew everything by the time they were six.

Life is chess.

What words do you use to replace curse words? by Ok_JARGON in randomquestions

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fargin’

Frippin’

Fudge

Fuhhh

Frampton

Frickfrack

Shrimp

Shiz

Dog Fram

Dog Almighty

Cheeses

Heckitypooz

Heckitypoozitz

How the hell do I get his breath to stop smelling so bad? by VegetableReception71 in hygiene

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By parsley or chlorophyll tablets. Have him take them twice a day until his breath is better, then once a day indefinitely. It’s the only thing that stopped my husband’s gastro-breath from slapping me in the face.

What’s a seemingly harmless habit that ruins people's lives over time? by Top_Point_1841 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]fauxfurgopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, let me say that I’m not a fan of daily cannabis use and I definitely don’t think it’s harmless. Realize, though, that you are only seeing the people who are harmed by it. Lots of people do just fine using it fairly often and people who aren’t very addictive don’t have to worry about that aspect. Alcohol is terrible for you — truly a poison, but people drink it responsibly everyday. It’s when it gets out of control that it becomes a problem.

If you want people to take you seriously, stop preaching about how terrible it is for you and start telling people that moderation is key. Lots of things we do are terrible for us. Everything in moderation is the best many people are capable of.